Let s talk about sharing a house with your partner, will you AA the rent?

I think it should be AA, if I want to live with my girlfriend, if he doesn't want me to pay for the rent, then I will pay for other things in the house, why don't you get married, the man must bear so much.

Definitely not, if a woman pays rent, then why do you want a man to do it, do men eat dry food? If you can't even pay the rent, then don't learn to fall in love.

Do what you can, if you really don't have enough money, don't hold on to yourself, let the woman share a little, presumably he will agree.

In fact, I think it's best not to let the girl share the burden, unless she takes the initiative to ask you, if the money is not enough, don't live together.

You can share the living expenses together, your girlfriend really loves you, she will definitely not let you starve to death, if the two of them plan to get married, shouldn't they save money together?

It is natural for men to pay rent, and what women have to do is to be diligent and thrifty, just do housework, what rent to pay?

Girls just want to be spoiled, accustomed, and obedient, how can renting a house make your girlfriend pay for it?

After two years of dating, my boyfriend proposed to live together, I asked him how to pay the rent, he said AA, we have about the same income, about 7,000 per person, and the rent is about 2,000, although I can afford it, I always feel uncomfortable.

I think it should be the man who takes the big head and the woman who takes the small head, and I will definitely let my girlfriend pay, but how much is up to her, and I won't force it.

Whether or not a couple in a cohabitation adopts the AA system (each paying their own expenses) depends on the values, financial situation and communication of both parties. Every couple's situation is unique, so there is no absolute right or wrong. Here are some suggestions for you to consider if you don't want to accept the AA system:

1.Communication: Start by communicating openly and honestly with your partner and expressing your feelings and concerns. Understand each other's financial and household expectations and make sure you are on the same page.

2.Discuss shared responsibilities: Discuss how various expenses are distributed in cohabitation, such as rent, utilities, food, daily necessities, etc. It can be reasonably distributed according to the income and expenditure of both parties, or it can be borne in turns.

3.Flexible treatment: Don't insist too much on the strict AA system, and consider adopting a flexible sharing method.

For example, one party can bear more expenses in one month and the other party in another. In this way, both parties have the opportunity to take on some responsibilities while also helping to balance household expenses.

4.Support each other: When it comes to finances, be supportive and understanding of each other. Understand each other's financial pressures and offer help when needed. At the same time, we must also learn to plan and manage our finances reasonably.

5.Enhance relationships: Financial issues are only one part of cohabitation. Pay attention to each other's emotional needs, maintain good communication, and get through life's challenges together, so that you can strengthen your relationship and strengthen your cohabitation relationship.

In conclusion, whether or not a couple living together adopts the AA system depends on the specific situation and communication of both parties. Understanding each other's needs and expectations, through communication and negotiation, to find a way to share finances that works for both parties will help maintain a harmonious cohabitation relationship.

Some people make easy money, have good economic conditions, and don't particularly care about money, AA is fine, and they don't necessarily have to be human parasites, and they are not respected for a long time.

Absolutely. First of all, the benefit of sharing a house for me is to save money, we all know that students have no income**, so except for people with particularly wealthy families, there is generally not much money left on hand, in the absence of a single room, it is more expensive to rent an apartment alone**, and it is a waste of space, so finding a good friend to share a house is a good way to save money, for those who know how to be budget-conscious, we naturally understand this. Secondly, the second advantage of sharing a house is that it is safer.

Living alone in a rented house is a dangerous thing, a person is easy to be bullied, and it is relatively safe to share a house with a familiar friend, of course, if you find a random stranger to share the house, then it seems a bit dangerous. There are many facilities and space in the shared room, considering the budget problem, the whole rental either has no living room, no kitchen, or even no independent bathroom, if you share the room, you can include all the bathrooms and kitchens into the scope of thinking, after all, there are many people to share the cost, the budget will not be so exaggerated, and there is one point, that is, the space will be relatively large. Reduce the cost of cooking.

The cost of cooking for one person is higher.

And you also have to buy pots and pans and other kitchen equipment.

If someone is working together.

It can share a lot of pressure.

Meal money can be AA system.

Take turns cooking, washing dishes, etc.

And the two of them will be happier when eating.

No. It's so clear that they all live together, it feels awkward, and it also damages the face of men.

I think it is a bit inappropriate to have an AA system, because both parties are not married, but ordinary boyfriends and girlfriends, and it is indeed a bit inappropriate to let the man bear the rent alone.

I think it's better to AA system, because you and your boyfriend are not married yet, and it will be better to distinguish each other at this time, otherwise there will be a lot of contradictions.

I think it's still necessary. Although they are lovers, they still do not share property without getting married, so no matter who has an extra part of the money, there will be some imbalance in their hearts, and if it is not handled properly, it will become the fuse of the breakup.

Want. Renting a house with your boyfriend, after all, you are not married, you are just in the stage of falling in love, and the property needs to be seen, and the AA system can also make you live more comfortably.

The house rented with my boyfriend, I suggest that it should still be AA system, and no one owes anyone, so as not to use this rent to talk about when there are disagreements and contradictions in the future.

In 2014, I met my current husband, and after knowing each other for a while, I felt that my feelings for each other were warming up, and I decided that the other party would definitely get married, so I decided to live together.

At that time, we rented a self-built house in Changping District, Beijing, my salary was 5,000 yuan, and his salary was more than 10,000 yuan.

But in the process of sharing a house, we also had a run-in phase, but we never thought of separating, so after three months, we felt that we had a good run-in with each other and would not be separated in the future, so we started to share finances. The specific method is that he gives me every month's salary, and I synchronize all the bank card information to him, and when we spend money, we withdraw money from one card, and the rest of the time we use credit cards to solve it.

Rent is actually just a cost after living together, going out to eat, traveling, participating in activities, etc. all need money, and it is impossible to have all AA systems, so it loses the meaning of love and cohabitation.

From the beginning of cohabitation, we assumed that the other person was the future partner, so we never hid anything from each other, but were all open and honest, including financial issues.

Later, the economic conditions improved, and the house we lived in became more and more expensive, and we all paid the rent from a card, and we never thought of the AA system.

The advantage of this is that the economy is transparent and assets can be managed together. After two years, we had enough money for a down payment and bought our own house. The speed may be unimaginable to many people, and most of it is also thanks to our economic sharing.

My personal advice for cohabitation is to think about what to do in the future, rather than being hot-headed or trying to save on rent.

If a boy really can't even go to rent and cry for a girl, then this boy is useless at all, so don't live together and break up directly.

For me, I think that the man should pay the money may be too materialistic, but I think that if the man does not pay, it means that the man is unreliable.

If they both decide to live together, then they will definitely get married in the future, so I think it doesn't matter who spends the money, the money should be paid by the man.

In my opinion, I think the man should still pay, although the boyfriend who will only spend money on you is not reliable, but if the money is not enough, if he is willing to spend it on you, this boyfriend must be unreliable.

Since they are all living together, then all the benefits are also the boy's, I think the man should pay for this and I think the man will have to pay for the future life and travel.

It seems that for me, I think it's better for two people to be more A-system, because sometimes some things are better to be separated, and no one can say what will happen in the future.

Even if you live together, I think the rent should be AA system, and if there is something that separates two people, there is no need for anyone to bear this kind of thing.

If I live with my other half, I will definitely pay for it under our AA system, because no one can say the outcome in the future, and it is impossible for him to pay.