What should I do with such a daughter in law, what should I do if my daughter in law treats me badly

Big mouth pumping her!

Tell her to get out! What is such an unfilial woman going to do?

Don't forget the hardships of your mother's upbringing!!

There is no good way. The dearest ones are the parents, and the most loved ones are the husband and wife. Parents can't choose, and wives can't change.

If you have to decide, you should put your parents first, then your husband and wife. I believe that my wife is not too bad a person. There are also parents who compromise and accommodate the younger couple, in that way, will you feel better?

Marriage itself has a lot of troubles, and if you get divorced, it's the same if you find another one. So it can only be tolerated. Or there is another way, you are doubly good to her parents, just like their own son, if she is a kind woman, she will also think about being good to your parents, otherwise there is no way.

My solution is to pump her! It works, don't believe you give it a try?

But it's best to wait for her to be in a good mood one day, and tell her that you are in a good mood and that you are feeling now, and then tell her that although you love her very much, you still want a divorce.

If she says to leave right away, you can leave her right away, because then she may already want to leave.

It's no fun for you to go on like this, it's better to find a pig if you want such an unfilial woman!

You have to make it clear to your lover, let him look at him from a different angle, and if you are replaced by him, look at his attitude.

Tell her how you would feel if your children treated you the same way in the future. The upper beam is not correct and the lower beam is crooked, and parents are the best role models for their children.

Such a daughter-in-law is too ignorant, so she left it.

Brother upstairs, seeing your post, brother, I really feel the same way, first of all, I am the only son in the family, last year's marriage, married in the first month of this year, and now my wife has gone home to give birth; Since I got married, my wife didn't let me send money to my family, thinking about the house I built the year before last and still owed more than 20,000 debts to others, and my parents were honest and hardworking farmers! There are still daily expenses in my hometown, but my wife never considers our family's debts, and every time I come to the bank, Cui will always make the second old man anxious, and now my wife is pregnant, I endure all things, but I have to live in the future! How will you live after this?

The child is about to have it!

My wife is a person with a greater desire for power (in the family), just like in March this year, my cousin was short of money, so I asked him to turn over 200, I agreed at the time, and my wife still refused, so we had a big fight!

I couldn't grind her for two days, and I was so angry that I kicked over the table.

My wife is a very extreme person, as long as you are not good at one time, she will immediately deny you completely.

Because I am away all the year round, all the holiday gifts after getting married are all given by my parents, and she doesn't let me send money home during the holidays, and says that my family's gifts are too light, saying that they don't respect her! It's noisy, and he said he wouldn't go to our house, heh. Sad!

In fact, the gift is not less in our place, we don't give cigarettes for the Dragon Boat Festival in our place, and I added a cigarette when I gave the gift,) For this reason, she hung it once**, and didn't pick it up twice**) I really wanted to slap her when I hung me**.

Seriously, when I wasn't married, I said I wouldn't get a divorce because it would make me feel like a failure!

Married big brothers and sisters, can you tell me if this is a serious matter for us, or if you all have these situations. Teach me how to deal with these problems, right? Will she be better after giving birth?

We will definitely quarrel in the future, and I often have the urge to slap her, and if I really hit her, will the relationship be broken?

Summary. Good evening, dear. It's all mother-in-law who is not good at being a mother-in-law, as a mother, she worked hard to raise her children, helped her son marry a wife and take care of the children, and finally returned to the daughter-in-law resentment. It's a very uncomfortable feeling, and the answerer understands.

What should I do if my daughter-in-law treats me badly.

Good evening, dear. It's all mother-in-law who is not good at being a mother-in-law, as a mother, she worked hard to raise her children, helped her son marry a wife and take care of the children, and finally returned to the daughter-in-law resentment. It's a very uncomfortable feeling, and the answerer understands.

The daughter-in-law who faced it was not good. Answer: The Lord has a few suggestions for kisses, hoping to help you.

First, try not to live with children, as the so-called distant fragrance near smell, living together, everyone has different living habits, values, and many contradictions.

Second, don't be overly partial to your own son. Regardless of whether the son is wrong or not, he favors the daughter-in-law, a family, when the daughter-in-law is happy, the family is harmonious, and if the daughter-in-law is unhappy, the whole family is unhappy.

Third, don't put your thoughts on the children, the children grow up and have their own thoughts, and they are walking in the future.

Fourth, when the child needs help, he will try to help if he can, and if he can't help, he will clearly say that he is incapable.

Fifth, put the mentality right, why do we bring our sons with hard work, and we don't pay anything for our daughters-in-law, even if they bring children, why don't we bring them to our sons, not to our daughters-in-law. Let's be really good to our daughter-in-law.

Sixth, if there is something that the son should do, the daughter-in-law is also in love. So don't ask too much of your daughter-in-law.

Learn to get along with your daughter-in-law well, people's hearts are flesh and blood, I believe that we are good to her, even if she is not good to them, she will not stop her son from being good to them.

I hope you can find all the answers from the above respondents.

Summary. Then she may have spent her money elsewhere, you have to think that her income is already low, and women also like to buy things, dress up, cosmetics or something has become a big expense, so maybe the money will naturally be less, if you feel that you really have doubts, you can find an opportunity to ask her, when the two parties are calm, if you want to deter her, you have to deal with this matter more seriously, see how she reacts.

Such a wife, what to do.

What kind of wife is it? Could you please elaborate on this so that I can better understand your question.

Our husband and wife have been married for 5 years, have a 3-year-old baby, have a set of mortgage houses, mortgage repayment of more than 1 million, more than 6,000 mortgages per month, my income can also be more than 3,000 provident fund, January began to pay the supplementary provident fund per month of more than 5,000 provident fund, wife low income, five or six thousand yuan per month, provident fund is hundreds, I paid the supplement after she basically did not have to pay extra money, just a few months later, I thought she should have some savings to subsidize the family, life is good. Yesterday 520, she said that she had to transfer her 520, no gifts, I asked why, she said that she wanted to borrow 300 for the driver's license mock test, I wondered, she just paid her salary on the 15th, and she couldn't even take out 300 yuan today? If it's 3000 yuan, forget it, I don't know where her money goes, the family mortgage just said, I have a big head, water, electricity and gas are also paid by me, my mother lives with us, and my mother pays for the daily baby's food, clothing, housing and transportation, my wife said ugly like a guest living in our house, don't do housework and don't pay, that's how I can't even touch 300 yuan, I told her that it is okay to borrow money, but to explain the details of the money clearly, she refused again, and began to cheat, saying why I don't hand over the money, With her ability to run the house, how could I leave the money to her?

What should such a wife do? It's best to think of a way to deter.

Then she may have spent her money elsewhere, you have to think that her income is already low, and women also like to buy things, dress up, cosmetics or something has become a big expense, so maybe the money will naturally be less, if you feel that you really have doubts, you can find an opportunity to ask her, when the two parties are calm, if you want to deter her, you have to deal with this matter more seriously, see how she reacts.

Of course, it is to respect the etiquette of the Hui people, do not eat big meat (pork), and do not mention it when eating. The Hui people want to celebrate Eid al-Fitr, which is equivalent to the Hui people's own New Year, so it should be more grand. There are also daughters-in-law who marry into the Hui nationality, who should be more filial and practical than before.

It can't be too frivolous, and the Hui love to be clean.

Be filial to the elderly, understand and tolerate the elderly.