What should I do when I meet a table mate like this?

Listening to the description, it's a pretty cute doll.

Okay, Zhengse, Dao: I think as long as he is not a bad person in nature, there is no need to worry about it, but get along with him in moderation. It feels like he's having a hard time moving on from the past, and he's a bit like someone who is immersed in his own world and doesn't care about the world, which is usually very sensitive.

Give a few suggestions:

If you want to make friends with him or something, then you have to bother more. First of all, we must observe him carefully, try to understand his habits and the scales and principles of his work, and then treat him with his attitude towards people, so as to shorten the sense of distance. By the way, it's best not to do anything that wants to get his attention, it's easy to be ignored or despised.

However, it will take a lot of time and energy, and if you succeed, your interpersonal skills will be greatly improved, but it is more important to study in the third year of high school.

I prefer to ignore him, not to pay attention to him, and when he doesn't exist, there's no need to fret. The reasons are as follows: 1 Dating has a lot of time and will not miss the person who should be strong for any reason, the main task of the third year of high school is to study and prepare for the college entrance examination, although I don't want to admit it (I also start the third year of high school), but the college entrance examination really can't be ignored, whether it's for the present, or in the future, so you should try to save time and energy on other things.

2. If you make friends rashly without knowing him, the most likely result is to make yourself very unhappy, and it is nothing to be ignored, and you are not ignored by the whole world, that is to say, you have nothing to lose by ignoring him, and you have to take risks with him. 3 Some people just don't like to have contact with too many people, whether it's because they are afraid of trouble or lack of courage or disdain or lack of security, some people just don't like places with a lot of people, and they won't take the initiative to make new friends, a few things in their world are enough, it's enough to have oneself and people I knew before, I sometimes have this feeling, at that time, I don't want anyone to try to understand me and get close to me.

Interpersonal relationships, you should have clear principles, which people you should cherish, which ones are passers-by, which ones are people to stay away from, experience should be constantly accumulated, and the next time you meet similar people, you won't be so overwhelmed.

Xiao Xiaosheng: I think you're paying too much attention to him, so pay attention to Lei Chi.

There were similar students in our class before, it was difficult to get it, you are almost in the third year of high school, and you will definitely be worried about this for a long time, so it is better to find other ways, change positions or something else. At least he already has this habit, it is very difficult to change, don't know about it, I wish you to learn and progress, and change to a good table as soon as possible

Generally speaking, this is a condition with autism

We used to have one in school, who didn't speak all day, and when he was in class, he would lie on the table with his chin propped up, and then he would stare at someone in the class

When I asked him after class, he didn't say anything, so he shook his head and ran away

If you are caring, then talk to him more, and after a long time, he will talk to you when he knows you

If you don't have any patience, then ignore him and be transparent As for you not talking for more than a month -- didn't you get out of class? Didn't get out of school? Just the two of you 24 hours a day?

I think he doesn't ask you questions, you can ask him questions, so he won't disagree with you, this person he doesn't like to talk to girls, he must be a very calm and conscious person, he is afraid that he will fall into some kind of embarrassing situation, for example, he asks someone a question, but others are unwilling to tell him anything, in fact, he should want to communicate with others.

Hehe, I remember when I was in junior high school, I was quite similar to your tablemate. It's just that the temper of the super explosive is not frequent. Didn't you say that the content of his muttering was super funny?

If you want to laugh, laugh, then explain to him that you are not laughing at him, but that he is talking with such humor. It doesn't matter if he ignores you. Wouldn't it be nice if you laughed at yourself anyway, that's a kind of fun.

When he talks to himself, you think you can answer the conversation, what are you afraid of? Even if he ignores you, leave him alone. Or you can ignore him.

But it's good to be short-lived.

Maybe it's because you're not comfortable with each other, and he's very "introverted", but you can try to get to know him, get some of his content from his former classmates, and try to talk to him, don't keep wasting it. It's going to be fine, they're all classmates, and there won't be too much disagreement. Ha ha..

Then don't talk to him...Say to the front table and the back table

Why don't you find something to talk to him about? Do you dare--