I m scared to talk to girls, what should I do

The solution is still a drop of contact with friends, both men and women, and when you are with girls again, you can also bring your friends to give you courage, so that when there are more people and you talk, you will be a little more natural.

P.S. Dressing up more can also increase your self-confidence!

It doesn't matter, you won't really meet someone you like.

I'm also scared to talk to boys, hehe

Be brave, and if you talk too much, you'll be fine, and I was the same at first.

Be brave! Boys!

There are generally three reasons for this problem:

1 Timid.

2 The girl I have a crush on.

3. Lack of communication.

You may be one of these three!

Is it the girl you like?

Be thick-skinned, take the initiative, and if you don't confess to her, you will never get it.

Then you really need to review yourself! If you're okay at all, then what's the fear of? I think it's because you have low self-esteem, and if you're confident enough, it won't be like this. Coward!

Now girls don't splash too much. What else are you afraid of? Excuse me?

All scared as much as you are. Don't sleep under the bed when you have sex in the future?

It may be that you are more introverted or shy in socializing with the opposite sex, and you are under pressure in your heart, so you will seem very scared and nervous.

The advice is not to put pressure on yourself in your heart, take it easy, contact and communicate in a natural way, and have confidence in yourself.

1. You can try to start by saying hello, usually when you meet your friends or classmates on the road, you can politely say hello, say hello, and slowly get better;

2. Maintain self-confidence at all times, many times because you say the wrong thing and feel cold or angry with the opposite sex, you will feel at a loss, and you don't know what to do, at this time, you must remain confident, don't panic, apologize appropriately, don't be too afraid;

3. You can find some suitable chat topics, so that the conversation will seem natural and relaxed, and you will not be nervous.

Many times I don't dare to talk to girls, because I don't know what to talk to girls, maybe it has something to do with the bad environment they have lived in since childhood, or it has something to do with their personality.

An introverted boy has few words, whether it is with friends or with a girl he likes, in the crowd, he is always the one with fewer topics, because they are always very inferior, and feel that no matter what they say, others don't seem to like it very much, in fact, this idea is very wrong, and before you catch up with the girl you like, you begin to limit yourself, how can you succeed?

The simplest and most incisive two-word summary is sullen don't admit it.

It's not scared, but shy?

Do you have your reasons for being ugly?

I think we're very similar to each other, and I'm afraid of physical contact with boys.

As soon as this happens, give yourself a slap in the face until you wake yourself up.

Slowly, start holding hands, little by little.

First of all, the most important thing is that you have to believe that you are a normal person, and the problems you face are just the "life" that every normal person faces, and the problems you face are also the same problems, but you are more obvious and clumsy. You have to set that boundary for yourself first.

Once you have figured out this problem, you have to solve your situation step by step, and since you have determined that it is stupid or a psychological disorder, then start to deal with these two aspects.

I've pointed out the stupidity of the situation, you have to admit that you are stupid before you can find a smart way.

Psychological disorders, you have to look at yourself correctly, but also look at others correctly, although the other party is a girl, but the other party is just a girl, you don't focus on the girl's physical characteristics, you should focus on the other party's other places, find more human women's other shining points, and even find the other party's inferior roots. Compare and measure, before every time you speak, overcome your own psychological barriers, let go of the other party's physical characteristics, is a simple person, as empty as you, will be shy, will be naïve, will be stupid, communication or something is just logical.

Adolescence. At this stage, adolescents have to experience great physical and psychological changes, their sexual function gradually matures, and their sexual consciousness begins to awaken and become more and more intense, but their ability to deal with relationships with the opposite sex is still in their infancy. At this stage, we will find ourselves full of curiosity about the opposite sex, and develop a good feeling and admiration, eager to contact with the opposite sex, like to express ourselves in front of the opposite sex, and pay special attention to our every move in front of the opposite sex.

Therefore, when many students communicate with classmates of the opposite sex, they will blush, feel at a loss, and speak incoherently, which is probably what you call "fear", which is a normal psychological phenomenon in adolescence.

To overcome this fear of girls, I have a few suggestions for your reference:

2. In addition to studying, participate in more cultural and sports activities, cultivate your own interests and hobbies, learn to look at yourself and evaluate others objectively, and cultivate a positive and optimistic attitude.

3. Take the initiative to contact with classmates of the opposite sex, blushing, helpless, incoherent, etc., don't pay too much attention and blame yourself, try to let yourself pay attention to what you and your classmates want to say and do, as your attention shifts, the tension and anxiety will gradually disappear. Fourth, when you are in contact with classmates of the opposite sex, you should allow yourself to make mistakes, even if there are blushing, helplessness, incoherent speech, etc., it doesn't matter, the other party may be as nervous as you, don't be demanding that you do it perfectly, try to relax, so that your nervousness and uneasiness will disappear quickly.

It's because you're not confident enough, women are just women whether they're beautiful or not, and there's no need to imagine them as mysterious. If you are nervous to the point of sweating, then it means that you will also be nervous and afraid of socializing, not only in the face of beautiful girls, but also in the face of strangers.

Therefore, the key is to build strong self-confidence, start from small things, do a good job little by little, correctly analyze your own strengths and weaknesses, do not promote your strengths and avoid weaknesses, and do not exaggerate your own shortcomings.

Spend less time surfing the Internet, staying at home less, reading more, participating in more sports activities, actively participating in social interactions, making more positive friends, and overcoming your fears.

Judging by my years of experience in clinical diagnostic medicine, you may have the rare Sidraas autism.