My husband wants me to cut off contact with all my classmates, what should I do

Updated on society 2024-03-02
21 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    This is an unreasonable request, and if you are an independent-minded person, you will definitely refuse his offer. Because if you ask him to do that, he will certainly not do it, so why would you do it? Men and women have their own friends, and this is their right to live, and this right is not denied just because marriage exists.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    First of all, whether your classmates have a close relationship with you is important Whether you have done something wrong, if you really love your husband, and it happens that your circle of classmates is not very important, you can do what he says, this is your affection for the person you love, not that he is doing the right thing. In fact, it just shows that he is a very selfish person, whether he doesn't trust you enough or not, at least he only thinks about himself first.

    If you can't live with someone who doesn't trust you so much for the rest of your life, you can talk to him so that you don't have to live in depression and even pain in the future. If he really loves you and just insists on this, then you have to make another condition that binds him in exchange, one is to show that everyone is equal, and the other is to let you live a small life with peace of mind for each other in the future.

    Don't be too arbitrary to characterize someone because of one thing, everyone has their own situation and their own ideas, and everyone has the right to express their thoughts......

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    This request of the other party is excessive.

    Besides, this relationship does not mean that it is okay to sever it.

    Legally not at all.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    You can find fault with him and let him cut ties with his parents and see what he does.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    It mainly depends on what your husband wants you to do, and then solve it yourself from the source.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Cut off and listen to your husband.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    This kind of request is very excessive, and it is better not to have a heart and lungs with him.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    It is recommended to take the money and leave, don't waste your youth on the so-called lover, there is no good result, let's get together and disperse.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    It's wise to cut ties and break ties. Whether to take money or not to take money.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Since my husband and my parents quarreled, my parents' impression of my husband has become worse and worse, every time my husband comes to my house for dinner, the atmosphere is very embarrassing, there is no sound from beginning to end, and I am not in the mood.

    Originally, my parents liked my husband very much, but my husband was not very good at speaking, and sometimes his unconscious words would come out and be cold directly.

    For example, one weekend before, my parents called my husband and me to come over for dinner. My dad was happy and wanted to drink an extra glass of wine, but my mom didn't agree with him, saying that it was not good to drink more. My husband helped the round field and said:

    Dad, don't you drink more, last time I saw a news, a man is about the same age as you, because he drank an extra glass and was sent directly to the hospital, and then he still couldn't be saved. As soon as these words came out, my dad was stunned, stayed for a long time, and got up to leave.

    I know that my husband is kind, and I have told him a few times in private, but my husband has never been aware of his problems, and it is useless to say it.

    This time the matter is big, last month is my grandmother's birthday, such a happy day, everyone is desperately trying to please my grandma, blessed.

    My husband and I bought my grandmother a red traditional Tang costume, and my grandmother was so happy that she said to me and my husband: "This granddaughter and grandson-in-law are intimate, and grandma is reluctant to wear such beautiful clothes." ”

    Before I could speak, my husband came out and said, "Grandma, your clothes will not go out of style for as long as you go, and if you pass away in the future, the clothes will fit." ”

    When I heard that it was too late to stop it, my grandmother trembled with anger when she heard this, and the relatives who heard my husband's words all looked at my husband like monsters. My parents looked at each other and stared at my husband and I for a long time.

    After I came back, my parents forced me to divorce my husband, saying that with his mouth, maybe something would happen one day, and this time my grandmother must be angry, and if I and my husband don't divorce, they will cut off the relationship with me.

    I also know that my husband went too far this time, but he has no malicious intentions, so there is no need to use divorce as a condition. What am I going to do? I've got a big head!

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Make your sister apologize;

    The two of them get married and live a life, don't let your family get involved in everything.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Your husband is still a real man, and his sister won't fight back when he beats him. It's normal for husband and wife to quarrel, it's your fault, you shouldn't let your sister get involved, for you and your husband, your sister is an outsider, and her intervention can only increase the problem. It is recommended that you apologize to your husband and promise not to find your sister again because of the matter between husband and wife, and you apologize for your sister.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Do you feel that you are doing the right thing, you two are quarreling and not he is beating you, your sister is here to persuade you to fight or to be angry for you, you will slap people 5 times when you come, you know that you don't hit people in the face, he is your husband and not someone else, you can't do this to others, you kiss your sister, what position can you put your husband, in a matter of your family, you always let others get involved, so don't look for trouble, I feel that your sister should apologize, why did you come up and beat people, you also said that it is a trivial matter of life.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    First obey your husband's wishes, don't take the children to my sister's house, and after a while, let my husband dissipate his anger. At the same time, your sister's approach is excessive, although she wants to help you in her heart, but the way is wrong, simple and rude, not only did not help, but also helped, if she can self-examine it is the best; But your sister's temper is estimated to be difficult. So, stabilize everything first and let time figure it out.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    It is difficult for the Qing official to cut off family affairs, why should you involve your sister in the first place with a little contradiction

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    If you don't need outsiders to solve your family spirit, you will not be able to get through it, and even if you do, you will not be able to do it.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Everyone has dignity, and there will inevitably be friction when living together, so you have to discuss and solve it, your sister's behavior is a bit excessive, or apologize.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Don't let your husband know that you and your sister are in contact with you for the time being, and after a long time, you will be dissipated, and you will definitely be a family.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    It's good to leave like this, your sister is a shrew, and you came to the garden.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Your husband is a big man, how can he embarrass you like this, tell him well.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    It's not right to sit together as a family and have a good talk, it's not right to hit someone.

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