What to do, I can t do anything about girls, and I won t chase girls

Updated on psychology 2024-03-16
22 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Are you good friends with him? If so, find more opportunities to contact him, and first understand what he wants, needs, and likes. Don't ask too deliberately, just talk casually.

    If you still don't know, you may know through the girls around her. After I knew it, I gave it to her intentionally or unintentionally.

    If you are a bold boy, you can give him a small gift every day, not expensive (expensive will be stressful), it can be small candy, flower clips, or small flowers on the side of the road, small things. Insist on sending, you must insist on it, insist on it for at least a month, and then suddenly don't send it, if that girl is interested in you, she will generally ask you what's wrong, is there something wrong? Still, you can use this to understand what she thinks of you.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Is there nothing you can do with girls?

    There's no need to rush.

    Learn to talk first (that depends on the usual accumulation, such as: news, entertainment, sports, etc. as much as possible) Those are the knowledge to learn to talk, at least the ability to talk first.

    It will improve slowly.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Everybody likes it in different ways, and everybody feels differently about different people, so it's a little hard for you to ask.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Rely on attraction, but many times if you don't chase, there is no chance of attraction.

    The competition is fierce, there will be no pie in the sky, you have to dare to chase, you will chase.

    Girls, especially beauties, have never lacked suitors around them, and from the perspective of ordinary girls (excluding some special circumstances), their criteria for choosing a mate mainly look at two.

    One is attractive, and the other is security.

    Attractiveness and security are both values.

    Attraction, we are vulgar, is the condition, or the condition you show, you are handsome, tall, wealthy, mature and steady, and ...... good lifeAll are good conditions.

    A sense of security, to be vulgar, is whether you are good to her or not, whether you are sincere.

    The so-called attraction is actually to show these two values.

    You are dressed in time, you are mysterious and melancholy, you love it, and you pick up and drop off ...... every dayEssentially, it's about demonstrating both values.

    That's attraction.

    Attraction is to show value, which is the core of chasing girls.

    But......! The problem is, if you don't chase it, you won't even have a chance to show it!

    Not even a chance to show value!

    How many teenagers with good conditions have suffered this big loss!

    It's a loss! It's a loss!

    Originally, the girl was still a little interested in you, but you didn't move at all, and I didn't know if I had anything to chat about, I didn't know how to borrow a note during self-study, and I didn't know how to ask the girl for a little favor and then ask for a ...... by the way

    You've got to create a chance for yourself!

    You are valuable, you are motivated, excellent and single-minded ......But fuck, you can't show it!

    You think you're good and you're a fart!

    People whose conditions are not as good as yours dare to chase, dare to show their value, dare to be ashamed, dare to bear the responsibility of not being able to catch up, dare to say that you are so beautiful, dare to say that I just like you......

    Don't you dare!

    You're cowardly! You deserve to have no object!

    Fuck the smell of wine, don't be afraid of deep alleys, who knows you if you don't advertise, when I know you, my wife is more than forty years old.

    Girls are young and precious, girls are soft-hearted, girls are easy to rely on people who are good to her, girls are afraid of loneliness, girls don't actually have any ideas, girls think you are boring to her......

    The girl was chased away.

    The girls are in a hurry for you!

    Hurry! Teenagers, the essence of the problem is attraction, but your problem is not.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    I think the best way to deal with it is to be friends. Because if you can't catch up, it doesn't mean that you're bad, but it may be that two people don't have a common language, or they may have different views, or they may have too little contact, too little interaction, and lack of understanding. So being friends is the best way to deal with it!

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Chase girls to persevere, always care about her, care about her, be good to her, buy something she likes, and take her out to play.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Hello, as long as the girl is not annoying, you will have hope, as for the chase to catch up with it, it depends on your own ability, such as being able to do things, pleasing girls, being obedient, serious about work, diligent and inquisitive, and working hard to make their work have a chance to improve, girls like such boys.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Not necessarily, it mainly depends on the feelings of the two people, if you like him, and she happens to like you very much, the wine is simple, don't bother, if she doesn't like you or hate this, it's more difficult First of all, win her heart, and finally he doesn't like you, but if you want to chase this, you have no experience!

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    That's not necessarily, some girls are easy to chase, and some are difficult to chase, this can't be helped, it depends on the girl's personality! As long as you keep chasing hard, you should be able to catch up. There is also your own factor, the more you put on a show, the easier it is to catch up!

    Even girls can chase you! There are all of them!

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    The easier it is to get hold of, the less you cherish it, and there is indeed this problem. If the beauties on the street are all over the place, you hook your fingers and come over, will you not cherish it because it is too easy to get?

    But it also depends on how she feels about you, some people are useless no matter how good you are to her.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Today's girls are really hard to chase, because of the current national conditions, now the wedding bride price has an official price, your job, house, and car are all the objects she wants to choose, if two people often have feelings together, there are also many who marry love! Anyway, as long as you are really good to girls, there is a lot of hope!

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Actually, girls are still very easy to catch. First, boys should care about the girls they pursue. To play more**, chat more. Ask for warmth.

    Second, I want to be accompanied by time. The most affectionate thing is companionship.

    Third, be honest. Boys should not lie when they are pursuing girls.

    Fourth, we must create romance. Girls love romance.

    Fifth, be willing. I can't bear to let the child trap the wolf.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    There are all kinds of girls. If the girl really likes you and chases you.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    It's easy to meet the right person.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    If you don't chase you, how do you know that you won't be able to catch up easily?

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    When chasing a woman, a man must have such a cognition in his heart: if a woman is interesting to you, then, when you take the initiative to chat with her, she must have a lot to say to you, so every time you take the initiative to find her, she will talk to you for a long time. And if a woman, she is not interesting to you, then, even if she receives your message, she will treat and reply very indifferently, which will make you unable to take it.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Then go and make money first, and when you have money, everything will be easy to do.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Chasing girls is a science, and it is also related to fate, and fate can't be shaken off if you want to.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    It's best to be a short-term salesperson or waiter, and you're afraid that you won't be able to catch up if your eloquence rises.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Chasing girls must be thick-skinned. Stalking and hard bubbles.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Now there are many girls who think the same way you do, falling in love is to get married, and that's how I am, and some of my friends are like this.

    In the end, love is also marriage, this kind of thinking is normal!

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Summary. Now it is time to strike while the iron is hot, continue the appointment, and not retreat.

    Hello! What kind of behavior do you think girls should chase? Can you elaborate on that a little bit more?

    I'm in high school now, and I've always liked a female classmate who went to college, and just a few nights ago I plucked up the courage to WeChat and said that I wanted to see him, I didn't tell her that I liked her or anything, and she replied to me: What's going on, what's going on. I said that I wanted to see you and should come out to chat, and she should have been surprised at the time, and asked me if I had anyone else, and I said:

    No one else, you can rest assured, it was already 11 o'clock at that time, she replied to me: Why don't you talk about it tomorrow, I haven't taken a bath yet, I said OK, I sent him a message tonight I asked her when she didn't go back after school, I said tomorrow she asked me in the morning and afternoon, I said it depends on the situation, and she then said after a while that the classmate was going out with him is a female classmate, and said: If there is anything to say directly, just quarrel and stop!

    At that time, you know that I was stunned, this is obviously to ask her out, she actually made me think I have something to find her, I thought she was stupid or pretending, I didn't reply to the message at five o'clock I don't know what to reply, ask God to reply.

    Your first date with a female classmate was at 11 p.m., and it was too late.

    You can ask her out for dinner in advance.

    You can also say the same, hello old classmates! I haven't seen you for a long time, and I want to treat you to a meal and chat.

    I'm afraid that she has no interest in me, I have already expressed my hand Zen with Ming very clearly, but the general meaning has not been said, I don't know how to reply to Bi stupid now, really, whether to continue to talk about the situation or stop choosing to give up, now you should strike while the iron is hot, continue to make appointments, and you can't back down.

    The girl you like should catch up, not to mention that people didn't reject you.

    I choose to give up.

    Reply to her embarrassed or something, just say it's okay, she replied uh-huh, ok, I'll give up completely, and if there's any progress, I'll talk about it.

    Respect your choice and feel comfortable with yourself.

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