After the death of Qingwen in Dream of Red Mansions , why did Daiyu not have the slightest sadness,

There are many metaphorical elements in "Dream of Red Mansions", including the overlap between the temperaments of the women in the book, so there has always been a saying that "the sun is the shadow and the attack is the hairpin".

The literal meaning is: Qingwen is the shadow of Daiyu, and the attacker is a low-profile version of Baochai, and therefore many readers think that the relationship between Qingwen and Daiyu is very good, the entity and the shadow are similar in temperament, and the relationship must be good, but judging from the plot in the book, the relationship between Lin Daiyu and Qingwen is not as good as everyone thinks.

A typical example is the seventy-eighth episode of "The Crazy Boy Fabricates the Hibiscus Verse", when Qingwen died, Jia Baoyu specially composed a poem "Hibiscus Daughter" to mourn Qingwen

According to the records in the book, when Cao Xueqin described Lin Daiyu's demeanor, she used five words "laugh" in a row, all of which were naturally laughing without the slightest sadness, which shows that she did not attach as much importance to Qingwen's death as Baoyu's "Hibiscus Daughter". So readers find it hard to accept.

But these don't show how good Lin Daiyu's impression of Qingwen is, Jia Baoyu is a "reluctant" person, and an important feature of Lin Daiyu's character is "affection", what is "affection"? To put it simply, Lin Daiyu's emotional cognition is "If you are good to me, I will be good to you".

This is different from Jia Baoyu's "reluctance", Jia Baoyu is full of love and compassion for all the good things in the world, no matter what attitude the other party has towards Baoyu, Baoyu will treat each other with "affection", and even for paintings without the breath of life, Jia Baoyu has love and pity, for example, Jia Baoyu was afraid that the girl in the painting would be lonely, so when he was fine, he ran to sit in the hall to accompany the girl in the painting for a while.

Therefore, although there is a saying in the study of red studies, it is only for academic research, and this point of view cannot be brought into the human relationship of "Dream of Red Mansions", Lu Xun once said: The characters in "Dream of Red Mansions" are all real characters. Therefore, when analyzing "Dream of Red Mansions", we should focus on evaluating from a realistic point of view, rather than judging the relationship between the characters based on subjective will, so as to draw relatively objective conclusions.

Qingwen is Daiyu's shadow, and the attacker is a low-profile version of Baochai, and therefore many readers think that the relationship between Qingwen and Daiyu is very good, the entity and the shadow are similar in temperament, and the relationship must be good, but judging from the plot in the book, the relationship between Lin Daiyu and Qingwen is not as good as everyone thinks.

Because Qingwen is Daiyu's shadow, and the attacker is a low-profile version of Baochai, but the relationship between Lin Daiyu and Qingwen is not as good as everyone thinks.

Because Lin Daiyu's emotional cognition is "if you are good to me, I will be good to you".

The author uses five words "laugh" in a row, all of which are naturally laughing, and have no other meaning.

His understanding is not the same as we are now, but you are good to me, and I am good to you.

Therefore, there has always been a saying that "the sun is the shadow and the attack is the hairpin", and the relationship between the two may not be as good as we imagined.

But judging from the plot in the book, the relationship between Lin Daiyu and Qingwen is not as good as everyone thinks.

"Dream of Red Mansions" Lin Daiyu burned the manuscript and broke off her love, and died in tears for Jia Baoyu, who caused her tragedy?

1. I am weak and sickly, and my physical fitness is not good.

Jia Yucun served as Lin Daiyu's tutor, Lin Daiyu was 5 years old at the time, "this female student is young and extremely cowardly." When Lin Daiyu was 6 years old, her mother Jia Min died, and due to excessive grief, she caused an old illness, "Recently, due to the grief and injury of female students, she was cowardly and sickly, and she violated the old disease, so she never went to school for several days." ”

When Lin Daiyu first entered Jiafu, everyone knew that there was a deficiency when they saw her appearance. Lin Daiyu has been taking medicine since she was eating, and she has been eating ginseng Yangrong pills all year round. "Xing'er", the little girl who followed Jia Lian, described Lin Daiyu like this when she introduced the sisters of Daguanyuan to Second Sister You.

Everyone's rule is that when a subordinate sees a female dependent, he should avoid it and hide from afar. When he saw Xue Baochai and Lin Daiyu, he was also hiding from afar, and he didn't dare to come out. Why didn't you dare to go out of the atmosphere, because looking at Lin Daiyu weakly couldn't help but be windy, looking at Xue Baochai as white as ice and snow, I was afraid that as soon as I came out of the atmosphere, I would blow Lin Daiyu down and blow Xue Baochai away.

It can be seen that Lin Daiyu's body is extremely weak and she has been soaked in a medicine jar all year round. It develops to the end of the sputum with blood, which is one of the causes of its death.

2. Sentimental, bad mood and low emotional intelligence.

Lin Daiyu is Bingxue smart, and she doesn't rub sand in her eyes. Because I am smart, I can see many things clearly, and because I am smart, I can't figure out some things. The mind is extremely meticulous, and for the words and deeds of others, he always has to think about his own side.

Someone else's words are not directed at oneself, thus causing sadness.

Xue Pan returned from selling goods and brought back a box of gifts to Xue Baochai, and Baochai divided them to the sisters, and gave Daiyu a Yangzhou specialty, which also caused Daiyu's sadness. Up and down the Jia Mansion, except for Jia's mother, Mrs. Wang, Baoyu, and sisters, there are no relatives surnamed Lin. It's always a bad mood and it's definitely bad for your health.

3. Death due to love.

Although there are the above two reasons, if you take care of it carefully and everyone takes care of it, you will not die prematurely. The catalyst for Lin Daiyu's death, the direct fuse, is Baoyu's family business. Baoyu had a strange illness, and Wang Xifeng, in order to please Jia's mother, had a bad idea to marry Xue Baochai to be happy for Baoyu.

Lin Daiyu and Jia Baoyu have been together since childhood, and they are in love, although it is not clear, but there are also speculations from all over Jiafu that it is more likely that the two will be together in the future.

Jia's mother loves Baoyu too much, and for the follow-up of the Jia family, it is impossible to marry him a sick Xi Shi. When she decided to marry Xue Baochai, Jia's mother also noticed that Lin Daiyu was unhappy, and Jia's mother thought that she was ignorant and inappropriate, and Lin Daiyu lost Jia's mother's favor. Jia Mu and others were dedicated to the family affairs of Baoyu and Baochai, and they had no time to take care of Daiyu's illness.

In Lin Daiyu's last illness, there were not too many people to take care of her.

The smart Lin Daiyu can feel all these changes, coupled with her own illness and weakness, it is naturally difficult to resist the invasion of the disease. When Baoyu got married, Daiyu passed away alone. Xianle is fluttering, but there is a love.

Her tragedy was caused by that era, which was very cruel. It is not easy for her hard-working woman to gain a firm foothold in Jia's mansion, let alone combine with Jia Baoyu.

I think Lin Daiyu's tragedy is created by the background of the times, under the feudal etiquette system, a big family always thinks a lot when marrying a wife, even if Jia's mother loves her very much, she will never allow her to marry her beloved grandson.

I think her tragedy is influenced by the environment of the time and her personal personality, but in any case, the relationship between him and Jia Baoyu is very moving.

It's not like that, Daiyu will only take anything to heart, sigh or be sad to herself, or make poems, and she won't show it easily.

In my opinion, this phenomenon is actually relatively normal, after all, there is no intersection between Daiyu and Qingwen, so naturally it will not be too sad.

Lin Daiyu is not an attitude that she doesn't care about herself, but she hides all her thoughts in her heart, and she is still sad.