My boyfriend passed away in a traffic accident, what should I do? In the pain ...

Updated on society 2024-03-14
15 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Your mood is understandable, the loss of a loved one will be very painful, this also needs to be adjusted by yourself, no one can help you, can not solve your pain, go out for a walk by yourself, don't always stay at home, try not to go to the places you have been to together, talk more with friends, and the mood will be better.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Don't be like this, he's gone, you should live a better life, if he sees you like this, he will be sad, the person who left has left, I know you are sad now, but time will slowly forget everything, people can't always live in pain, look forward, there is nothing that can't be passed, take good care of yourself, but also let him feel at ease, I hope you are happy, after the pain, you have to be stronger, life has to go on, cheer up.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    You can't live in the shadow of someone who has passed away, try not to think about the past, try to learn to live again, talk to friends more, you can talk about your work and so on, and it will be good after a long time.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Hang out with friends and take a break. It's better not to be alone, although at this time you really want to be alone. After a while, find a job, fill yourself a little more, and take your time. Time is the best medicine.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Go relax and relax. Change the environment and start over. Remember, your boyfriend doesn't want to see you like that!

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Let's talk to the elderly in the family, they have been through a lot and can give you a lot of useful advice.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Understand you well, but accept reality.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    My boyfriend died in a car accident, what should I do? Time will ** all trauma. Be optimistic, don't be too sad.

    When you can get away from it all, you can start trying a new relationship. I guess it's what your boyfriend wants to see, more of a title depending on how much you love him. If you're feeling sad, build a new relationship for the time being and hide it as a memory.

    If you love it to the core, you will understand even if you leave.

    <> a report is closed for necessary reasons. I understand your pain, but think about it, if it were something else, your boyfriend would be sad because you were so sad, and you know you still have your relatives. Everyone around you wants to get out.

    Your pain affects those who care about you. In "The Sixth Sense of Life and Death", the Grim Reaper comes to the world to replace the boy in the car accident and experiences the seven emotions and six desires, and the film depicts a boy who unexpectedly appears in front of his girlfriend in a car accident. In order to constantly see her dead boyfriend, her girlfriend actually leads her to become a businessman and die.

    In the previous state of family isolation, lovers had to keep their distance. In the midst of the broken bonds, there is also a pair of lovers who love each other deeply. Even if they can't get close to each other, they have to tell each other all their love, just like being isolated and falling in love.

    I love him very much. It was sudden. For the first few days I was in pain and I wanted to be free after I died, but I knew it was a stupid idea, so when it passed, it always comforted me that time could dilute everything, but now it's been a few months and I still can't get out.

    For more than a month, I couldn't sleep or eat every day. I can't sleep every night. I was frustrated. I am afraid of the dark and the dawn.

    I've had headaches and insomnia. I didn't dare to take medicine.

    I thought once I took the medicine, it meant that I was really sick. I'm afraid I'll keep going like this. I was afraid that I would not fall in love with anyone in my life and that I would never be happy again.

    I'm afraid that one day I won't be able to resist, I'm afraid I won't be able to live.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    As her best friend, you can only accompany her through this difficult time, which is a huge blow to her. Whether it is psychological or spiritual, the trauma caused to her is unavoidable. The fact that the people around us are gone forever, and this kind of fact that we are helpless is often an unbearable sadness for each of us, and we will spend several years, or even the rest of our lives, and we will not be able to get out of it.

    If your friend's emotions are normal, you have to pay attention to the fact that she may have swallowed it all by herself, and sometimes the reason why she is so calm may be that she no longer has any attachment to life. Although this may just be a hypothesis, it is also necessary to prevent it, after all, people who are alive, life still has to go on, there is no way, the world is so fucked.

    A girl I met in college, she and her boyfriend have been in the same class since elementary school, and then started to be in junior high school, but her boyfriend died unexpectedly in a car accident when she was a freshman in high school. Before leaving, I called her **, but she didn't receive it. Moreover, at that time, the boy was in love with her and did not make it public, and she only learned that her boyfriend had been in a car accident after several days.

    She had already been cremated when she knew it, and she hadn't even seen the last side.

    This girl has never found a partner now, and she said that it is impossible for such a person to accompany her for another nine years in her life. I haven't loved it deeply, so I probably can't relate to it. Some people may feel that it is time to come out and start a new life, but for some people, the person she loves is all she has, and without him, her life is meaningless.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    First of all, I feel very sorry for this matter, and I hope you can get out of this haze as soon as possible, because people themselves are very fragile animals, and often die unexpectedly for many reasons, which is also deeply experienced, just like a good friend of mine before, we were still interacting on Weibo the day before, but on the second day he drove and died unexpectedly, only to hear this news, I thought it was fake, and I thought someone was lying to me, But after I saw the news and the notice issued by this company, I still believed it, and then I also burst into tears, and I still feel very sorry for it.

    But how to say it, the dead are gone, and the living are strongSo no matter what happens, we must be able to be positive and optimistic about life, after all, death is the end of each of us, but they are ahead of us, or in other words, we will all die together, but they have not been with us longer.

    In fact, many times, human beings are not afraid of death, but they are just afraid of not saying goodbye properly, Just like you and your boyfriend, the two of you didn't say goodbye well, your boyfriend passed away unexpectedly, so the biggest thing for you is not the unexpected death of your boyfriend, but more because the two of you didn't have a good chat, and there are still a lot of things that you haven't said well.

    Because that's how I feel, just like that friend of mineThe two of us obviously have a lot to say, but because of his unexpected death, I lost a good friend, so I still hope that you can be strong and can get out of this haze as soon as possible, after all, I don't think your boyfriend will want you to be sad for him all day.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    You can only choose time to spend it slowly, or you can go out and see more new things outside.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Time will wear away all the pain, maybe this time you'll need a little longer.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    You should give yourself some time to heal and then give yourself some time to forget about it.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    I think time is the best medicine, and there really is no way to get out of it quickly.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    It seems to me that your boyfriend has passed away, and you can only slowly come out on your own.

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