Introverted, few words, and no one has any common language, so I may not be able to find a partner,

Updated on psychology 2024-03-07
46 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    How can it be, everyone has their own marriage, you may not have met that person or her, don't worry, there will always be encounters, no one can snatch it away from you, and it is useless if it is not yours.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    This depends on fate, but you should also expand your circle appropriately, after all, opportunities will also be given to those who are prepared.

    If they wait, it is better to create opportunities for themselves.

    Get in touch with your favorite genre.

    If you have more contact, you won't be too shy when you meet the opposite sex.

    There is no common topic.

    Hope it helps, thank you.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    This can only say that fate has not yet arrived, and it does not mean anything, and introverts and few words cannot be the reason why you can't find a girlfriend. Some people like to talk less, this radish and green vegetables have their own love, and everyone can't determine this, so there is no need to be so pessimistic. If you don't have a partner, then try to find it.,Try to improve your personal personality.。

    Generally speaking, as long as you are willing to work hard, it is not a problem to find a partner at all. Don't worry so much, there's nothing difficult in the world, just don't worry.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Don't be so pessimistic about things, anything can happen.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    There are many possibilities for this. Now the conditions are good, having a car and a house is almost a necessary condition, and two people are together, the most important thing is people, if a person can't find a partner, it may be that he has a problem with his personality, and there are many boys who girls don't like.

    For example: machismo, now many girls hate machismo boys, they always want to control everything, but girls want to have their own independent space; Too introverted, just a stuffy one, no common topic, blushing when talking to others, if you can't fit into the girl's life circle, then the girl won't accept such a boy; Boys who don't like cleanliness and have bad habits, you must know that girls are born to love cleanliness, if a boy is sloppy all day long, not to mention that the love object will not like it, even the friends around him can't accept it; Boys who don't know romance and sweep people's interests, most girls hope that boys can understand a little bit of romance, for example, girls want to go to the movies, you say that watching movies is a waste of money, this kind of boys must be out of play; A boy with a bad reputation, a person who doesn't even have a reputation, is an untrustworthy person in the impression of everyone. So who would dare to be with you.

    Of course, it is also possible that the boy has been hurt emotionally and doesn't want to get in touch with the relationship anymore, and he can't get over the hurdle in his heart, even if he finds a girlfriend, he is always absent-minded, suffers from gains and losses, and finally breaks up unhappily after a long time. If this is really the case, it is still up to the boy himself, to think clearly for himself, let go of the past, and be himself. No matter how heart-rending the relationship was before, at the moment of breakup, it is time to learn to let go, and life must go on.

    The most suitable person is still waiting for you in the future, don't fall first.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    The better the conditions, the richer the people, the higher the requirements, and some people may not be able to stand their requirements, so there is no object. There is also the IQ and EQ that they do not have in love.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Since you have a car, a house and a good look, if you can't find a partner, it must be that your vision is too high, or you are too busy with work, and you have not been suitable. But I believe that under conditions like theirs, it is a matter of time before you fall in love.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    There are many reasons why you can't find a partner, for example, his vision is too high, and the girl he likes doesn't like him, so it's all wishful thinking, so even if your conditions are good, it's normal to not find a partner.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Of course, it's because their mouths are stupid and their emotional intelligence is too low, so they can't talk at all, and they can't make girls happy. Even if you finally find a girlfriend, you don't know how to get along between two people at all, and it's slowly gone.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    There are many reasons for this, not that he has a house and a car, and he can find a suitable partner if he looks good, sometimes two people need to get along with each other, there is no contradiction in getting along, it is more harmonious, and it takes fate to find the right person.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    It's not that if you have a car and a house, you will have a bunch of people chasing after you, and now you are looking for a lot of objects, and you pay more attention to character, and if you have a bad character, what is the use of those materials. Or maybe he feels that his conditions are superior, and he can't be high or low.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Because they have experienced too much and seen through too much, the requirements for choosing a mate will gradually increase, either they feel that they are not worthy of others, or they can't look down on others, so they will never find a partner.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Some people have good conditions and are very good, so they have high requirements for their other half, so it is difficult to find a partner, and some people may see you as so good and dare not fall in love with you.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Because many people with good conditions will have higher requirements for finding a partner, they hope to be the right person, or hope to have a common language, at least the same experience, hobbies and so on.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Introverts themselves will not communicate, the main thing is that you have to find the direction in your heart, your own hobbies, so that you can slowly open the knot, introverts are also more likely to be hurt, self-confidence, more access to their own interests, night is preference.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    First practice speaking to you in the mirror at home, say anything, and have an expression, try to smile, and you can't talk if you don't want to talk for a long time.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    You need a good friend to enlighten you.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Try to change yourself, I'm like you, I can't be like this all the time, maybe you try to change yourself, maybe something good will happen.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    This is a hard injury, and it is not easy to take medicine.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Go out and walk often, don't let your mind get confused!

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    If it makes you feel tired, it's better to divide the feelings that are not happy at all. After all, you have too little time to meet, and it feels like the relationship between you is not deep. In addition, your boyfriend's personality problem, we probably don't have the ability to change him. Good luck.

    Hello and hope!

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    How often do you see each other, I don't know if this is the case for you, because some people talk a lot before the pat, but there is no topic to talk about after the pat, because your relationship is different, not like you used to be able to say everything, but there is also a situation that your personality is not suitable, and the concept is different in many aspects, so there is no topic together, not to mention, you have already said it, he is a little cold to you, I think you should think about it, should you give up this relationship, A long-distance relationship is already bitter, not to mention, the other party has begun to be cold to you.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    There are too few common topics between two people, and the communication between you may be very difficult when you get married in the future, so you have to think about it seriously.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    You have very few words, which means that you are more introverted and shy, well, as for whether you can get along with him, it doesn't mean that you can get along with him by talking a lot.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    If you just start to get in touch, you definitely don't have much common language, you can be in contact with each other often, and if you don't have anything to say for more than a month, then there is no need to continue.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    I don't talk much, I don't know if I should continue to get along with him, he doesn't talk much, and the two of us talk very little, but can you two talk together? Do you both have a common language? If the two of them have a common language, they can speak together even if they talk less, and it depends on whether you can talk together and get along together.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    If two people don't have anything in common. , then if this relationship drags on, the two people will become more and more tired, which is equivalent to two people delaying each other, it is better to break up early.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    It can feel very depressing for two people who have few words to be together. The husband and wife should be together with one outside the main and one inside, one extrovert and one introvert, if both are introverts. It felt very out of place.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    If two people are together, there is nothing to talk about. It may really not be the most suitable, but if it doesn't work, it's better to divide it.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    It's not about how much you talk, it's about whether you're comfortable with him.

    If you don't like it, there's no need to push yourself.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    The one you love the most often doesn't choose you; What loves you the most is often not what you love the most; And the longest-lasting, it's not what you love the most, and it's not the one you love the most.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    So neither of you likes to talk, how do you usually communicate? Although some people are introverted, there are still a lot of topics with the person they like, and you always don't talk, so there will be a lot of problems, which also means that the two of you haven't found someone you really like, if you feel that you don't get along very well, it's better to choose to break up.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    That can be less, it doesn't mean that the two people are not suitable, as long as the two people are not particularly embarrassed together, or feel particularly awkward, then you can run in and try again.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    In fact, don't care about these things, it may be that you don't know each other well enough, or you don't have this common topic yet, as long as you don't talk about this topic, slowly you won't change more and more.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    You must know: the friendship of gentlemen is as light as water, and the friendship of villains is sweet. The two of them don't talk much, but they are sincere to each other, why can't they be together.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    I think since you feel that you have less words, you can take the initiative a little bit, talk more, communicate more, and the feelings will gradually deepen.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    Even if two people talk very little, in fact, if they can understand each other's psychology and have common values, they can get along very well, which will make you feel silently accompanied, and the most important thing is whether the two people understand each other and have common ideas about life.

  38. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    There is no topic to talk to him, you can talk about whatever you want, and now the information is so open, you can come to him to talk about it casually, all kinds of topics, as long as you can talk to the topic you can be interested in.

  39. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    Often many people say that if two people have similar personalities, they will get along very well together, in fact, I think it is very good that two people's personalities complement each other, like the two of you have few words. It can be very difficult to talk together.

  40. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    Haven't you just gotten along?Feelings need to be cultivated slowly, and there will be more words when you become acquainted.

  41. Anonymous users2023-12-28

    There is no topic for either of them, but sometimes it may be just at the beginning, and there will be more topics when they are familiar. As long as there can be a topic, other aspects can also be used, and you can also have a look.

  42. Anonymous users2023-12-27

    I don't think this kind of personality of the two of you is suitable for being together. It's better not to go any further. If I continue, I don't think there's any happiness at all.

  43. Anonymous users2023-12-26

    I advise against it:

    First of all, your relationship is not very strong right now, so it is not very painful to separate.

    Only when the ideology is similar, the development relationship will find the feeling of confidante for a long time The above conditions do not need to be met, as long as the most important character is satisfied, the latter can be developed. Of course, the more similarities, the better.

    Again, some appearances, family background, etc., if you don't want to go on a career and need a political marriage, I think you can consider these last

    Finally, I want to say that you can gradually run in and hold on to each other for a lifetime, but you should be careful that you may spend a lot of unnecessary time and energy in this, which is quite a huge effort to get back to the final life to old age. Although this is different from the company's selection of employees, however, this factor has to be taken into account, which may have a great negative impact on your life, work, and your own promotion, although there is some utilitarian flavor. If you insist on the purest and most beautiful love, I support you and wish you happiness

    Hope it helps

  44. Anonymous users2023-12-25

    I think it's good to have a common language between two people, but that doesn't mean you can't be together without a common language. As long as two people have a compatible personality and have the same understanding of some principled issues in life.

    As for whether it is necessary to date, I am a married person, and many married people believe in fate, and they are destined to meet thousands of miles away.

  45. Anonymous users2023-12-24

    I've been more introverted since I was a child, I have few friends, and I have a girlfriend, and then I slowly have it!The reason why you don't have friends when you're introverted is that your answers are not expressed, and others are too unfamiliar with you, and they won't get close to you if they don't know you.

    My brother n friend is in high school, very good and smart, a top student, and originally lived in a dormitory.

    One day when I went out to eat, I paid for a treat, and the place saw that I was so generous and sincere.

    In the future, I often come to play with me, chat with me, study and play games together!

    There are also some friends who met by playing games, learning, and reading. Help them when they know each other.

    Friends are based on their own charm, hobbies and initiatives.

    If you stand stupidly and do nothing, how can you have friends!

  46. Anonymous users2023-12-23

    Then you have to go first.

    Bai finds his own DU merits.

    For example, it looks good, zhi writes well, paints good, wears clothes and looks good, and has money ...... at homeHowever, it is not recommended that you add a limit to yourself as an "extroverted boyfriend", because that will generally not be found, and people will only know their feelings when they get along with each other.

    If you are an introvert, it is best to understand the reason for your introversion, whether you are born with low self-esteem, or you don't know how to communicate, and then adjust after understanding the reason. In this day and age, extroversion is less troublesome than introverted.

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