After 80, did I feel the middle aged inchs in advance?

There is no need for consolation at all.

If she cares, sooner or later they will come together and fate depends on herself, do you still want to be a matchmaker?

If she doesn't care, then she's really happy that there is one less verbose person, and if you rush to comfort at this time, it really seems that you are troublesome.

It's just that I didn't meet my beloved Prince Charming, and I was sad! I guess. There shouldn't be any comfort, she'll think.

Is this still to be comforted? A boy who changes her mind so easily, if she doesn't pester her, she should be happy.

Don't always talk to her. And don't blame anyone for not honoring it. It would be good for her to settle down on her own for a while.

Let him be quiet for a while!

The more comforting some people are, the more they think about that thing, it is better not to be comforted...

There are a lot of people who chase but don't say "I like you"? Why is it a bit of a narcissistic suspicion? You just tell her, don't let the unimportant people affect your important mood. Also, children should study hard, and there will be many opportunities for this kind of thing in the future.

Everyone has troubles in their lives.

Can't you fall in love if you have troubles? No one will say you have troubles.

You can't fall in love.

But the words are integrated into reality.

The troubles of life.

But it has a lot of impact.

This also includes love.

So we should be like navigating the pavement.

It should keep pace with the times.

It should also be avoided in time.

Don't worry about chasing, the teacher's children are more strict and the learning tasks are heavy, so there won't be too many opportunities to have emotional experience, but such children are slightly autistic, cheerful on the surface, and slow on the inside, so be patient.

Such a person has a cheerful personality and is difficult to get along with if he does not speak tactfully.

The more this shows that he is easy to chase.

Hello! Just read all your descriptions, and to be honest, it hurts a little bit to see me! Maybe it's just the saying that "feelings are something that hurts people!" But people are always willing to be hurt by it!

Now that this is the case, remorse and self-blame are meaningless! Instead of dwelling on the painful past, it's better to start over!

In the future, if you encounter such friendship and love at the same time, think about how to grasp the scale!

Everyone will experience some things that they feel helpless about, and they will also do wrong things, but after making mistakes, we must know how to correct them and know how to work hard not to make mistakes in the future!

I remember someone said that sometimes friendship can be slowly transformed into love, but I think what kind of friendship is this kind of division, for example, about your friend A's girlfriend B, your friendship with her should not be turned into love, because she is your buddy's girlfriend, hehe, if you choose to accept this love, of course, it means losing your buddy!

But the facts are in the past, so let it pass! After all, the past belongs to the Grim Reaper, and the present and future belong to you! And those who are dragged by the corners of their clothes by the past will never be able to fly!

And for the girl next door to you, I think she's a simple, sincere, and loveworthy girl! Why would I describe her like this, because just by her rejection of you, I think, she is because the girl you chased is her friend, so she is unwilling to accept your pursuit, maybe she doesn't have feelings for you, but because she doesn't want to hurt the girl you chased, she will choose to be indifferent to you! If you don't want to give up, you can try to get to know her again, of course, provided that she is still single and does not have a boyfriend, then you can see if she will accept you.

As for your friend A, your explanation seems superfluous! And girl B, since you don't like her, don't give her any more hope, otherwise it will hurt her more and more.

And for you, no matter whether there is a good solution to the above things, you should no longer live in the past, and be brave to create your future! There is still a long way to go in life, don't ruin your life because of a mistake made at a moment, just be so decadent, is it worth it?

Believe in yourself! Everyone makes mistakes, the important thing is to know what is wrong, know how to correct it, and don't make mistakes again in the future! Go for it! Believe that your future is bright! It's just up to you to create it yourself!

You feel very good about yourself, and you are also very frivolous about emotional things, thinking that one is one out, and playing ambiguous with each girl after sending autumn waves, and always saying that your favorite is the girl next door, that is because the girl next door has not been chased by you, not conquered by you, subconsciously you have a sense of frustration, so lingering, not how much love you have. He also has a weak sense of morality, tramples on the dignity of others at will, and lightly thinks that everything can be remedied. You have to reflect on yourself, buy a book on moral cultivation and take a good look at it, you have never read these things, and you may not have read them.

Alas, misleading others and misleading oneself, good eyebrows and good looks are not destined to be all right. Everything you have come so easily since you were a child, including the love of your parents and the love of girls, so you don't cherish it. Chasing these uninnovative things all day long, of course, you will feel tired and tired.

Fortunately, you are a smart child, and when you have no way out, you know how to reflect on yourself, and knowing your mistakes can improve a lot. May you live a new life sooner rather than later.

Based on what you said, I think you have made a lot of mistakes in these things, and many of these mistakes are irreparable, you have to remember that everyone in this world will make some mistakes that will never be forgiven, what should I do? What you can do now is not to make amends, but to think about what to do when you encounter these things in the future, and how to prevent these mistakes from happening again in the future.

After reading it, I feel that some of your experiences are similar to mine.,I've been thinking about the girl I can't let go.,I think,For the girl you can't catch, you might as well put her in your heart.,As long as you know that you've worked hard to fight for it.,Men.,Afford it.,You have to let it go.。 For the unpleasant things that happened to you and your brother, think about whether you can make up for it, if you really can't, you can only choose to forget about it, life is full of choices, maybe this is a choice for you In fact, looking for your other half is like walking on the beach looking for pebbles, always want to find the most suitable for yourself, sometimes it's not that you don't like it, but I always feel that there will be the best one waiting for me, so that you will find that in the end you still have no pebbles in your hands So there's nothing wrong with chasing someone you like, but don't ignore the person who is silently dedicated to you, even if you feel that she is not suitable for you, but feelings need to be cultivated, just like the pebbles in your hands need to be run-in. For the person who cares about you, should you also show your love to care for that person?

Now that it's happened, you can see the good side, and I hope you're relieved.

It's too rash, escaping is not the way, face it bravely, try your best to redeem it if your friend can get it back, as for your girlfriend, apologize for what you should apologize for, don't give up easily if you stick to it, learn to be steady, and don't take your feelings too seriously, I hope you can understand.

In fact, there is no strong sense of responsibility, the first is not responsible for your feelings, the second is not responsible for your friends, and the third is not responsible for your girlfriend, it is simply that you do not take the responsibility you should bear!

Love is a feeling.,Let it come when you come.,Let it go when you go.。。

Why do you have to be persistent?

Friendship is important, and it depends on whether it is worth it or not.

Generally speaking, you are a big carrot with inattentive feelings, and you don't need to make excuses to identify it.

What you can't get is the best, isn't it? After this incident, you should know that not everything is at your fingertips.

Learn to cherish. Cherish friendship and know what you can't touch. Cherish love, not no woman will be good to you in every way.

Learn to be responsible. Be responsible for every feeling, love, friendship. It's two different feelings.

Growing up is not painful, it is painful when you can't recognize yourself like this.

As long as you like him, you will move her with your actions.

I feel like you're a guy who grew up with someone else and didn't know what love was, and you said you liked the girl next door? If you really like it, you won't be with other people because she doesn't pay attention to her, and at the end you still emphasize that you like her, but calm down and think about it, do you like yourself or do you like her? Many times it is clear that you have made your own mistakes, but you have to quibble Love is very simple, but if you face it with an irresponsible and indifferent attitude, of course you will not have someone who really loves you because you don't love with your heart Go and see a lot of friends who leave because of love But if your relationship is really good, take the initiative to admit your mistake The man's direct relationship is very simple, and the matter is very generous.

I think you've made a lot of mistakes in these things, and many of these mistakes are irreparable, but men have to be responsible

After reading so much of what you have written, I feel that you are still a child who has not grown up

This is life, how can there be happiness without troubles? If there is no trouble, how can you know that there is a smooth road? As for the small conflicts in the family, it is to make you and your family often have a little seasoning.

Be content, as long as you live is happy, haven't you ever thought about it, how beautiful life is! How many people envy you for having this?

Talk to him well, since he loves you so much, he should cheer you up for you, and the two of you will work together. I'm sure it'll get better.

Women, either get love, or get life, your boyfriend is more possessive of you, is habitually dependent, no matter how he expresses that he can't do without you and loves you, but the truth is that he doesn't care if you live happily, and he doesn't care if he can bring you happiness.

In a word, he needs you but doesn't care about your feelings, is that really love? With him, you get not love, but dependence.

As for what to do, I have to ask the question, do you love him?

There are many people who are willing to stay with their partner because of love, regardless of whether he has a successful career or not, whether he has fists and kicks or not. If you really love, then choose to be strong in the face of any problems in love.

If you are not willing to tie your life to him and fall into the quagmire of life, listen to your heart's choice, and don't let yourself regret it in the future because of a momentary softness.

You have already expressed your disgust with your current boyfriend, and I really don't see any good about your boyfriend between the lines, which shows that he has gone farther and farther in your heart.

When you like someone, no matter how you look at him, he is perfect, and even if it is a flaw, there are enough reasons to make up for it. Today you see that he is useless and has confessed your attitude. But I believe that anyone has merit, and the fact that you chose your current boyfriend in the first place shows that the merit is enough to attract you.

If your current aversion stems from the pursuit of better people, please calm down a little more and put aside the material attraction and listen to the heart's choice. If your boyfriend's performance is really getting worse, then you should make a choice, life is not as good as the day will be hopeless.

Finally, I would advise you to be cautious about dealing with a client who is nine years older than you and is married with children, the experience of nine years is far more complicated than you think.

Your boyfriend loves you, but his thoughts are too extreme, you should talk to him more, after all, it's not money that lives with you!

I'm looking at the whole story that she doesn't care about you as much as she used to.

Seldom reflect on oneself.

Although not understanding the situation.

But I'm pretty much sure the main reason is you.

Love is two-sided.

People pay so much.

Do you have to pay too?

You always think that people don't care about you.

Why don't you think about caring more about others?

IMHO. There's really something wrong with your mentality.

People always give.

Old is not rewarded.

Of course you have to be angry!

Being angry shows that she cares about you.

But you're a little selfish.

Always thinking about your feelings.

Girls need to be cared for with their hearts

There's a story.

A tale of a fishhead and a fishtail.

There is a husband and wife, one loves to eat fish heads and the other loves to eat fish tails. When eating, the husband always leaves the fish head to his wife, saying that he loves to eat fish tails, and his wife always eats fish heads happily with a happy smile and puts the fish tail in her husband's bowl. This happiness lasted until old age, and when the wife was dying, her husband bent down and whispered to him:

Actually, my favorite thing to eat is fish tail", and my husband was stunned and said, "Actually, my favorite thing to eat is fish head".

The charm of love lies in giving and receiving.

There is a taste of giving and receiving.

Don't always try to ask for it.

That's not fun.

And don't think you're done.

In short, it's time for you to give.

Don't keep thinking, "She can't remember if I changed my mind or what"!

Think more about "I still don't do well?" (Have you thought about it?) ）”

I really want you to be happy.

So speak straighter, forgive me!