How does it feel to get along with people who can t afford to joke

A group of people together, the so-called "people gather in kind, things in groups", everyone is a good relationship, people who love to joke, so they don't care about the importance of talking, hee and laugh, but suddenly a person who can't afford to joke is added to their circle, they will be a lot more restrained, and they should think about three points before speaking, which is really a torment for people who often joke and have no words, which is called suppressing "nature", and naturally others will not be willing to be with you. ‍‍

The first lesson in learning to joke should start with learning to laugh at yourself. Self-deprecation at the right time, with the right amount of proportion, and skill, is the most effective secret in interpersonal communication**. The right time is not to talk and laugh on a serious occasion or in a calm atmosphere, which is the basic cultivation.

Proper proportionality means that there is a lower limit to self-deprecation, and it can't make people feel skinless and faceless. Self-deprecation is not the same as self-deprecation, and a person who does not even respect himself usually makes people feel disrespectful to others. If you learn this, you can get along with people who can't afford to joke, and you won't have to be inhibited.

Working in a company, different departments will meet every night except for vacation, and sometimes it will trouble him due to work reasons. Maybe I'm too humble so it looks like I'm going to be a good bully, but after a long time of contact, I feel familiar with what happens to me, and I'm a little disgusted that he seems to think it's nothing to joke. A few days ago, I also took the small snack I just bought, and then returned the rest to me, and I felt a little uncomfortable inside.

Yesterday I also took the cigarettes I just bought and smoked half a pack (it can be said that I grabbed it, and I think it's nothing) and asked me to smoke tonight, so I asked him why he took my cigarettes yesterday, and then he also became angry and said that I can't afford to make jokes, and he won't give it to me next time, saying that he bought it tomorrow and returned it to me, and asked me what I still want. I'm also helpless about this kind of person, it's not that I can't afford to joke, it's just that this kind of person is too hateful.

Look at what jokes are there, and divide the occasion. Joking is a kind of humor, and if humor doesn't work at all, then it's boring. I can't play well anymore, and I get angry at every turn.

The person who makes the joke, he understands humor, he knows it's a joke. So it's easy to be friends with that kind of person. At least who you do with depends on how you get along, some people don't like to joke, and they don't understand how to just joke, it's more serious.

If you want to be friends, try not to joke.

There are many people who can't afford to joke, but they can be friends, and that's not what makes friends. It is also inevitable to encounter such people in work and life. So it's still important to get along.

It's very simple, it's chat to chat, work to work, don't joke about him. Because joking is his taboo. If you respect him, you will naturally win his favor, and you will have one more friend.

It's hard to joke with someone, but it's easy not to provoke him, and sometimes it's good to just leave after talking about work.

The person who can't afford to joke is also a person who is full of bottom lines, you don't know what to say and suddenly step on his bottom line, speak carefully, accidentally he gets angry again, and one word is tired. ‍‍

Since you can't afford to joke, let's make less jokes, the relationship between friends is not maintained by jokes, let alone what kind of person people can't afford to joke. For people who can't afford to make jokes, you first have to learn to respect, you can't afford to joke and don't be ashamed, and it's a shame to always make low-level funny jokes and ask others if you can't make jokes. No one is born out of the womb and will gag, be tolerant.

Let me tell you from my own personal experience, no one can't make jokes, everyone has their own bottom line, you touch other people's bottom line, and in turn blame others for not being able to make jokes, it is you who violate others first. You are thin, you go to joke with the fat man, you are so fat, you have a boyfriend, to laugh at other people's single dogs, trouble you to joke, to make the person being joked feel funny, instead of when the three or five people around you eat melons laugh, you have a sense of achievement, don't take your own rudeness, not being able to observe words and emotions as upright and humorous.

Just don't joke with these kinds of people. The same question can become: What do you think of people who love to joke?

The same joke, some people can't laugh at all, some people laugh half to death, there is a difference between people. So be clear, don't force others to change their personalities, and don't look for things to test others.

For the kind of people who can't make jokes, but always like to make jokes about others. Often make fun of others and belittle others, as if this makes them very face-saving! Sometimes when others respond with words, they can turn their faces in an instant! This kind of person is disgusting. ‍‍

I think introverts can't afford to joke, and when I'm with her, I'll try to avoid making jokes to her.

I think her heart is very small, and she will offend her if she accidentally says a word, and she has no sense of humor at all.

I only found out today that my husband doesn't take me with him every time he goes out to a party, drinks and eats. He said his friends were afraid of me. It is said that northerners joke that southerners can't afford to take it seriously, so it was unanimously decided that they would not joke with me casually in front of me in the future.

said that every time he joked with me, I took it seriously, saying that he was afraid that I would go home and beat my husband, and that it would affect the relationship between me and my husband and wife. Hehe, I'm so innocent, I think I'm quite humorous. My friends from junior high school, high school, and college know that I'm pretty cheerful, but I don't like to joke about relationships and marriage.

Because none of his friends are unattentive. I really can't get used to them in my heart, so I used to think that what they said I thought I could bear not to tell them, and it was enough to give them the face of my husband and friend. Also, who knows if the joke is true or false every time.

I am the only person in the emotional world that one is one, and two is two. But I can't say it. Should people who can't afford to joke be ostracized?

Why don't you joke with your own daughter-in-law, and even tell my husband that you won't let me take you when you get together to drink in the future. Inexplicably, it was as if I had committed a great crime, and he wouldn't let me go. I think that my family has always been upright, never likes to take advantage, never wants to owe favors, respects the old and loves the young, never dislikes the poor and loves the rich, never hooks up and never engages in ambiguity.

I can't afford to joke about this black pot, I really don't want to carry it. ‍‍

It will make you feel like you don't want to talk. I feel that saying a word will offend people.

Hello, I'm glad to answer for you: depending on the situation, the following two suggestions are for your reference: 1: Being able to joke together means that they are people who are more familiar with each other and have a good relationship, and they can't hurt their feelings because of a joke.

Those who can't afford to lose are also those who can't afford to win; Do not do unto others as you would have them do unto you. Since you can't afford to make jokes, don't make fun of others. This kind of person with a small belly can only stay away, and there is no need to continue dating.

2: I think I can also socialize. Because everyone's personality is not necessarily the same, as long as both parties have a sincere and kind heart, it does not hinder communication.

People who can't afford to joke, rigorous attitude, more introverted, sense of justice, slightly melancholy, introspective, lonely, conservative, nostalgic, negative, insecure, and lack a sense of humor, often pretend to be high or stern to hide their inner vulnerability.

Joking, refers to teasing, teasing, teasing others, but also expressing pride, affirming tone, and also treating it with an unserious attitude, as child's play.

Function: Making some jokes appropriately in life can shorten the distance with others, resolve the embarrassing atmosphere, and win the favor of others. But when the object, occasion, and scale of the joke are inappropriate, it may backfire and even hurt the self-esteem and emotions of others.

Generally speaking, it may be the words of people who can't afford to joke, maybe the character of such a person, but the words of such a person can be said to be more straightforward, and the words of such a person may be to say that one of his thoughts and ideas may be too straightforward, so what he says may be that the words of such a person are generally not able to make jokes, and he can take what others say seriously, that is, if others think it is a joke, he can take it seriously, so generally such a person is saying a character. It's just too straightforward character, so you can understand the character who can't afford to joke in this way, which means a more straightforward character.