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I don't have the ideal parents because parents are not chosen by us. If I had to choose my parents again, I would still choose my own parents.
Although they are not as rich as other people's parents, they do not have a high education, they do not have good genes, and this is not that. But the only thing they have is their love for me, and I grew up with their careful nurturing. I don't have any psychological shadows, I don't have any major illnesses, I had a happy childhood.
Even if I didn't work as hard as other people's children and didn't get that good grades, they didn't dislike me. still regard me as a treasure in the palm of their hands, they don't dislike me, why should I dislike them. Why should I even imagine my ideal parents, I don't think I can think about them.
I often hear some friends say that it would be nice if I were born in a rich family. Rich people have good homes, everything can be, everything is the best. But parents are the best for themselves.
They gave us life, and then they raised us with great pain. If they hear "It would be nice to be born in a rich family", how would they feel in their hearts?
When I was a child, my family didn't have much money, and my parents went out to lose it all when my parents made a little money in business. There was no way, my mom had to pull my dad out to work, because if he was at home all the time, not only would he not be able to save money, but my dad would probably lose everything. <>
I was only a few years old at the time, and they wanted to take me out with them, but I heard that it was not easy to find a job with children. In desperation, my parents put me in foster care with relatives. So I've always been a left-behind child, but I don't think there's anything, I understand them, they are also there to earn money, to support me, to provide for me to study.
But what my mom said really made me feel ashamed. She said that for so many years, she has not been with me, except for the monthly fee sent back. The others really didn't do what a mother should do.
When I heard that, I wanted my mom to stop thinking about it. Although I live with relatives, I am quite happy and have a good life. But at that time, I couldn't say anything, I was choked.
So my ideal parents are only my parents, and that's what they are.
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My parents) are mine.
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The ideal type in everyone's mind should not be too different, and many people are also determined by their own inner needs and desires. For the standard of a good father, everyone's feelings should be different. My ideal father is a responsible, good father who cares for the family.
A responsible father will make his children feel more grounded and secure. A responsible person should be a very popular person at all times. A responsible father will do his best to give the best to his children, and he will also set the best example for his children.
My father is very responsible, and under his guidance, I have always had a friendly eye for the world. My father likes to do his best in everything he does, which also cultivates my independent and hard-working personality. My father will not burden me in many things, as long as I grow up happily, I will be happy when I grow up, I believe this is also the biggest wish of many parents.
My father is very responsible, and at the same time, he has given me enough fatherly love.
The Gu family's father is definitely a good father. Any man who cares about the family will be a good man, because the family is the most precious and important in everyone's life, and the Chinese also put the most feelings into their own family. A father who cares for his family will make his wife feel at ease, and he will also make his children feel enough love.
A father who cares for his family is also the best able to make his children feel the warmth and cohesion of home, and can make his children clearly realize that they are not working alone, but have a big family that has always supported them. The father of the Gu family is definitely a good father, and he is also a very ideal father figure in my mind, and I am very fortunate that my father is a good father of the Gu family.
That's my ideal father. Everyone thinks differently, but what kind of image would your ideal father look like?
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My ideal father must be a father who can give me encouragement and support, can reach out to help me when I encounter difficulties, and usually silently pays for me, such a father is also my ideal father.
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My ideal father is the one who is very loving, very doting on me, and he will stand behind me and support me when something happens.
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In fact, the ideal father in my mind should be a very responsible man, who loves his wife and children, and a man with a strong sense of responsibility will not go out to mess with flowers.
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In my mind, the ideal father would be relatively good and very cultured and cultivated, and it would be better if my father was a teacher.
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My ideal father is a combination of rigidity and softness, and he is very strict when he disciplines me, but he is very gentle when I am hurt.
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My ideal father would be able to be friends with me sometimes, but sometimes he would also have the image of a father, who could protect me and support the family.
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My ideal father would always be very gentle with me and show me the way at critical moments.
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My real-life father is my ideal father. Although he is not particularly rich, he has given me all his love.
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My ideal father would be able to help me in times of difficulty and comfort me in times of grief and loss.
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The ideal father is to be lenient and strict with me, so that I will not go astray and will not make me proud.
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Steady, responsible, can give children enough sense of security, usually play and talk with children, when children do something wrong, give reasonable criticism and education, and praise when they do well.
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The ideal father is friendly, has his own principles for others, and is not strong.
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Of course, as children, we should not blindly ask our parents how to treat us, we should go into the world of our parents more, express our love to our parents more, take the initiative to undertake housework, communicate more with our parents, learn to empathize when there are differences, say hello to our parents when we go out to play, and fight more with our family members when we go to school, and communicate with our families.
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Able to patiently point out mistakes when I make them and guide me to correct them. This way, I don't have to worry about being scolded for making mistakes, and I have the confidence to try something new.
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My ideal parents can grow up and study with me, talk freely, and give me guidance in life, so that I am not confused.
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My ideal parent would be someone who is very understanding and can give their child a lot of love.
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We do not have the right to choose parents, parents must first care for their children, not too much spoiling, parents should be harmonious, to respect the elderly.
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My ideal parents are to live in harmony and love each other, not to quarrel all the time.
When I was a child, my mom and dad would always quarrel, and the two of them would fight at every turn? Then they started fighting, and Dad was even beaten into the hospital by Mom, and Mom was injured by Dad ......The two of them just made a lot of noise, until now. But it's okay now, maybe it's because of their age, the two of them don't fight anymore, and the two just dislike each other.
My ideal parents, my father is gentle and polite, and my mother is gentle and considerate. But it seems that neither of them can do ......Forget it, I've grown up and started a family, so I can't care about the two of them, and the two of them won't divorce anyway......
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The ideal father should be responsible for the family, don't always care about his own chic, only care about his own enjoyment, ignore his parents, ignore his wife, and ignore his children. My ideal father would be the breadwinner of the family.
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1. Parents should be strict with themselves in life.
As the saying goes, "Teaching by example is greater than teaching". Parents should lead by example and take the lead in setting an example is the most effective education in itself.
Therefore, in life, parents should demand less from their children and more from themselves.
Only by being strict with oneself can we imperceptibly influence children.
And leave a deep imprint on the child's character, thoughts, behavior, and dealings.
Second, we must learn to introspect.
No one is born to be an ideal parent, and good parents are acquired through continuous learning, self-examination, summarization, and change.
A person who never knows how to reflect on himself will not change and grow in any way.
Only by continuous reflection can we find out where the problems are, and only then can we know what needs to be improved.
Therefore, as a parent, you should reflect on your thoughts and thoughts anytime and anywhere, say and deed, find problems, correct them immediately, and teach your children with correct behaviors.
If parents find that they have done something wrong or misunderstood their child, they should admit their mistake to their child in time.
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1 I have a free space.
On Saturday, I finished my homework early because I was afraid that my mother and father would scold me, so I didn't dare to go out to play or go out to watch TV, so I had to hide in my room and watch **. I was reading with relish when the door suddenly opened, and I was shocked, and immediately put the book in the drawer, picked up the Olympiad that had not yet been done, and made it. My mother immediately walked in and saw that I was doing the Olympiad so "seriously" under extremely unnatural circumstances, and I understood seven or eight points in my heart.
When I looked at my mother's appearance, I wondered in my heart, usually she didn't agree with me doing other things without doing my homework, did she want me to be a "bamboo fried shredded pork" today? Don't be so ruthless. But who knew that my mother came over with a pleasant face and said to me:
Today's homework is done quickly, you go watch TV. "I wondered in my heart, why is my mother so reasonable today? But I didn't think much of it, so I went to watch TV.
The TV is playing my favorite "Eight Heroes" now, and this Saturday is my own Saturday, and I have a free space.
2."Test scores don't mean everything".
The test paper was distributed, I was surprisingly poor in this exam, and I didn't even rank in the top ten in the class, I looked at the bright red on the test paper, silently put it in the bag, and held back the tears. When I got home, I lost my usual arrogance, like a frosted eggplant. Dad came home and I had to show him the test paper because the teacher asked for an autograph.
I know that my father has always had high requirements for me, and I must be in the top 5 in every exam, but this time, I didn't even rank in the top 10, he must be very angry, and maybe he will gather my mother to come together for mixed doubles. Dad picked up my test paper with a smile on his face, and when he saw my test paper, his smile froze. I waited for his spit to fly over.
Unexpectedly, he actually said: "Yuanyuan, I know that you didn't do your best to take the test paper this time, but you promised me that you must work hard next time, and the test score does not mean everything." I nodded immediately, but tears still flowed.
This is my ideal parents, they will not make a big fuss because of small things, they will not be indifferent to me or even criticize and scold me because of a mistake in an exam, they will not let me have no room for freedom. What they gave me was a fulfilling childhood, a real childhood.
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My ideal parents are not necessarily rich and wealthy, but they must love each other and love each other.
My ideal parents have a regular job, a stable income, some savings, a car and a house.
My ideal parents may not be very handsome and beautiful, but they seem to have a temperament.
My ideal parents are good-tempered, have good personalities, know how to take care of their children, have patience, and can understand and be considerate of their children.
My ideal parents have no bad habits, good manners, and good living habits.
My ideal parents know how to accept what they see, and they will not always be verbose in front of their children.
My ideal parents are able to respect their children's right choices, and will not always judge right and wrong by their ideas.
My ideal parents are able to provide good educational conditions for their children.
My ideal parents are physically and mentally healthy.
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I wish my parents loved me and cared for me more.
I used to study so badly, I would quarrel with my parents every day, and I would cry every time. At that time, I felt that they loved them more than me, and it was very hurt.
When I grew up, I knew that they were afraid that I would not have them in the future, and that I would not be independent or strong, and I would not be able to gain a foothold in society. In fact, I don't really want to change my parents, because fate has decided that they will be the most important people in my life, all I have to do is to repay them, treat them well until they are old, and let them live in their old age.
Because they have been fortunate enough to raise me, I should give back, just like they once were.
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