How do I get along with such a tablemate?

Updated on psychology 2024-03-06
8 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Don't say anything, with my IQ180 wisdom understanding. You like her, don't you?

    Don't tell me there is no such thing, and if not, you can skip the following text. Don't say you like her, be nice to her, don't buy anything for her, language communication is the best.

    It's okay to talk to her more about your ambitions for the future. Girls like self-motivated boys.

    Remember, talk more, have a more sense of humor, go out and have dinner together, but just don't say I like you, when to say it, I won't say it, your IQ is not low, experience it yourself. Talk more!!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Hehe, you're right, everyone has their own way of living, you have no right to interfere with others, for her attitude towards learning, although you don't look happy, but you don't have the right to restrain her anything, just imagine, doesn't she want to be a person who is very good at learning, maybe she has worked hard, but you don't know, you are so abrupt to persuade her, I think it will only hurt her.

    I think,What you're worried about now is the relationship with her.,I don't want to be like this person living in two worlds.,Sitting together every day.,But don't say a word... If so, I'll give you a few tips to make sure it works!

    One, you can go online and collect some hilarious brain teaser jokes, etc., and then you can tell her a day when both of you are okay, and then slowly approach her. For example: Hey, yesterday I saw an intelligence question, and I laughed to death...

    I'll let you guess, please, what vegetables have cell phones? She shouldn't be able to guess, now don't rush to tell her the answer, fish her appetite first, and grasp it yourself, I think if it goes on like this for a long time, the relationship between the two will make great progress.

    In addition, when she is playing with her mobile phone, you can take the initiative to approach her and see what she is playing, such as playing a game, you are next to you**, and give opinions (of course, without affecting your own learning), and you can ask her what she is talking about?。。

    There are many similar tricks, we are all the same age, and I think that if you want to, you can always find a common language!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    To be honest, I used to be a sports student, and I didn't like to study, so I liked to sleep.

    But I don't think that's anything special, everyone has their own way of living, and you shouldn't impose your will on others.

    Of course, your original intention is indeed good, and you can communicate with her more.

    Of course, on the premise of not delaying your studies.

    Learning is learning, playing is playing, it's good to make the two clear, everyone is still good friends between classes, this is not contradictory.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    I'm really similar to you, and I've been in a similar situation.

    When I was in the third year of junior high school, I was transferred to the last row by the teacher because of some things, and I was surrounded by some students who didn't like to study, and they were really good. But after I was hit by the change of seats, I was completely isolated from the people around me, and I just wanted to do well in the exam and show the teacher who had done the whole thing. I only focus on studying every day, and I don't communicate with the people around me at all, and although I think about it now, I must be someone they seem to hate, but I don't regret it.

    When it comes to the high school entrance examination or the college entrance examination you are facing now, we don't have the extra mind to worry about others, nor do we have the energy to guide them on the road of loving learning. If you're constantly paying attention to what the person next to you is doing, you're just going to distract yourself.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Didn't you say she was a special student? By the way, your specialty is learning, and she is her own specialty, so what is learning compared to learning? In the future, she will rely on her own expertise to eat, not to study to live.

    So if you want to have a good relationship with her, you should look more at her strengths and be less critical of his studies. If you have a way to help her improve her learning, that's not a bad thing.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    You should also be active, don't always know how to read, be a person and know what friendship is, you can talk about some interesting topics with your tablemates, but you should also pay attention to her views and not be too public. Or to put it bluntly, I want to be friends with her. The most important thing is that to become friends is the run-in between the two over time, and another point is that you don't have to feel repulsed, you should also open your heart to accept her enthusiasm, not attached to the surface, but from the heart.

    I wish you a long and lasting friendship.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Tablemates are always the first to discover your joys and sorrows, and then force you to reveal the truth 2The same table can not bring a pen, and then invade you 3The same table can whisper with you during class and with you 4

    The same table can be boring to the point of passing notes at one table 5The table mate will give you a lecture when you pull her to WC, and then accompany you to 6When the teacher asks you questions, your table mates will write the answers on a piece of paper, you can't understand them, and she is more anxious than you 7

    When the old class mentions your endorsement, the same table will climb on the table at the risk of killing your head and whisper to you 8Tablemates are always accustomed to reaching out to you for paper 9I copied a person's homework with the same table, and she scolded you for copying slowly 10

    The same table will shout when others bully you: Dare to bully me in the same position, I will bully you in the same position 11The common property of you and your table mates is those pens 12

    When I sleep at the same table, I will tell you: The teacher is coming to wake me up 13The table mates will hammer you hard when you make trouble

    The head teacher is outside the window" 14The table mate always puts his feet on your stool and pats her trouser legs, or ties her shoes. 15The table mate will leave you half a bottle of water when you are thirsty 16

    The table mates will help you take down the homework book when the teacher gives you homework 17The tablemate will help you relax when you play with your mobile phone in class, and scare you from time to time 18When you go out at the same table, you will reach out to ask for a mirror and a comb......After reading it, will you think of certain people....It's like a fresh breeze blowing through the heart, very fresh and pure.

    Along the way, how many tables have accompanied us, fought, made trouble, laughed...There is a relationship called table mates....There is a friendship that will be remembered for a lifetime....Hehe, tablemate, I have been taken care of by you all the time! So get along.

    Thank you for the trouble to adopt!

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    2. Pay attention to the behavior of the same table. When you find that your table mates are unwell or have other troubles, you should ask and solve them in time, and be a helper and companion at the table.

    3. Create surprises in life. You can pay attention to the birthday of the same table, or other more important festivals, and prepare suitable gifts for the same table and stool to achieve the premise of being a good friend.

    4. Accompany the table to bear the mistakes. When you are bullied or scolded at the same table, you should stand up to help as soon as possible and express your sincere friendship.

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