When you find that you and your boyfriend don t have the same views, will you break up with him?

Updated on psychology 2024-03-22
36 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    When I find out that my boyfriend and I don't have the same three views, I will break up with him, because I think it is very important to have the same three views, two people must be together with the same values and worldview, if they are not consistent, it will not work, two people will never be able to go together. I think that once there is a disagreement, it will be the result of a quarrel, and I don't like to quarrel because it is too much waste of physical strength and energy, and quarrels hurt the body. So on the whole, if I don't agree with him, I will break up with him immediately, and timely stop loss is the real king.

    When you find a problem with something, you have to think about what the consequences of the problem will be for you, and then you must also think about how you can solve the problem.

    Feelings can't be escaped, so if you find out that you don't agree with each other, and you continue to be with him, I think you should be unhappy, quarreling every day, and you are also very irritable, whether it is work or life, it will not be smooth. So if you quarrel and you bring your emotions to work, if the work is not done well, your boss will scold you, and this goes on and on, which has caused a lot of pressure and unnecessary trouble for yourself, so I don't think there is any need to be together anymore.

    I had a boyfriend who didn't agree with me before, and I didn't know it at first, so I didn't pay much attention to it. These things were discovered slowly when we were in our daily lives, and then it didn't take long for us to break up. Because we have also discussed a lot about this issue, that is, the most important thing is that everyone should not delay each other, and once it is not suitable, they will immediately separate, in fact, they are very responsible for each other, so we broke up peacefully, and there was no quarrel and no bloody third party, so we separated peacefully, and then we all found the other half that suited each other.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    When I find that I don't agree with my boyfriend, I will definitely break up with him, because people who don't agree with each other will be really tired when they communicate together. There must be many things in life that do not agree with each other, and then there is a need to quarrel, and quarrels can really consume a person's mind. After a long time, there are many quarrels, and the feelings will naturally disappear, so when you meet people who don't agree with the three views, you should break up as soon as possible, so that you won't waste time.

    Moreover, people who do not agree with the three views may have great contradictions. For example, if they have different views on some things, they will have different choices, which makes it impossible for two people to come together. Because lovers and couples must have the same choice, so that they can better walk through life together.

    But if they don't agree, it's hard to get them to walk through a lifetime together. So it's better to divide it as soon as possible, so that you won't waste time and youth.

    It is difficult for people with different views to get along together because they will have a lot of problems in their lives. They will have different opinions on a lot of things, and then there will be a lot of disputes. If your life is full of these disputes, it is very annoying.

    Because life requires constant debate, in fact, when we are in our own home, we still want to be able to live in a relaxed state. If you spend all day debating, you're going to be in a very bad mood. So I think it's better to divide it as soon as possible, and it's really difficult for people with different views to fit in.

    Lovers must have the same three views to be able to get along well. If the three views do not coincide, they will have a lot of differences in many places. This can make them very tired to get along with.

    Because they have to constantly deal with this kind of problem of disagreement, sometimes if they don't handle it well, it may cause great emotional problems between two people. So I don't think it's better to waste time with people who don't agree with this kind of three views.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    will choose to break up with him, and two people who don't agree with each other will feel very tired when they get along together. For example, if you want to eat an apple, he will tell you how delicious a banana is. With such a person, you will not be happy.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    When you find that you and your boyfriend don't have the same views, of course, you will decisively propose to break up.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Yes, because the three views are an important factor that leads to whether love can continue smoothly, and if the three views do not agree, there is no need to force a strong relationship with your boyfriend.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    In this case, it will really break up. Because if two people don't agree with each other's three views. It's hard to have some common ground. After a long time, there will be nothing to say between the two people. Love naturally fades.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    When I found out that I didn't agree with my boyfriend, I thought it was that I should break up in time. Because two people do not agree on the three views, then the attitude towards life, ideals and goals of life will be completely different. Because of the disagreement between the three views, the differences and differences that arise in life will become larger and larger, resulting in huge contradictions.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Of course I'm going to break up with him. When you get along with people who don't have the same views, you will feel very tired. What's more, marrying someone who doesn't agree with the three views will definitely not be happy in such a marriage.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    If it is true that the three views do not agree, both parties can try to change. If you can't change it, you still have to think carefully. Because if the three views do not agree, and you do not accommodate and understand each other in the process of getting along, then there will be many differences in your relationship due to different opinions and concepts.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    If the two people I would choose to break up with him don't have the same views, then there must be a lot of contradictions in getting along, especially after getting married. They can't get along, so they will still choose to break up if they can't change it.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Two people who don't agree with each other can't get along well.

    So after communicating with your boyfriend, if your boyfriend doesn't know how to change, then the final result will definitely be a breakup.

    You can communicate well first, and when the other party is willing to change for yourself, you should still give the other party a chance at this time.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    I think this kind of relationship is not suitable, and you should choose to break up, because two people are together for life, and there will be a lot of contradictions if the three views do not agree, and these contradictions will have a huge impact on the lives of two people, and may turn from some small contradictions to big contradictions.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    I think it is difficult for two people to continue to walk if they don't agree with each other, and if I meet someone who doesn't agree with each other, I will choose to break up, because the three views don't agree with the things I like, and the lifestyles are different, and it is very easy to have conflicts because of small problems.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    If it's for other reasons, then it may be considered, but if two people have this problem, then there is nothing to worry about, just break up, because it is impossible for people with different views to live together.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    If my boyfriend and my three views are not very compatible, I will not choose to break up with him immediately, I will extend the run-in period between the two people, and try to change myself during this period, I hope mine can help you.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    In love and marriage, we should care for each other, trust each other, and help each other, but if the two parties' outlook on life, world view, and values do not coincide, it is difficult to have a common language, and it is difficult to have a happy life, so if the lovers do not have the same views, they should break up as soon as possible.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Hello, I will break up decisively, give up this relationship, and avoid constant quarrels and constant different ideas in the future. Stop losses in time.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Yes, you can't go far with a person who doesn't agree with your three views, you will often have contradictions and disagreements, and you will never get along.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    If my boyfriend's three views are not correct, I will definitely break up with him, because the three views are very important, and if the three views of two people are not consistent, the relationship will not last long.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    I won't do this, don't talk about disagreeing with his three views, I can correct her three views in my later life, or gradually cultivate with him, and then form a new three views, which can be developed later.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Hello, for sure. If you want to be happy in marriage for a long time, the three views of two people must be the same.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    It is impossible for two people with different views to come together, and when I find that we do not have the same three views, I will choose to sever the relationship between them. Because, I don't want to let the argument fill the whole space of love.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    There are almost no people with the same three views, men and women are different, and their personalities cannot be the same.

    Don't expect everything to be in harmony, after all, it is normal for boys and girls to have very different understandings of a certain thing. Men love the military, women love cosmetics, men love football, women love clothes, it's hard to convince to follow your hobbies, it's nothing.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    If I find that my boyfriend and I don't have the same views, I will first go to my boyfriend to communicate, and what is the reason why we were together before, and whether we can make changes so that we can be better together.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Please, how did the Lord solve the problem, I have the same situation now, and I think that my boyfriend is not a big problem, but the two of them don't think about things, including brain circuits and so on, are wrong.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    If two people think differently, then there is no need to be together, because many things will conflict, and in the end it will lead to two people being very unhappy together, and it is best to separate in that way. Then you can also find the life you want.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    If I find that my boyfriend and I don't have the same views, I will decisively choose to break up, the long pain is better than the short pain, and there is no way to fundamentally solve the problem if we continue to be together, and the final love will be fruitless.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    I will directly propose to break up with my boyfriend, because the two of us have different concepts, which will cause a lot of conflicts in later life, and will also cause a lot of quarrels between the two of us, so choosing to break up is the most important thing.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    If the three views do not agree, then it is recommended that you do not continue to interact.

    Because the three views seem to be relatively empty, but he is really reflected in all aspects of your life, if the three views do not agree, your contradictions will be relatively more.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    If I find that I don't agree with my boyfriend, and I have adjusted it many times without effect, I will choose to break up. There will be a lot of entanglements and even embarrassments when the three views do not agree, and the two people will often quarrel. Instead of continuing like this, it is better to let go and find one that suits you.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    Of course, you should break up, after all, your three views are not together, and there will be constant contradictions. If two people don't have the same views, it is not suitable to be together. Because you have different views, there are constant contradictions. You won't be happy together, and you'll break up when the time comes.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    If you and your boyfriend don't agree on the same ideas, there will indeed be disagreements on many issues, and then there will be many disputes and contradictions. Only by being more tolerant of each other and making concessions to each other can we reach a consensus and solve the problem. If you have your own opinions, it is indeed painful to be together, and it is better to be separated.

    I feel that in this situation, you still have to communicate with your boyfriend, if you really can't communicate, you should do it according to your own ideas, and it is better to break up.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    Of course, you should break up, the three views do not agree, even if you get married in the future, you will not be happy, so don't delay each other anymore!

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    You can do anything to find a partner, but the three views do not match, and you must not be able to make do. This problem is a very big thing, and two people can't live together if they don't handle it well.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    If the model is wrong, it's better to divide it early! Because it is difficult to have results if the model is not matched! It's very hard!

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    Many people will complain to their friends in life, and feel that they often quarrel with their other half because of the problem of three views. So, what is the disagreement of the three views? In fact, many people don't understand.

    They often regard the other party's incompatibility as a disagreement between the three views, but in fact, the other party does not care so much about your feelings. Because the three views do not agree and quarrel is nothing more than because the two have different attitudes towards things, in fact, this is not very difficult to solve. Because of the influence of the growth background and the original family, it is difficult to find the other half who can completely match his three views in life.

    This also requires us to be tolerant and understanding of each other when we get along with our significant other.

    In life, when you disagree with your other person, don't judge the other person, let alone verbally attack. As long as the other person's behavior does not affect the normal life of the two of you, you should not interfere. When you dislike the other person's behavior or attitude, it is better to go into the other person's world to understand.

    This is also conducive to the common topic of the two of you, and also closes your relationship with each other, so that the other party has a good impression of you little by little.

    In the process of dating, it is normal for the two to have disagreements, but how to resolve this disagreement is very important. So, when you have different opinions, you have to communicate with each other and say what you think. Otherwise, you will also quarrel over different opinions, and the two will have a misunderstanding.

    So, when there is a disagreement, you must not follow your emotions, try to keep yourself calm, and try to communicate with the other person in a timely manner. Moreover, you should also show your attitude to the other person, and tell the other person that the two people's thoughts can be found while reserving differences, and it is not necessarily that the two people have to be the same. When the other party feels your sincerity, they will naturally let down their guard against you, and your recovery process has been at least 50% successful.

    The process of recovering one's other half and returning to oneself is nothing more than a process of re-establishing trust between the two. Then you just need to prove to your significant other that you have changed after the breakup and are no longer the person you were before the breakup. However, even after receiving your message, it will take some time for the other person to digest it and rebuild their confidence in your future.

    At this time, remember to rush to ask the other person for a result, otherwise, the other person is likely to choose to escape, because you have already experienced a failed relationship. So, you must not rush to achieve results, otherwise all your previous efforts will be in vain. As long as you show enough sincerity, the other party will definitely be impressed by your sincerity again.

    If there is discord in all aspects and you are unwilling to accommodate each other, most of them will be tormented together, and if you have children, it will affect the family. If you can't let go, try to change, and if you can, then pursue your own happiness.

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