Can such a person still be friends? Will you have to go back and forth in the future?

Hello this friend! There are no people in this world who are completely useless. To put it more bluntly, most of the relationships between people at work are one of exploitation and framing, and while you are always vigilant, you have to learn how to transform the crisis and use others to accomplish your goals.

First of all, the colleague you mentioned has to continue to associate with her, take back the benefits you lost from her, and she has lost the capital that you treat sincerely, one time it is enough to prove that she is a person who is eager for quick success, and next time she will still go her own way.

I'm very sympathetic to you being hacked, but take it as a lesson, you don't have a place to stay here, hehe

Finally, I wish you a better job.

It doesn't matter, you're going to leave anyway. The nature of the country is easy to change, and what she can do in the past may not be impossible to do in the future.

Borrowing allusions from the Three Kingdoms:

The nineteenth chapter of the Romance of the Three Kingdoms "Cao Cao's Soldiers in Xiapi City, Baimenlou Lu Bu's Death" (excerpt) announced Xuande and said: "The public is a guest, and the cloth is a prisoner, why not say a word and be lenient?" Xuande nodded.

and Cao came upstairs, and the cloth shouted: "Ming Gong suffers, but it is not more than cloth; The cloth has been served. The public is the general, and the cloth is the vice, and it is not difficult to determine the world.

back Xuande said! "How? Xuande replied:

What does it matter if you don't see Ding Jianyang and Dong Zhuo? Bu looked at Xuande and said, "It's the most untrustworthy person!"

The order was taken downstairs. Bu looked back at Xuande and said: "Big ears!

Don't remember when you shot the halberd? Suddenly, one of them shouted, "Lu Bupifu!

Death is dead ears, why be afraid! "Everyone sees it, it is the knife and axe hand who supports Zhang Liaozhi. The order was to hang Lu Bu to death, and then beheaded.

Such people, forget it. What's there to be nostalgic for? There's no need to keep dating!

There are a lot of things to do with women, especially your colleague who takes advantage of her, it's so boring! She can tell you the truth, but she doesn't promise that one day when she falls out with you or when it is profitable, she will not tell others your truth! Such a "dangerous" character looks like he has no scheming, but in fact, he has no principles, such a person, we can't afford to play, it's better to stay away!

Haven't you heard that Ning quarrels with the gentleman and doesn't talk to the villain?

There must be cracks, I feel that friends don't need to say whether they are useful or not, or whether they are worth it or not, but if you see her clearly, then stay away from her, and don't break up friendships, because it won't be good for you, in this world, don't leave a dead end for yourself.

She's really scheming. It's better not to make this kind of friend.

It's not a friend, betraying you in front of interests, forget it!

In my personal opinion, you and people who don't follow the money can only be said to know each other.

The meaning of a friend is someone who has a good relationship and can help each other. It means that under arbitrary conditions, the cognition of both parties is related to a certain level, regardless of age, gender, region, race, social role and religious belief, which is in line with the psychological cognition of both parties and can give help to the other party when they need it. Friends can be compared to umbrellas in the rain and lights guiding the way.

When the psychological fit between the two parties is more profound, it can be called a confidant.

Your wedding is a lifelong event, and they don't come to cheer for it, so the relationship between you is not iron, and it is not yet for the sake of friends. If the relationship is very iron, even if there is something that can't be separated, people can't be there, send a red envelope and express congratulations! Not only did they not show up, but they also didn't give you money, so it can be seen that they don't treat you as a friend.

If you don't have any money, you feel unhappy and ask everyone if there is any need for people like this to have dealings in the future, which also shows that you are not really treating them as friends. If you treat them as real friends and find that they don't have any money, the first thing that comes to mind is whether something happened to them and you are anxious about them, not because they don't have money to worry about whether there is a need to have dealings. Could it be that in your heart, you are a friend if you follow the money, and if you don't follow the money, you are not a friend, and the feeling of a friend is only worth that little money?

From the above two aspects, I think that you are not friends, so you don't have to care, just keep the current relationship. Whether they can become friends in the future, that is, Lu Yao knows the horsepower, and he sees people's hearts for a long time.

We are willing to befriend someone because we are reinforced in the process of being with them, and the reinforcement is frequent, and the type of reinforcement is timely reinforcement rather than delayed reinforcement.

For example, someone is a non-talkative and shy person, and he longs to make friends with a passionate person, hoping that the other person will make him happy and take him out of his lonely little world.

One day he meets a person who meets his expectations of a friend, and in the future, whenever he feels embarrassed, the friend will excuse him, and whenever he is in a low mood, the friend can use clever ways to make him happy.

Therefore, he likes the time with each other more and more. This means that he has been strengthened, so he will increase the frequency of his interactions with the other party.

Second, we are more inclined to be friends with people who can give us reinforcement on a regular basis than with those who can give us reinforcement only for a small time.

Some people only help us when we are in a good mood, while others are able to surprise and reward us every day, and we naturally prefer the latter.

Finally, the timeliness of reinforcement also influences our choice of friends.

Friend. For example, we are most likely to be friends with our table mates at school and sit next to each other after work, and we are significantly more likely to be friends with people we can talk to than people who don't immediately grasp our humor.

This is all because of the role of timely reinforcement, in the reinforcement program, timely reinforcement is better than delayed reinforcement, so the timeliness of reinforcement greatly affects our choice of friends.

For a certain period of time, people become friends with a person and associate with them because the act of associating with them is very valuable to him and that the act of associating with him can bring him some kind of reward.

For example, people choose like-minded friends because they have a simple area in common, cooperation and communication with others are valuable to them, and they can gain new experiences and inspiration through communication.