Why do people nowadays not like temperament and interior, and only value appearance

It's not that people nowadays don't like temperament and interior, and they value appearance, but in the initial acquaintance stage, appearance is more prominent than temperament and internal performance, and it is easier to attract people's attention. Unless a person has years of good training, he will have a temperament that will shine a little bit brightly, otherwise temperament is really not worth mentioning.

Let's imagine such a scene, you come to a strange city to play, and a pair of handsome guys and beautiful women come up to you, will you look at it twice? If you have the opportunity to talk to them, will your tone be much softer than usual? Can you see them inside at this time?

Obviously not.

Let's change the scene, you are studying in the classroom, and then two students from your class come over, and you usually have frequent contact. One is good-looking but has a bad temper and doesn't have any good qualities, while the other is average-looking but well-read and kind. Are you still attracted to your appearance like when you first met?

Will you not care about the inside just because she looks better?

Therefore, whether to focus on the inside or the outside depends on the timing. When they first met, there was no opportunity to communicate with each other, and the most intuitive thing to show on the outside was appearance. At this time, if you look good, you will have an advantage.

However, as long as the in-depth contact is carried out, the appearance is ignored, one is that people are prone to aesthetic fatigue, and the other is that the appearance cannot maintain the relationship, and friendship and love need internal quality to push forward.

Although this is a time to look at faces, just having a good-looking face can't go far with anyone. Otherwise, wouldn't plastic surgery face be a winner in life?

People are very realistic, only consider their own feelings, experience more, see more people's hearts, will feel that temperament and inner importance are important. The love on the outside is superficial, but the quality of the heart is high, and if you see more, you will actually feel that it is good to have someone who understands. Life is reality, and people are reality.

Because it's fast food culture now, just like when KFC and Coke first came out, they all liked to eat it. The taste is also very good. Later, I slowly realized that it was not good for my health.

Now it has only been more than 10 or 20 years since women and men began to learn to dress up. You see, in another 100 or 200 years, people will not only value appearances and not other substantial things?

Why do some people look very temperamental, giving people the feeling of being very knowledgeable, very connotative, and generous, and this temperament naturally exudes from them. They all have a common characteristic, they don't panic when they encounter emergencies. They have their own way of dealing with it, and they are able to keep the rhythm and steady in their own way.

There is also a commonality that "don't care", no matter what the outside world says about themselves, they can always don't care, maintain self-confidence, but not proud, and will not envy others to make themselves feel inferiorThe ancients said: There is poetry and books in the belly, and the most important thing is that the fragrance of books can go far. Meaning to say:

Let yourself read poetry and books, and deeply understand the truth of doing things and being a person. In this way, the temperament is naturally revealed. Some people just don't like their appearance, they are not confident in their appearance, they always compare their shortcomings with others, and then they like to hide their shortcomings, and they always feel that they can't do things well.

In this way, a kind of inferiority complex is gradually formed, so how can this situation be changed?

First of all, you have to be financially independent, regardless of men and women, when you have good financial ability, you have confidence, right! Secondly, it is cultural accomplishment"Goethe" said about this, to read a good book is to speak to a noble person。You have to have the knowledge and the ideas so that you can continue to output.

Finally, it's about learning to be in control. Control your body, when you walk down the street or eat with friends, don't be listless and hunched over, it's really not good. Secondly, you also have to learn to control the expression, people with temperament will always give people a comfortable feeling, they will never lose control of their expressions, and at the same time you must learn to control their emotions, people who can control their emotions are generally steady, calm, and calm.

In the end, to sum up, the cultivation of temperament is to take into account both internal and external. Internally, we should expand our horizons, improve our cultural level, and at the same time improve our personal accomplishment.

Pro, because temperament is not born, but acquired. 1.Temperament is first of all exuded by the confidence of money, 2

The second is the world that I have seen, as well as some of my own cultivation and some of my own knowledge, for example, a person is very rich. Then one of its own temperaments gives people a very confident feeling, and people without money do not have this feeling, 3There is also a kind of person who has cultivation, knowledge, and education, so he also has a temperament arrangement, and some people do not have this temperament.

"Temperament performance" is a process in which a person's "spiritual power" in the bone marrow and subconscious is emanated from the inside out, and the "spiritual power" affects a person's every move, so the "temperament" cannot be guessed. A person's smile, a look, sitting, standing, walking, tone, voice and even a casual small movement are all projections of a person's inner image and the external manifestation of his mental state. As long as some people stand there, they will be "imposing", and they will hit the nail on the head when they don't talk much, which can leave a deep impression on others, and make people want to understand him better; Some people break the horse and fly away, and they will talk at length when they enter the venue, and there is no doubt that it will only make people shy away, or make people just want to know his "jokes".

And these are the external manifestations of reality produced by the "spiritual power" driving the "temperament". When a person is "mentally insufficient" and is eager to perform, he will show the appearance of exaggerated facial expressions, uncoordinated movements, and unsteady tone. Once he is touched by his inner weakness, he will touch his sensitive nerves, and he will be instantly controlled by emotions, if there is no resistance of willpower, he will show the appearance of loss of control, anger, or tears or vomiting, which is because his "mental power" is low and he cannot control the balance of "temperament".

The so-called temperament is actually a person's image, cultivation, knowledge, speech and behavior, the state of dealing with others and the attitude of dealing with the world. It seems to be quiet, but in fact it runs through every aspect of our lives.

The key to judging whether a woman has a temperament is not in her skin color or appearance, but mainly in these points. Only if you insist on doing it, temperament and sense of luxury can also come easily.

1. Clean**

A woman's facial features can not be delicate enough, but they must be good. But good does not mean white, but even skin tone, clean and transparent, is the first step to make you temperamental. Even if it's not a fair complexion, it's very comfortable for the first senses.

Therefore, we usually have to do a good job of cleaning and skin care, and choose the right skin care products according to our skin type. And don't follow the trend on the Internet and see others recommending you to buy, buy, buy, buy, if it is not suitable for your skin, it may lead to **damage.

2. Elegant posture

Don't patronize yourself to make yourself thin every day, pay attention to adjusting your posture, after all, the key to highlighting your temperament is your posture.

Just imagine walking with a hunched back and a forward neck, round shoulders, etc., which basically has no chance of a sense of luxury, and it will also greatly reduce the appearance, completely submerged in the crowd, and the sense of sight of passers-by.

But if your posture is elegant and dignified, then your temperament will instantly improve by several levels, and even in the crowd, you will be the first to notice that you are outstanding.

3. Be able to wear makeup

Especially temperamental women, they will put on makeup when they go out. The makeup mentioned here is not necessarily to follow the makeup of milk drunkenness, pure desire makeup, eyelid makeup, etc., simple light makeup, a little eyebrow drawing, lipstick, and a little to make your complexion look more energetic.

And the finish of light makeup is not heavy, and it is easier to control.

Of course, not only the appearance, but also the connotation should be cultivated, usually don't spend a lot of time brushing small **, read more books at night or on rest days, so that your temperament is exuded from the inside out.