Seek enlightenment from ten classic sentences each in Bacon s Essays and Fu Lei s Letters , each

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Reading "The Book of Fu Lei's Family" has a feeling.

I have lived with my parents for a long time, so I can't appreciate the faint sorrow and sweetness of the distance caused by the exchange of family letters. I longed for this feeling, so I read this "Fu Lei's Family Book". I was deeply moved by this passage in the book:

Speaking of incomplete ......The perfection you mentioned, in fact, perfection does not exist at all, and the whole life, the world, and the universe cannot talk about perfection. ......Our lifelong pursuit, the pursuit of many generations in history, is nothing more than perfection, but it will never be pursued, because people's ideals and fantasies are endlessly ,......This brings me to a story. There used to be a broken mirror, broken into many pieces, and one of them wanted to find the rest in order to reassemble the original mirror.

Along the way, it rolled very slowly because of its own edges and corners, so as to appreciate the delicious scenery along the way. When it painstakingly found all the pieces and "broke the mirror and reunited", it became a whole circle, rolling very fast, and the scenery along the way passed by in an instant. In fact, we are all in pursuit of perfection, and it is precisely our present incompleteness that brings us to the realm of pursuing perfection and contributes to the relative integrity of other aspects.

And when the so-called perfection happens to us one day, we may lose a lot. Fu Lei's godson was known for being strict, and I thought that the relationship between father and son was certainly not very good, but after reading this book, my mind changed dramatically. Fu Cong went to study abroad, and the contact with his father naturally could only rely on letters, so the love between father and son was undoubtedly expressed in a letter to the family.

They discussed art together, studied the connotation of music, and exchanged views on things through letters, and although they did not have the warmth of the mother-son correspondence, the tacit understanding between them was irreplaceable by anything else. Looking back on the book after covering the volume, the biggest impression is Fu Lei's profound attainments in art. Fu Lei has his own views on the comprehension of art, especially music.

This makes me think that people who have made achievements in literature also have a high level of research in the field of art. Maybe it's because literature and art are the same. Different excellent literary works will have different psychological effects after people read them; And all kinds of music with very different styles will bring similar results.

The beautiful prose brings the pleasure of appreciating a cheerful aria; The heavy ** brings the shock of a symphony of sorrow; Witty essays will bring operatic scenes and endless reflections after the fact. After reading this "Fu Lei's Family Book", I feel that it is like an opera that gives people a good atmosphere and room for aftertaste. The whole book of "Fu Lei's Family Letter" is a father's persuasion, which is very kind to read, full of deep affection for his son, but also has the irresistible majesty unique to his father.

Sometimes I wonder what it would be like if I could get a few letters like this with my father!

Life is precious, love is more valuable, if it is for freedom, both can be thrown.

Curiosity can be used as a pastime, as a decoration, or as an increase in talent.

When you're lonely and lonely, reading can be a pastime. When you're talking, knowledge is the decoration. When you conduct yourself in the world, the right use of knowledge means strength.

Those who understand the cause and effect of things are happy. Although people with practical experience can handle individual affairs, if they want to see the whole and manage the overall situation, they can only do it with knowledge. If you are too slow to learn, you will be lazy, if you seek knowledge for the sake of decoration, you will be self-defeating, and if you do everything according to the rules of the book, you will become a paranoid nerd.

Curiosity can improve human and nature, and experimentation can improve knowledge itself. Human nature is like wild flowers and plants, and learning is like pruning and transplanting. Internship attempts can test the authenticity of the corrected knowledge itself.

The cunning despise learning, the foolish envy learning, but the wise are good at using it. Knowledge itself does not tell people how to use it, but the way to use it is outside the books. It's a craft.

You can't learn without experimentation. Don't read books for the sake of criticism, but don't trust books lightly. The purpose of seeking knowledge is not to boast and show off, but to seek truth and enlighten wisdom.

When the human heart is the weakest, love is the easiest to invade, that is, when people are proud, forgetful and in an embarrassed and lonely situation, although the latter may not be able to get love. People are most anxious to jump into the flame of love at such a time. It can be seen that "love" is really a "stupid" son.

But there are some people, even if they have love in their hearts, who can restrain it so that it does not get in the way of great causes. Because once love interferes with emotions, it will hinder people from running firmly towards the set goal.

When carefully examined, the beauty of the form is better than the beauty of the color, and the beauty of graceful behavior is better than the beauty of the form. The highest beauty is something that the painter cannot express, because it is difficult to visualize. It's a wonderful beauty.

Two painters--- Apires and Dürer, comically thought that the most perfect portrait could be made into a portrait by geometric proportions, or by taking in the most beautiful features of different people. In fact, the beauty painted like this is probably only liked by the painter himself. Beauty cannot be regulated, and it is often opportunities, not formulas, that create it.

There are many faces that are not beautiful in parts, but they are very attractive as a whole.

The famous sentence about Fu Lei's family book is as follows:

1. One after another spike somersaults are planted, as long as you can get up, you will gradually climb to the peak and transcend the ego. Bitter tears are the syrup that nurtures your soul. A person who does not experience acute pain will not have deep and broad compassion.

2. Although there will be more and less separation between you and me in the future, I will at least be warm and not lonely spiritually.

3. Poetry A person often says that love is blind, but love that is not blind is more sound and reliable after all.

4. Kid, kid! Child! How can I hug you to show my remorse and love?

5. Think more about yourself, think about it and find a way to implement it immediately, and change what should be changed and adjusted should be changed immediately, adjusted immediately, and not delayed for any reason.

6. Only art and learning never fail a person; How much labor is spent, how much hard work is used, and how much loyalty and enthusiasm are shown, how much harvest and progress will be obtained.

7. If the sun is too strong, it will scorch the grains; If the rain is too heavy, it will also drown the crops.

8. Only when a person dares to face reality, face up to mistakes, analyze rationally, and thoroughly perceive, can he not be eroded by memories.

9. Knowledge first, art first, truth first, love second.

10. Only facts can prove your intentions, and only actions can show your intentions.

11, the Qing people know that I have never loved you so deeply as I do now, and at this juncture when I love you the deepest, I just came to part!

12. Art is not only limited to perceptual understanding, but also cannot be limited to rational understanding, and must carry out the third step of emotional deepening.

13. Don't be discouraged if you can always make a little progress, no matter how little progress you make.

14. After all, a person is an emotional animal. There is no shame in occasionally outpouring it.

I blame myself for not acting for it, I am the most disapproves.

In this way, the teenager has become an old man. Out of touch with society, really unacceptable. I said that the teenager has become old, and I insulted the elderly! How many of today's seniors are active and open-minded.

Ordinary children who study on their own at home make a big mistake: they are too indifferent to the overall situation and are very indifferent to the cause of socialist transformation.

Pure children don't know loneliness. When the child is lonely, he will create a world and create many friends in his heart!

Abandonment without battle is hypocrisy, detachment without hardship is frivolous, and escapism is cowardly; Moderation, reluctance, wisdom and wisdom are our fatal wounds.

All the principles of being a human being, you understand in your heart, what suffers is no factual performance; I hope that from now on, you will remember this for the next generation. You have to explain everything to others!

At any time in my life, when I was at the height of my love, I never forgot my loyalty to my studies. Learning first, art first, truth first, love second, this seems to be the principle that I have not changed so far.

One after another somersaults are planted, as long as you can get up, you will gradually climb to the peak and transcend the ego.

Older people eventually look further into the future, and there are many things that you think I don't see right, but after a long time, the reality proves to you that I am not wrong.

By extension, from these small things, there must be no small number of things that you and I have inadvertently hurt people, and it is no wonder that others say that we are proud.

There is no stronger argument in the world than action, and the most effective education is to lead by example; Don't ask others to do what you can't do, change yourself first.

A person venting is asking for mental health, not making himself more and more depressed.

Every family has a different approach to education, and "The Book of Fu Lei's Family" is a painstaking and lonely education book, which is a rare and good book, which is most suitable for parents and children to read.

Fu Lei's method of educating children is relatively unique, he conveys his true feelings to distant children through letters, sincerely guides his son's life and art, and secretly reveals his concern and love for his son. A good family education is a good thing for a child, it can determine a child's life, after all, family education is the first teacher, Fu Lei used a good method to educate his son into a talent, which is endlessly praised.

Yes, many families want their sons to become dragons and daughters to become phoenixes, so a good family education is very important, but how many families can properly educate their children? In China, many families do not have proper education, parents do not communicate with their children, do not understand their children's situation, do not properly guide their children, let the children go astray, and finally regret it. There are also some parents who think that their children will not succeed if they do not fight, and there have been countless domestic violence, which has caused the children to be physically and mentally harmed, not only not to make the children sensible, but to make the children become rebellious.

To educate children with appropriate family education, parents should appreciate this "Fu Lei's Family Book". In fact, as children, we also need to look at it, because it can infect us, let us perceive the good intentions of our parents, know how to thank our parents, and it allows us to appreciate art, behave in life, and get the right guidance.