At what point did you notice that your parents were getting older?

When I was in college, I found that my parents were getting older when I came home from vacation, because when I went to school, my parents' hair was still relatively dark, but after I came back, I felt that my parents' gray hair was a lot more, and it was also very distressing, because my parents really paid too much for our growth, so at that moment, I felt that my parents were really getting old.

When I was in high school, my family didn't have a car when I was in high school, and then every time at the end of the semester, we had to take the quilt and clothes home, and it would be very difficult for us to take the bus back. When I was on the bus, my dad was always covered with a lot of bags, and I felt that she looked very tired when she carried it, and she didn't walk as fast as before, and then her pace was very slow. At that time, I felt that he was really old, and sometimes there were big things in our quarrels, and sometimes I had a very big temper, but he wouldn't say anything anymore, he would just be very sad, or sigh very calmly.

It's when I see my parents' hair turn gray, and at that moment I find that my parents are old, already old, and can't do something, and I think sometimes we should understand our parents and try our best to help them do something so that they don't have to work so hard.

When I accidentally looked at my parents' heads and found a trace of gray hair, I found that my parents seemed to be old, and felt that they were no longer young and no longer so vibrant. So now it's working on it.

At some point, I found out that my parents were getting older, for example, when I came home, I found that my mother had a lot more gray hair on her head, and in this case, I felt that my parents were really getting old, because I found that my mother didn't have so many gray hairs on her head, and after seeing it, I was very distressed.

Sometimes you may not notice this problem in your life, but you will find this problem inadvertently, for example, sometimes you will find that your parents' hair has turned gray and they need to dye their hair often to not see the gray hair, or sometimes you see their wrinkles have deepened, or you can see that their back has become bent, and Dad's height is not as majestic as before.

I only go home twice a year because I studied abroad, and at the dinner table once, I suddenly noticed that when my parents laughed, there were a lot of essays on the corners of their mouths, and at that moment I realized that they were really old. They've put so much effort into this home. Really paid a lot for me.

I find my parents getting older many times, but I feel that they will always be young in my heart because I think they are very strong, they bring me a lot of fun, and they can give me advice in life, and they will always be my support.

First, at the moment when I got married and married far away, I realized that my parents were old and could not be by their side as children.

My parents were generous and honest, and they never lived a prosperous life in their lives, but they did not make the three of us suffer a little, and they used their strong shoulders to shelter us from the wind and rain and provide for us to go to college. Later, after I got married, I couldn't go home once for many years because of the distance where I got married. When I went home this year, I found that my parents were obviously much older and had become sentimental.

At that moment, I knew that filial piety must be done as soon as possible, so that my parents can have a happy and healthy old age.

Second, my parents have more and more gray hair, and their faces have become wrinkled.

My parents were also young, but they both gave their youth and time to their children, and when I found that my parents' gray hair gradually increased, even if they dyed their hair, I realized that the years had not let them go. Sometimes I really want time to slow down, even if I use my time to keep my parents' time, everything is worth it.

Third, the parents' health is gradually not as good as before, and they can no longer do without medicine.

My parents were too tired when they were young, so they also had some sequelae and had to be hospitalized every once in a while, and they were very anxious as children. We all want our parents to be healthy forever, but often things backfire, time is always merciless, and we can't keep our parents from getting old even if we try our best. Therefore, I can only use the rest of my life to compensate my parents, which is the only thing I can do as a child.

I work in other places, sometimes for days or months without seeing my parents. I once suddenly found that my mother's hair roots were white a lot, in fact, my parents' hair has long been gray, and every time I go home, my parents deliberately dye it black, and I always feel that they are not old. As far as I can remember, they all had black hair.

My eyes were wet when I saw it. It was as if they had been swept away by their previous black hair. When I'm older, I always feel like time flies so fast.

Forget the time, forget to find money, forget to pull out the key......These scenes are often overlooked by children, who often do not realize that their parents have Alzheimer's disease until later in the course of the disease.

One of the early manifestations of senile dementia is memory impairment, which can manifest as loss.

Fourth, forget after speaking, ask the same question repeatedly, etc. When parents have these minor conditions, they should not take them seriously, but should take them to the hospital for diagnosis as soon as possible.

Even if you are sure that you are not an old idiot, you should take precautions, encourage the elderly to go out more activities and communicate, and do some puzzle games.

My hair is getting grayer and grayer, and I often cry out about low back pain. When my mother had surgery, I looked at her in her fifties but she was already full of gray hair, and I don't know if it was because of the white hair inherited from the family or because she was too stressed, she wanted to talk a lot, and finally I just wanted to say, listen to them, don't always disobey them, let them be happy. I used to be very rebellious, but now I really want to go back to the past and slap myself when I quarreled with my parents.

In these moments of discovering that our parents are "getting old", we see the irresistibility of time and the irreversibility of the years, and at the same time, we also feel that no matter how hard the reality is, the love of our parents is still integrated in the meantime, giving us the strength to mature and grow up.

"Growing old" is not an opportunity for parents and children to see each other in life, reflect each other, and then warm each other.

It has been said that the best thing in the world is:

I have grown up, and you are not old;

I have the power to repay you, and you are still healthy.

When our parents no longer care about us, when we want to smoke and drink, when our parents don't interfere, when our parents look at us like we looked at them when we were children, when our parents say that they want you to go home and see it and are embarrassed to say it......

Many times in life, I inadvertently found that my parents were old, very sad and sad, my mother washed her hair, helped my mother dye her hair, and found that my mother had a lot of gray hair, and my father could not use a smartphone, and sometimes it was easy to forget things.

When I saw my parents with more and more gray hairs on their heads and slower and slower movements, I felt that my parents were getting older.

When you see gray hair in your parents' hair.

That day, when the results came out after the high school entrance examination, my mother looked at my unbearable score and just said nothing. The tears that slipped from her eyes happened to hit my eyes, and I clearly found that there were wrinkles around her eyes again, and my father sighed helplessly, but at that second, I found that they were really old.

Probably, the increasing gray hair between the parents' hair, and the marks of the years on their faces, began to become more and more nagging.

I asked for a moment that I felt that my parents were getting old, and it was the moment I stepped out of the house to go to work, he and she were retired, and they just waited for their children to come home from work and chatted every day. Why don't you arrange time to spend time with them earlier, love will never be separated!

In my 20s. I'm slowly becoming sensible. At that time I thought. My parents got old.

Whenever there is a problem or problem, parents habitually give advice or guidance on how to deal with it, but now that there is a matter, the parents are silent, no longer express their opinions or suggestions, and even say, you see how to deal with this matter.

When I talked to my mother, she always said the wrong thing and turned her ears back.

I'm going to pant a lot when I walk a little bit, and the wrinkles on my face on my hands will listen to my advice

You suddenly find that they are struggling to work. It's like a 20-year-old is the same as a 30-year-old you, and it feels completely different.

Slowly growing up, I saw the gray hair of my parents.

One day he suddenly cried out in front of me, suddenly sighed about life, and suddenly said to me things that I had never heard before.

Climbing the mountain together, the physical strength of the parents has decreased significantly.

Began to grow gray hair.

Began to wrinkle.

Started backache and leg pain.

Become like a child and love to get angry.

At what point did you notice that your parents were getting older? When the parents' faces quietly change.

There are college students who are working hard: One morning during the winter vacation, I accompanied my father to buy vegetables on a whim, and the vegetable market was all done with acquaintances, and I watched my father pick and choose among the enthusiastic greetings of the vendors. When I was about to call me away, the girl who weighed me suddenly shouted to my father:

Uncle, wait a minute, there will be fresh beans soon! "I'm shocked, uncle? Looking at my father again, it is true that his temples are gray ......

I'm Xiao Zhan's brother: one day I came home and saw my mother clumsily dyeing her hair with inferior hair dye, and she proudly showed me that the hair dye was made with Aunt Zhang downstairs, less than 30 yuan, and the effect was better than that of the barbershop. This was the first time I knew that she had started dyeing her hair, and it turned out that my mother's black hair was not taken for granted.

When the parents finally admit that they can't do it.

Zhang Qiangqiang: Ji Jikai's mother sent me a WeChat message one day saying that she couldn't seem to see things recently, and I was suddenly very scared and wanted to cry. My mother is old, but I have achieved nothing myself, and I have not even done anything worthy of her pride......

Promise: I remember when I was a child, my father liked to drink a little wine, usually a pot of wine, plus a small plate of peanuts, in the past few years, I have closed his hair and found that he began to think that peanuts are too hard, always said that his teeth are useless!

The bridge is close to the end of the world: when I was a child, my mother took me for a walk to exercise, and my mother walked fast, and I always complained: "Mom, slow down, I can't keep up!" "Yesterday I walked with her in the neighborhood, and she said twice on the way: "You walk so fast, I'm so tired to follow." ”

When parents put down their favors and consciously maintain them.

Early Summer: When it was time to eat, Dad took the initiative not to eat so much rice, and he didn't want to eat any too much meat. He used to love to cook all kinds of big fish and meat.

He was really starting to grow old, so much so that the feedback from his body made him voluntarily compromise his appetite, and this feeling touched the door in my heart that I didn't want to face but was caught off guard, and I even miss the time when he could eat and cook, and the time when he was full of the smell of food.

For me, I realized that my parents were getting old after I walked out of school. When I left my hometown to go to college, I started to find that they became more tired and wanted more time off. When I eat at home, they keep reminding me to put my phone down and eat properly.

These details show that he no longer has the energy and stamina that he once had. And when I was with my friends and listening to them tell their stories about their parents, I suddenly realized that my parents were getting older with them.

I am deeply concerned to see my parents constantly seeking material comfort without protecting their physical health accordingly. Even though their parents are over 60 years old, they are still taking care of their grandmother. Every time I see them, I firmly remind them to take good care of themselves and self-filial piety, because they are so important.

Indeed, we must not let the passage of time affect the way we behave towards our parents. We should cherish every moment with them, care about their physical and mental health, respect their decisions, and give them enough love and respect.

Life is full of traces of aging. Every time I see my parents, I always remind myself to cherish the time I spend with them and let them feel my love and care.