Where is Qingwen in Dream of Red Mansions, and why doesn t Mrs. Wang like her?

It's not that Qingwen is bad, but Jia Baoyu is not motivated, and Mrs. Wang can't see beautiful women, so Qingwen is tragic. If Jia Baoyu is as serious and motivated as Jia Zhu, why should Mrs. Wang worry about him being seduced by a beautiful woman?

As long as you have a deep understanding of men, you will find that men's cognition comes from women's demagogy. The mother knows this very well, so she is worried that her son will be bewitched.

Qingwen looks a bit like Daiyu. Mrs. Wang hates Daiyu, so she can't be proud of Qingwen.

Mrs. Wang also met Qingwen once in the Grand View Garden, but she saw Qingwen scolding the little girl. This is very unpopular with Mrs. Wang, after all, Jiafu has always treated people with leniency, and the master taught the servants not to be in a public place, Qingwen dared to scold the little girl so much in public, and Mrs. Wang was even more displeased with her.

In addition, a group of mothers-in-law led by Mrs. Wang's companion Wang Shanbao's mother-in-law did not play a good role in front of Mrs. Wang, Mrs. Wang didn't care about this person, and I heard these mothers-in-law say that Qingwen dresses up every day to seduce Baoyu.

As a mother, can you not be angry if you have such a person by your son's side?

Qingwen is almost hot in personality, Mrs. Wang doesn't like Qingwen because Qingwen is beautiful, and she is afraid of damaging Baoyu. Secondly, Qingwen likes to play with a small temper, and at the time, it seemed that she was just ignorant.

In the Dream of Red Mansions, it was mentioned that Mrs. Wang hated the kind of person who hated heavy makeup and glamorous makeup, and the flattering and balanced bureau attacked and bullied, and it happened that Qingwen was such a person who told her brother, although she was favored by Jia Baoyu, but after all, she did not dare to do anything against Mrs. Wang, so she usually avoided Mrs. Wang, and because of this, Mrs. Wang did not have much impression of her.

It is estimated that it is because Mrs. Wang doesn't want to know her, and her identity is much worse than Mrs. Wang.

Because Jia Baoyu has too many maids, Mrs. Wang can't know them all.

Qingwen was a beautiful girl that Jia's mother took a fancy to and gave to Baoyu to use, but she was kicked out of the Grand View Garden by Mrs. Wang, although Mrs. Wang told Jia's mother that it was Qingwen"It's not too heavy", and got "daughter's tuberculosis", but in the end, it can't change the fact that Mrs. Wang cuts first and then plays, and this kind of disobedient behavior of secretly rubbing, Jia's mother's attitude will naturally not be happy.

In the 76th episode, if Mrs. Wang said that the person Jia Mu picked was good. It's a pity that there is no creation in life, and when I got my daughter's tuberculosis, I think this step Jia's mother is still acceptable, even if she knows that Mrs. Wang is lying. But the following words are the meaning of mockery and criticism of Jia Mu:

As the saying goes, 'Eighteen changes in women's colleges'. Besides, people who have the ability are inevitably a little crooked. The old lady has nothing left that she has no experience. ”

This sounds fine, but a closer analysis has another connotation: you still claim to be experienced, look at the person you picked, although he is beautiful, but he is a little crooked. It's better to attack people loyally and honestly. Jia Mu was unhappy when she heard this, and she also fought back-for-tat:

But Qingwen's girl I think he's very good, why did he get up like this. I mean, these girls are not as good as him in terms of appearance, and only he can call Baoyu in the future. Who knows that it has changed. ”

Here, Jia's mother is anti-Mrs. Wang, thinking that Qingwen is better, and pointed out that in her opinion, Baoyu did not listen to the persuasion of his wife and concubine, and in the future, Mrs. Wang is self-righteous, hoping that Baochai can persuade Baoyu's so-called kindness, and it is very likely that she will draw water with a bamboo basket. However, although Jia's mother was unhappy, for the sake of family harmony, she never challenged Mrs. Wang after all.

In fact, Mother Jia may not have her own ears to report God, but she still quietly accompanied Mrs. Wang to act in a play, as long as she didn't go the same way, didn't challenge her bottom line, and didn't involve the vital interests of her baby grandson, you can toss how you like, and they know each other, as long as the layer of window paper is still there, she is too lazy to bother.

Mother-in-law and daughter-in-law fighting method has been a rule since ancient times. Although Jia's mother was dissatisfied with Mrs. Wang's resignation from Qingwen, she couldn't afford to turn her face with Mrs. Wang because of this and seek justice for Qingwen. For those masters who are high up, what is the loss of a hairy girl!

pretended not to know, but also proved Qingwen's innocence in front of Mrs. Wang, but Jia's mother was very calculating, no matter how good Qingwen was, she was just a girl after all.

In fact, Jia Mu herself still admires Qingwen very much. But Mrs. Wang had to do this, and she couldn't help it. After all, there are so many small things, she can't manage them if she wants to.

Lin Daiyu is relatively small-minded, she really likes Jia Baoyu, and hopes that there will be as few people around him as possible, so that she and Jia Baoyu will spend as much time as possible.

Lin Daiyu didn't like Qingwen very much, Jia Baoyu was very good to Qingwen, and Lin Daiyu was jealous.

Because the relationship between the two of them is not so good, Qingwen and Lin Daiyu do not have any feelings, so Lin Daiyu is very calm.

Because she knew that Jia's mother didn't like Qingwen either, but out of her family status, she came forward to drive people out in person.

The main reason is that Mother Jia is already very old at this time, and she has no energy to care about Mrs. Wang at all.

Because Mrs. Wang still has a certain status in Jiafu. And Mrs. Wang doesn't like Jia's mother. deliberately didn't tell Jia Mu.

Because Jia Mu will not care about such idle matters, and Jia Mu will not pay attention to the matter of dealing with a maid, and will not blame her.

The main reason is that she is very unaccustomed to Qingwen, and she is afraid that Qingwen will snatch her favor, so she drove away without permission.

Qingwen being next to Baoyu will only delay Baoyu's future, which Mrs. Wang and Jia's mother both know, so Qingwen knows that it is useless for her to beg Jia's mother.

Qingwen knew that Mrs. Wang intended to take her away, but she didn't ask Jia Bao, the reason why Jia's mother asked for help was: the incident happened too suddenly, and Qingwen had no chance to ask for help; Qingwen's "backer" is unreliable, she has no real power to take care of family affairs, no matter how much the old lady likes Qingwen, she is just a girl, and she will not openly disagree with her daughter-in-law for a girl.

Although Qingwen is a slave, her heart is high, she has her own arrogance, she disdains to beg behind her back, although she is unwilling to leave Jia Baoyu, but she is even more unwilling to break her arrogance.

Qingwen has always been only practical and has very little thought. thought that Mrs. Wang would not be able to pass Jia's mother without any real evidence, and she didn't think of asking Jia Baoyu and Jia's mother for help. I didn't expect it to end like this.

Because Jia's mother is old, Qingwen doesn't want to trouble Jia's mother and doesn't want to make trouble for Jia's mother, so she would rather be wronged than ask Jia's mother for help.

Once the "Mrs. Wang" Tianwang Lao Tzu is angry, it will not help. Because Mrs. Wang is in Jinling, she is already the highest power.