My boyfriend and I have different views on money, and we went to the same university.

Updated on educate 2024-02-22
52 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Girls are more careful, you think is reasonable, boys are good face love to make friends, if you want to separate flowers with him at once, maybe he will not understand, in fact, boys love generosity can not be changed But you can discuss with him whether to save a little treasury to be unprepared. And the little vault can be placed here or there, but it can only be used in a very urgent situation...

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    He has money for him to take, he should take it, you put your own money up and spend his! (Let me say he just doesn't make sense), either you are being tricked, and the phrase "after all, we are going to get married in the future" largely shows that you are being tricked!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    I've also seen a man eat that we haven't had a guest in the whole summer... The premise of marriage is that you must be in charge of finances. It is recommended to make a statement of expenses, list the main expenses of your two money, and treat yourself to be aware of it, it is best to keep a sum of money as a backup, and you can't spend it softly when his money is spent, and you can't be wronged yourself, so that he can taste that in most cases there is no money when there is no friend.

    He just shows that he hasn't seen through society yet, and besides, if the boy is mature enough to get married, then he will change...

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    That's because you don't trust each other yet. Otherwise, you wouldn't have such a mentality. You can talk to each other well, mutual trust and love is good, you have to believe that your direct love will not be affected, otherwise it is very dangerous for you to have such a mentality.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    It's best to prepare for marriage, at least the parents of both parties have met, engaged or something, thank you.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    It was similar to you before, and now I've graduated. No points. I'm a good man, and I hope your boyfriend is too.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    The matter has come to this point, and the only way to cherish it is to cherish it.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    This kind of thing depends on your boyfriend, what can you do with a girl's family, if you quarrel with that girl like a shrew, it's not the same as her, treat this kind of thing coldly, your boyfriend will solve it, if he is still hesitant and ambiguous, take advantage of the early part.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    The version on that girl's side may not be the same as yours, and that girl is also thinking about how to deal with you. You're thinking about how to deal with her, it's the guy in the middle who gets the benefits. If only I were that man. All the benefits have been taken.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    After being determined, your boyfriend is not a good bird either.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    The sperm worm is on the brain,,, but it is certain that the woman likes the man very much,

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    It's ...... thing for your boyfriendJust let him figure it out on his own.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Looks like your boyfriend isn't a thing either.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    I am also a college student in school, my boyfriend and I are also from not very wealthy families, so we rarely go out, we are from different schools, sometimes I go back to school to take the subway, he will help me buy a ticket, although I did not refuse him in person, but will tell him that we need the AA system, I hope he can understand, and return the money to him at the next meeting. I think we're all students now, and we all have to rely on my parents, so I think as a girl, we need to have better communication with boys in this regard. And being a boy shouldn't be because"Face"And refusing what girls buy for boys, I feel that it is normal for lovers to be like this, and I shouldn't feel that I am so faceless just because I am a boy.

    Lovers can give each other warmth and encouragement, and each other can make progress.

    Equality between men and women"It's a basic national policy.,This boy refuses what his girlfriend bought him.,I think it's very undeserved.。 The relationship between two people should be equal, and you shouldn't feel that just because you're a guy, you shouldn't accept your girlfriend's things.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Now this society has a bit of an AA system trend, of course, as a boy to take the initiative, it will look gentlemanly, and girls will like it!

    However, if the family background is not very good, you should pay attention to the expenses, after all, it is with the money of the parents, so you usually pay attention to guiding the girl to spend, if she spends a little too much!

    Since you are lovers, it is necessary for you to tell him your monthly living expenses, do you know that your living expenses are not much, and you still spend highly? Don't think this is something embarrassing, be honest and honest, love is not a fireworks.

    Also, if you are not used to girls paying, then I will teach you a good way, leave the basic monthly living expenses, and then keep the excess money for him, so that there is no problem of who pays for living together and spending together.

    If you even eat together, then give her all the money for safekeeping, so that she also knows the source of the stream!

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    I'm the same as you.

    But I handled it well.

    Since everyone wants to be together.

    Nothing to hide.

    She should also know your financial situation, and you should also know that her best plan is to tell the truth.

    It's nothing, it's nothing, it's nothing.

    There are so many poor people in the world, hehe.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Don't refuse if she buys something for you, the person who is rejected will have some ...... of ideas

    Try to save a little bit, sometimes you have to communicate more, maybe she doesn't need you to be too luxurious for her, simple and heartfelt is the best.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    If you don't have money, don't look for it, or bring up aa, you pick up a girl, don't want to hurt her, let your buddies pay to hurt your friends, I'm sure you're high-speed, this woman and you have less than 30% chance of becoming successful, but your friends around you look down on you for a lifetime.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    I believe that the campus is much purer than the outside, and if you really love her, there is nothing to keep, and good communication is very important.

    Now we pay attention to the equality of men and women, don't do anything machismo, now you should not have any economic **, thrift is also more important.

    The direction is set, and then there is the method.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    I think that when you fall in love, you don't have to pay back all your boyfriends, because you must not be a husband, but you can't AA system, which is too restrictive between men and women, and you must not be ordinary friends, so boyfriend payment will not become a burden in the future!

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Love doesn't stick together every day. Each place has its own things to do. It's okay to go out on weekends or when both of you are free.

    Giving each other personal space is a responsibility and love for each other. My boyfriend and I are like this, and now our relationship has always been very good. He loves you, but he doesn't have to want to see you all the time.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Love does not mean that we must be together every day, nor does it mean that we meet all the time.

    You also have life circles, your classmates, your friends, your classes. If you do what you say, if he wants to be with you all the time. You can not go to class, dormitory, or play with your classmates for him.

    Is it just two people who don't do anything every day? It's impossible for anyone to do that, right?

    I love you, I will care about you in small things, I will be considerate of you in the details of life, and I will tolerate you when we get along. If he does it, he loves you, and doesn't necessarily think that he has to see you more than he wants to love.

    Many of my college classmates got married to their girlfriends after graduation because they loved each other. But they can't meet their girlfriends every day, they are still a major, the courses and schedules are the same, and they are just in different classes in the same department. But they also want to hang out with their dorm mates, play cards together, and so on.

    There are times when I hide from my lazy girlfriend.

    Haste makes waste.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Isn't that enough to love you? If the university wants to see you, you have to think about whether he is inconvenient to come to you or something. And if you can go to his school and find him, then he will be very happy.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    If you don't have enough money and can't afford to date, women feel that as long as they stick together every day, they are happy, but men don't think so.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    If love is long-lasting, it is in the morning and twilight.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    I really don't understand why girls think like this, men prefer independent girls, this is life not a love story.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Maybe he's afraid you'll say he won't give you your freedom.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    It's over, it's over, his mother won't be good if he mixes it up like this, and he's not a staunch person, so why do you have to wait like this. However, you should still read the book, and not having a diploma in this society will seriously affect your future development. Moreover, you can find a person with a higher cultivation in college, which kills two birds with one stone.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    It won't last long, it's broken! Go to work! Look for it at work

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    Divide it... Because you're too active, he doesn't know how important you are, and if you don't take the initiative and he doesn't take the initiative, then there's no need for you to be together again.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    Maybe that's his character, or maybe he doesn't particularly like you.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    Try not to contact him for a while, see how he reacts, and break up if not!!

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    Let's take it one step at a time, there is still a lot of room in your relationship, and you don't necessarily have to be a couple

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    It's nothing, maybe he's busy with things and spending time with his family. Since we are together, we have to believe in each other.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    Then you tell him that since you are a boyfriend and girlfriend, there is nothing you can't say, and your boyfriend should call you more than you often call him.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    I've also experienced this kind of thing, you haven't been in contact for a long time, and he has a big playfulness, and he usually doesn't pretend to be anything special in his heart, I used to be like that, and I was also tested by my wife.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    Tell him that I can't see his information every day, and I am very worried.

  38. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    That only shows that he doesn't care about you.

  39. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    The other party is also waiting for you to reply, because you said earlier that you took the initiative first! Of course, the other party will let you reply to him, remember to adopt me.

  40. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    If you really can't stand it, you tell him what you think, ask him what's going on, ask, and then, don't you take the initiative to find him, see if he takes the initiative to find you.

  41. Anonymous users2023-12-28

    It shows that you are not important in his heart, but the kind that is dispensable.

  42. Anonymous users2023-12-27

    It's the kind of stuffy boyfriend.

  43. Anonymous users2023-12-26

    Beware of problems and see if you can see his chat history or text messages.

  44. Anonymous users2023-12-25

    Men who like you are reluctant to take the initiative.

  45. Anonymous users2023-12-24

    What kind of people are they, suspicious all day long, are you tired?

  46. Anonymous users2023-12-23

    My boyfriend and I aren't together. The distance is far away. We've been doing this for two years. I'm still happy.

    Although it is not in the same place, I will text or call him if there is anything happy about. Tell him if you're unhappy. He is very comforting and encouraging.

    Although we only see each other once in six months, we text every night about what we did that day or reminisce about our previous life together. He remembered my birthday every time and sent me birthday presents. I was impressed.

    It doesn't feel like distance is a big deal. Two people should trust each other and understand each other. Sometimes I feel like other people around me are nice, but that's just thinking about it. I'm used to him.

    Of course, if you really can't maintain this relationship, you don't have to force it. There are some things that you really can't force to come by.

    Try your best. If you really love each other

    My sister and brother-in-law were good in high school, and it was good not to be together for 7 years when they were in college and graduate school. Now I'm married, and I'm happy.

  47. Anonymous users2023-12-22

    A little distance apart doesn't mean you lose her.

    Now it's time to learn. Outside of school, maintain your relationship.

    As long as the two truly love each other, they won't change anything because of these.

  48. Anonymous users2023-12-21

    Distance really produces beauty. I believe that people who stick together all day long will always have aesthetic fatigue.

  49. Anonymous users2023-12-20

    Distance doesn't mean that the heart also has a distance! If the two love for a long time, how can it be in the morning and twilight? Go with the flow and listen to each other's voices.

  50. Anonymous users2023-12-19

    They're all playing with you, I'll give you substantive advice, it's better to divide it. I'm afraid that none of you can accept the physical torture.

  51. Anonymous users2023-12-18

    When the two are together, everything is not distance!

  52. Anonymous users2023-12-17

    I don't know, because I didn't handle it well, which led to today's scene!

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