Men can really only share sorrows, not joys

This is only a part of the people, and unfortunately they were touched by your second aunt. Now in this era, women can hold up half the sky, so do you know how many women have become rich and left the man who suffers with them after becoming beautiful?So, don't knock over a boatload of people with one shot.

There are a lot of men who are rich, and they see a lot, and when they see women outside, they will be evil.

When a man is rich, he becomes bad, and when a woman becomes bad, he becomes rich.

Ha ha... Now there are many in society.

The meaning of being able to share joys and sorrows is that we can only enjoy life together when we are blessed and cannot bear it together when we are in trouble.

The idiom "sharing joys and sorrows" means to enjoy joy and happiness together, and to bear disasters and sufferings together (sweet).

From "Warring States Policy: Yan Ce I".

synonyms: solidarity, solidarity, weal and mind, weal and bene, mutual affection, etc.

Antonyms: sharing the same bed, different dreams, cheating, falling apart, self-seeking, etc.

Sentence formation: 1. Over the years, both of them have shared ups and downs.

2. Cadres should share weal and woe with the people, and cannot engage in specialization.

3. The two of them have been heart-to-heart, shared weal and woe, and lived together for 50 years.

4. Comrades-in-arms share weal and woe, and are like brothers.

It means that we can bear it together when we have difficulties, but we can't enjoy it together when we live well and when we are blessed. Because the pressure from the outside world is too great, whether a person shares weal and woe requires practice and time to test, and it is not easy to see.

People who pay attention to status cannot be happy, people who are willing to calculate cannot be happy, and people who are carried away cannot be happy. Because they like the feeling of being held up by others, being served by others, and being surrounded by others. This kind of person can't see it when he suffers together, and only when he can enjoy the status of the same person, will he jump out and show his ugly face.

Particularly calculating, often weighing who is suitable and who is not. When everyone suffers together and others suffer more than they do, they don't complain. Of course they also suffer, but they are all the easiest sufferings.

When they suffer, they weigh in their hearts, and when they see others suffering, their hearts are balanced.

This sentence is very simple, sharing joys and sorrows, generally means that I can enjoy happiness with you, I can give you sweet and beautiful days, but there is no way to endure hardships with you and live difficult days together.

You can enjoy it together, you can't struggle it together.

We often say that people with good relationships, whether they are relatives or friends, should share weal and woe. However, in reality, many people will feel that it is easy to share happiness and suffering. Some people even feel that this is a defect of human nature, and they fly separately when disaster comes.

But in reality, in some relationships, it's the opposite. The people in this relationship can share the sorrows with you, but they cannot share the joys. You want to share the joy and happiness with him, but you can't.

This makes people, should they be moved, or should they be sad and depressed?

For some relationships, some people, you find that when there is something, both of you can complain, confide, express, and support each other, but between each other, it seems that you can only complain to each other and listen to each other, but you can't enjoy it very happily together, enjoy the sunshine and rain of life, and enjoy the beauty of life.

Isn't that rare, you might say? In life, how many people are willing to worry about you and listen to your complaints? It's really rare, but if you can only share the pain with each other, wouldn't it make people feel regretful, and even make the relationship between each other go through a layer of gray.

For what reason is the relationship between the two so deep and heavy?

Maybe what one or both parties find beautiful is shallow? So good friends should be honest with each other in a deeper and more bitter heart? Or can't they get along with each other?

Or is there someone in the heart who feels that they don't deserve to enjoy a good life and relationships? Can't take it easy?

You must know that getting along with people easily is also an ability. People who are bitter and hateful, and who live an uneasy life, are not easy to get along with others. Of course, it is also possible that both parties or one party feel that helping others out of the predicament can reflect the good relationship, reflect the friendship between the two individuals, and reflect the value of their own existence, so they cannot be happy together.

Or even if we share happiness, it is not as good as the habit of sharing suffering. For example, some elders feel that the value of their existence is to help solve the problems of their children and solve the difficulties of their younger generations. Once the children want to give back and honor them, they will not be able to enjoy the quiet and good time with each other, which is their habit for many years.

If you're okay, don't have to contact, don't need me. This is also a pity.

"I can only share the joys and sorrows", this should be what I often hear, this is also what I hate, I will despise such a person, very hateful, I think feelings are the most important, life is difficult for a day, but as long as you endure it, it will always be good, work hard to make money, rely on your own strength, so that you can make yourself very rich, now the times have changed, it is no longer the old society in the past, you can't eat, you can't wear warm clothes.

In reality, men always show their houses, cars, and tickets to women, which provides a window for some material women who are greedy for comfort and pleasure to take a free ride on men's "marriage" in the name of "love". For this kind of woman, the folk people have a saying that "the poor family is one family, and they leave this family to find the next family".

Of course, I don't want her to have a hard time, I want her to be adequate. I am a person who can share weal and woe, I can also share my own wealth with others, although I sometimes pick the door, but I am still willing to pay, money is something outside the body, life does not bring, death does not take it, sooner or later it will be spent, our teacher said that only learn to spend money will earn money, in fact, money is really not important.

A man, especially a man with a double harvest of wealth and career, is it better to be low-key and introverted, isn't there a saying that if you don't die, you won't die? Your subtlety, restraint, and commonality, at least in the early days of marriage, can unambiguously shield (insulate) the approach of women who are purely for material pleasures ......

People have different needs at different stages, and their maturity is also different. The common suffering I understand is that both of them are immature, and they help each other and encourage each other. However, there are very big differences in experience and understanding between people, some people mature very quickly, and some people mature very slowly, so they were originally on the same starting line of "common suffering", but the two of them are easy to get farther and farther apart because of their own gaps.

When suffering together, the goal is simple and clear, which is to earn money and earn money. But the purpose of earning money is to live a better life. This standard of a better life is very complicated.

Because the "good life" that everyone yearns for is different. You are willing, I don't think you are willing, then disperse.

When survival is satisfied, a comfortable life will stimulate the selfish side of human nature, the cake is earned, and then how to divide it is the biggest problem, two people are no longer a community of interests, but competitors, and become each other's constraints. Without the cover of poverty, the conflict between the personalities of the two people will be revealed without scruples, and quarrels will be inevitable, and if this step cannot be compromised with each other, the marriage will inevitably come to an end.

There is always one person who runs far first, matures first, becomes rich first, and then turns back to find that the other person is still standing still. The rich and the noble do not forget each other, purely to examine personal qualities, compared to the poor and lowly friends do not forget and the bad wives do not go to court, people are more to follow the Tao and do not conspire with each other, it is not a level, of course, there is no common topic.

Because the feelings of sharing suffering may have been almost consumed when they are happy. When we share hardships, we have the same goal and support each other; The things that I want to pursue are different, so I don't want to sacrifice my own interests to fulfill others. Sharing difficulties can reduce difficulties, and sharing profits can only reduce gains, and it is normal before you have not shared the part of the benefits that you have shared.

Because when there are only material needs when it is bitter, the two people warm each other is that the whole world is bright, and the material conditions are satisfied, they will thirst for spiritual wealth, and they will begin to find fault with the people around them, so it is not that they can't share the joys and sorrows, but the problem of people, the person who can't be happy with each other is actually destined not to be your beloved from the beginning, but you are blinded by reality, that's all.

When sharing suffering, the expectation and beauty of the same happiness are exhausted, and the common suffering is not happy, and the love is gone, how can I go to the same happiness again...? I accompany you when starting a business, I am willing, it doesn't matter if I think it's worth it, I'm happy. But there is a limit to one's patience with suffering.

I'm sorry, I don't have the strength to walk with you.

When you are suffering, there is no money, no honor, nothing, and there is a common goal. After achieving the goal, everyone's motivation is scattered, each has its own goal, of course, each will have its own ideas, and when it is bitter, everyone's energy and reserves are exhausted, and then, there is no motivation to continue.

In the face of adversity....It is easy for people to fall into the sense of being moved by themselves, being needed and gaining a "sense of existence" from it, and profit is secondary. In good times, people are easily weakened, and their attention is more entangled in the gains and losses. It only takes 2 people to love each other, and the same happiness is not 2 people, parents, relatives and friends, seven aunts and eight aunts have to share profits, in order to share more, they will sow discord in all kinds of ways, people are groupthinkers, plus the so-called righteousness, such as filial piety and the like, do you understand what I mean?

The fact that we cannot be happy with each other means that former friends can work together and start a business together under difficult conditions. But when the two sides share the fruits of victory together, one party forgets (abandons) the former friendship, is unwilling to share together, and takes most or all of the harvest into their own pockets.

Whether a person shares weal and woe requires practice and time to test, and it is not easy to see in ordinary times. But roughly speaking, these two are actually the same, and they are both disputes caused by material interests. They all evolved from people who value material interests, and the difference is only that you meet when you are poor or when you are in access.

Abstract Hello, happy to answer your questions. It cannot be said that all men are like this, this is because of the physiological characteristics of men themselves.

Why do men only share sorrows and not joys, or cannot share joys and sorrows?

Hello, happy to answer your questions. It cannot be said that all men are like this, this is because of the physiological characteristics of men themselves.

Because men's liking for the opposite sex is physiologically indicate, once they have money and the influence of the surrounding environment, they will inevitably go to the same time, so they can share the pain and not the happiness.

Of course, this is only a part of the men, and most of the men are still very good.

Why can men share pain and hardship, but not happiness, in psychology.

Dear Jane shouts good afternoon, when a man is in a difficult situation, all his heart is by his side in his career, and having someone to accompany him and support him is the greatest encouragement to him. But when he succeeded in his career, his energy was drained from his work and he began to observe the outside world. At this time, he will find that there are many new things outside that he does not know, and he has never tried them.

At this time, he may want to go to the outside world of flowers and flowers to find novelty.