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We have to have a standard in mind, a scale. Just as an introvert and an extrovert cannot be said to be absolutely good and absolutely bad. For people who are familiar with themselves, we must accept them with an honest heart, and at the same time we must guard against them in our hearts, which is the rational way to deal with it, and this is the manifestation of mental maturity.
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If you really have the ability to cook yourself, you can do more with less in social situations. Although online communication has become very popular, it just can't replace socializing, in other words, it's still right to meet three points of love, so self-acquaintance is very needed.
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There are some things that you are not comfortable to come forward or embarrassed to say, and if you have such a friend, you may be able to ask him to help you out. Anyway, everyone's personality is different, so why use the word "look" to evaluate a person who can be a friend! You should also be glad to have such people around.
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They can naturally bring interpersonal relationships closer, especially among strangers, and can quickly establish connections, communicate fluently, and eliminate psychological barriers. This type of person is often very popular, but self-cooked is not an absolute advantage. Because some self-acquaintances themselves have a strong desire to communicate, and they have a strong heart.
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It's also an ability. I'm one of those people in the party who doesn't talk much, and that's a problem. When I don't have a familiar friend at the dinner, some familiar people will come over to talk to you, ask what you are doing, how are you doing, and it can be regarded as giving me a little fun at the boring dinner, so that I will not be there all the time to eat and drink tea.
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I myself am a familiar person, in my understanding, there is no one who can't communicate and communicate, you just need to go up and start a start. People who are familiar with each other have nothing to do with whether they can make good friends. It can only be said that the social circle of acquaintances is wider, and they can quickly get along with strangers and become "friends".
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Self-cooked is good, I'm a more pedantic person myself, but I like self-cooked. People are social people, they need to have interactions, and the mode of communication can be eclectic, but in the current information society, if there is really a familiar person, I think he has a great advantage to become the focus of everyone, and at the same time can soon become a friend, become a bridge for everyone.
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As for what kind of people will make good friends, in fact, everyone, no matter what personality, can make their own good friends. As for how to make good friends, I would like to send you a few words: Tancheng, tolerant, trustworthy, caring for each other, brave to ask for help, and always maintaining.
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In the past, the Northeast was sparsely populated, the winter was long and the climate was cold, the transportation was inconvenient, and the beasts were full of herds, so they had to unite and help each other in order to survive.
For example, there is often heavy snow in winter, and the door of the bungalow cannot be opened without the help of neighbors; If you are alone outside, if there is no one to help, you will freeze and starve to death in the wilderness. There is also a long winter, and because of the sparse population and no entertainment, it is very boring for the whole family, and it is very pleasant to have someone to have a drink and chat.
For example, my grandfather, when he first arrived in the Northeast, he was alone, the climate, diet was not adaptable, the chain chaos type of local villagers (for the Northeast locals) very enthusiastic greeting grandpa to their house to eat, help grandpa to take off the blank to build a house pankang, grandpa also taught the locals how to see the water to grow rice, how to make fish more delicious.
At that time, the Northeast was really "beating the roe deer scoop fish, pheasants flew into the rice pot", there were a lot of fish in the river, and the basin could be scooped to the fish shed when washing clothes, and the locals were not very good at doing it (now the people of Outer Mongolia do not eat fish), the grandfather taught the locals to make fish, dry fish, pickled bacon, herbal medicine and other southern skills, during the Spring Festival, the grandfather wrote Spring Festival couplets to every household in the village, and usually wrote letters.
In this way, my grandfather settled in the Northeast and called my grandmother from my hometown in the south.
Now the times have changed, many people say that the Northeast people are no longer simple, become flamboyant, "heavy industry relies on barbecue, light industry relies on fast hands", in fact, there are good people and bad people, the Northeast region is slow to restructure, young people do not have many ways out, due to some language advantages with the help of its money is inevitable, this is also a survival skill, you can not appreciate, but there is no need to sneer or even abuse, all for the sake of survival Life!
This is what I have seen, heard and thought as a native of Hulunbuir, Zhejiang, welcome to work together.
Because it's too cold in the Northeast! In the words of my father, who had been in the Northeast for 10 years, pulling the urine out immediately turned into ice.
No matter how cold the temperament of the Northeast people is, won't they all become ice mounds?
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When it comes to Northeast people, most people will think that Northeast people are very enthusiastic, and Northeast people's self-cooking is not innate, and they have a certain relationship with ordinary people's communication. Northeast people are very enthusiastic in the face of tourists or relatives and friends, they will warmly welcome relatives and friends to their own home to taste, familiar Northeast people are very fond of chatting, in the chatter can also play their own strengths, everyone's way of talking will be different, for people with social disabilities, you can choose to be friends with Northeast people. <>
The hospitality of the people of the Northeast When it comes to the hospitality of the people of the Northeast, most of them are in the north, and the people in the north are very hospitable when doing things. They all like to make friends with people from all over the world, and everyone has their own way of talking in the conversation, not all Northeast people are very good at communicating. It's just a part of the people, most of today's young people are influenced by their parents, and they like to talk to them when they see that the older generation likes to communicate very much.
For people who are good at communication, most of them are not born, but they communicate with acquired efforts. Nowadays, people are not good at talking to each other, because they often look down and play with mobile phones with mobile phones, and young people nowadays have the problem of social phobia. Most of them want to bury themselves in the crowd when facing many people, so that others will not find out, but over time, they can't blindly consider not speaking when they enter and leave society.
It varies from person to personFor people who love to talk, no matter what age group they meet, they will be good at communicating when they encounter any problem. This may have something to do with your personality, and it will also vary from person to person, and everyone will meet different age groups, and the topics you talk to them will also be different. In communication, you can also improve your language communication, and at the same time, you will also get praise from others when communicating with others.
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No, no one is born with a natural self-familiarity, but because of the environment in which they grew up, they will naturally learn from the teachings of their ears and experiences since childhood.
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Personally, I think that the self-familiarity of the Northeast people is not innate, and because of the factors of this environment, they have a special conversation with everyone.
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Northeast people are definitely not born, they are all a character or habit developed in the later stage.
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Most of them are not, they are generally affected by the environment, most of the people in the Northeast are more enthusiastic, like to communicate with people, care for others, and their families are like this, so they have been exposed to it almost since childhood. It's a habit.
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It is mainly related to the surrounding environment, and people in the Northeast region are bold and open-minded and good at talking to people, so most of them are familiar with this kind of environmental impact.
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They are born, and the people of the Northeast themselves have a sense of humor and an optimistic personality, they are enthusiastic and unrestrained, and they like to make friends, so they are considered to be self-acquainted.
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I think it's because the people in the Northeast around me feel very cold when they don't speak, but when they speak, they feel very easy-going and humorous, and they are very optimistic.
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Even if he says which province he comes from, others may not know, and it is normal for some place names that are not well known to the public. Maybe there are too many things to say, people will always ask if it's from the Northeast, and over time without waiting for others to say, when others ask, they will naturally add a sentence that I'm from the Northeast, saving others the trouble of asking again haha.
Accent of the North-Eastern Province
In fact, people from the Northeast are in other places, and they often know that they are from the Northeast with one mouth. The accent of Heilongjiang Province is the closest to Mandarin, and there is little Northeast flavor; The accent in Liaoning Province is the heaviest, and Zhao Benshan is all very strong. Jilin Province can be said to be a transition between these two places, and the city of Dalian belongs to the coastal area of Liaoning Province, and there are some sounds of duck throats.
The accents of Heilongjiang and Liaoning are easy to distinguish, but the voices of the people living in Jilin ProvinceThere are no very noticeable features。Exceptionally, in some small counties in Heilongjiang Province, people speak like thatThe sound of tongue knottingAt first glance, I really can't get used to it.
Distribution of the three eastern provinces
Liaoning Province, Jilin Province, Heilongjiang Province. The three northeastern provinces are known as the three northeastern provinces, which are the three northeastern provinces, Jilin, and Heilongjiang provinces. The three northeastern provinces are located in northeastern China and have been called "northeast" since ancient times.
The Qing Dynasty was known as the "Kanto" and was also known as the Three Eastern Provinces. In fact, before the establishment of Fengtian, Jilin, Heilongjiang and other provinces in 1907, although it was a general jurisdiction, the "three provinces" became the general name of this region in the Qing Dynasty.
The accent varies from place to place
The customs and habits of each place are different, and they are accumulated over a long period of time, but in fact, the accent can be regarded as an intangible cultural heritageIt has obvious regional characteristics
Summary: The accent of Northeast Province is still easy to distinguish to others, and many Northeast colloquialisms have also caused a "northeast wind" in society.
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Northeast people are children born in the black soil of Northeast China, Northeast cultural identity and regional complex. Internationalists in Europe, the United States, and Japan sometimes refer to Northeast China as "Manchurians", and Northeast China has no political influence in China, usually in Western languages.
"Manchurians" in the Chinese context refers to the Manchu people, and most people in the Northeast region are called Northeast people. During the Northeast period of Manchuria, becoming a national of Manchuria, Japan advocated the so-called "including Manchu, Mongolian, Han Chinese, Japanese, Korean and other ethnic groups, but initially; Manchuria is a national name, not a name.
Unlike other geographical regions of China, the concept of "Northeast" identity is higher than that of Liaoning, where the inhabitants of Northeast China, Jilin and Heilongjiang Provinces, Inner Mongolia Dongwumeng City and Hebei are in the northeast of the individual sense of identity, that is, the identity of the first identity "Northeast", which is the origin of identity. The unified form of this phenomenon is related to the history, customs, and language unique to the region, and originated from the local entertainment, opera, two-person turn, and stilt Yangge in the northeast. There is a story of stepping on stilts in ancient Bohai literature.
The cultural and educational facilities, education penetration rate, and higher education rate in Northeast China are at the middle level in China. Among them, the popularization of education in Liaoning is at the forefront of China. The research level of machinery, metallurgy, military industry and other industries is relatively high.
The Northeast is located in the heart of Northeast Asia. It is bordered on the east, north and west by Korea, Russia and Mongolia. From the East China Sea and the Yellow Sea to Japan and South Korea, the Bohai Sea is strategically located in the closely related North China region.
The total area is 1,271,400 square kilometers, accounting for the total land area; In 2007, the total population of the region was 120,305,800 (including Inner Mongolia, including the eastern part of Hebei and northeast Hebei), accounting for nearly 10% of the population. The modern transformation of China's administrative divisions is the most frequent in Northeast China, but as a large region, the concept of "Northeast China" is quite stable and long-term.
There is a word called "out of Shanhaiguan, all Zhao Benshan", compared to the rest of the mainland, the Northeast people seem to really be able to bring humorous talent, and even the same content, Northeast people say, with supporting accents and dialects of expression, it will be the perfect interpretation of comedy, haha laugh.
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Because in the eyes of outsiders, our Northeast is a place, many people don't know which three provinces are in Northeast China, and it takes time to explain their own provinces, so it is better to simply say that they are a Northeast person.
Visibility issues
I said that I am Shenyang, and there are many people who don't know that Shenyang is in**? The cities of the Northeast, the country can be widely knownHarbin and DalianIt is the first gear, these two styles of cities, Shenyang should be in the second gear, although Shenyang is the provincial capital, but most people do not think that Shenyang is a style of city, is an ordinary city. The only feature is that it is largeBecause Shenyang is a plain, how big it should be, how big it can be, and how big it is, unlike the mountainous cities in the south, where the cities are mostly long and the site is small.
But let me introduce Shenyang to strangers, and there seems to be nothing for them to remember. Many times you say which province you are, which city you are, and then the other person doesn't remember, remember that you are from the Northeast.
The accent gap is small
As a native of Shenyang, I can only listen to some Jilin, Harbin and Shenyang accents, but the specific differences are very small. It's basically the same, and the dialects can be understood by each other. Inner Mongolia is to the west of western Liaoning, and the text is similar, I don't know if they also say that they are northeast.
The overall accent of Liaodong Bay is about the same. It is different from the Northeast dialect, but both Dalian and Datang have similar accents. After all, Dalian and Qingdao are just separated by the sea.
However, a classmate from the south said he did not understand what the neighboring village was saying. But when southern students listen to the northeastern dialect, they should sound the same.
Administrative divisions
Heijiliao is an administrative division, and in terms of natural division, the Northeast is only such a large place, so many people in the Northeast will not clearly distinguish which province they belong to.
It may be because in the eyes of most people, the people of the Northeast are the same, and they don't have to be divided into provinces.
It's not all, I met two Northeast men, one is not bad, and the other is "Grande", stingy plus buckle door and love to take advantage, isn't it ordinary?
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