If a boy waited for you for seven years, if you didn t love him, would you marry him?

Updated on society 2024-03-05
20 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    No, even if it's someone who has been waiting for me for seven years, I don't love him, that's my own problem, marrying someone I don't love is not only cruel to myself, but even more cruel to Lingwai, and the end result is that both of you will suffer, seven years can't be said to be a short time, and it can't be said to be long, because compared to a lifetime, it's insignificant, but if you marry him and don't love him, it's a harm to him.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    If you don't love, it's better not to marry You should tell him that you don't love him This is a responsibility for yourself and a responsibility for him Compared to a long few decades, seven years of pain is short, and with a person you don't love, it's hard to be alike, how can you have a happy life, don't take gratitude as love, make it clear

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    He waited for you for seven years", do you believe it? What is etc.? What is waiting for you?

    Everyone has their own circle of life, work, and social circles, how many friends have you met in the past seven years, how many people have chased you, and how many people have you been tempted by? What about empathy for him?

    There are two possibilities: one is that he is a person with no skills, he may have achieved nothing in the past seven years, chased girls but did not succeed or fell in love but did not know why they were not able to be together. Second, he only had a good impression of you seven years ago, but at that time he didn't give up anything for you, he was busy with study or work for seven years, and now he may have achieved some results in his studies or career, and he has also liked girls or has been in love, but in the end they are not together, but it is definitely not because of you, because you have nothing after all, even if you have something, you should not underestimate the magic of time, underestimate the charm of other women, and overestimate human nature and your status in his heart.

    Because if you were important to him, you wouldn't have let go or let go seven years ago, and you don't need to wait so long for seven years! People are like this, when they are happy, they will only think about themselves, and when they are painful and frustrated, they will think of some unimportant people, neglected people, pull them over to confide in them or be backed!

    Whether it's finding someone who loves you or someone you love, it's painful. Happiness is when two people who love each other together.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    I don't think that women should have found a man who loves them, and as I said, feelings can be cultivated slowly. You can not marry now. But try to get along with each other first. 7 years, not everyone can afford to wait. No way.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    No! If it wasn't 7 years ago, it won't be 7 years from now.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Don't get married, marrying someone is a lifelong thing, and how uncomfortable it is to face someone you don't love for a lifetime.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    No, a good love needs you to love me, and I need to love you!!

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Won't marrying someone is a lifelong thing.

    How painful it is not to be together.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Obvious question, no

    When the heart softens, both of them will be in pain, so why bother.

    If I like a guy and wait for 7 years, will he marry me?

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    If you don't love, then you won't. But very impressed.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    It's been 7 years, if you still haven't felt it! Don't get married, it's a long time!

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Not to love is not to love.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    When a woman gets married, she is reincarnated for the second time.

    Think it out for yourself.

    Happiness is in your own hands.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    If that street beggar had been waiting for you at your door for ten years, would you marry her home?

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Happiness will not wait for you all the time, the people who love you and the people you love are not ready to appear, please learn to cherish them.

    When a person who loves you deeply changes for you, it is because he loves you, and when you meet someone, he puts away his stubborn temper for you; And because he loves you, he turns your interest into his interest when ......Or because he loves you.

    There is no reason to like someone, and there is no regret to give.

    They all think it's worth it, as long as they can be with the people they love.

    In fact, we all have some such people around us, but (you. I. He hasn't discovered that the person who knows you best will always be by your side to protect you and not let you have a trace of grievances; People who truly love you may not say many things that love you, but they will do many things that love you.

    If you find someone like this around you, please cherish .......

    Please remember! The stars that can't be picked are always the brightest, and the small fish that slip away are always the most beautiful. The missed movie is always the best, and the lost lover always understands you best.

    In this world, everyone has someone they want to find, and once they miss it, they won't come back.

    If you fall in love, don't give up easily. It's awkward, maybe you regret it for a while; But you give up, and it may make you regret it for the rest of your life. A life that has experienced love is beautiful, and love that cannot stand the test is not profound.

    Beautiful love enriches life, and love that has passed the test is perfect.

    I sincerely wish you to find true love.

    Have a nice day! Thank you o(o

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    He really loves you very much、Now there are not many boys who will wait for a girl for so long、Cherish it、

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    This is a question that has been asked by many people, and the solution is probably only to you who know best what you should do. The difference in people's thinking and personality determines the difference of people, and the personality of people. What works for me may not be for you.

    But the most important thing for us is that I really want to maintain the relationship, and I mean it.

    A truly good friend and a good lover is one who remembers each other no matter how long they don't touch!!

    I am sincere and sincere, and I hope to get your affirmation.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    In fact, the road of waiting is a difficult and slow road, and it is an endless road.

    What is waiting? It is the most fervent hope and the most sincere wish. Just like a person, no matter how different paths you have taken, you always have to give an account to the world when you are mature.

    How many people are worth waiting for, how many people can wait, maybe no one knows, maybe you will choose to give up, if the person you are waiting for is worth your wait, then, of course, you should wait, this kind of waiting also sets off a source of courage and strength, true love has no regrets. If it's not worth your wait, maybe that kind of waiting will not have results at all, then there is no need to wait, why bother to wait on the way to wait, waste your life, maybe it will make you pay a heavy price, isn't it worth it, will it be stupid, why bother so persistently? Why bother yourself?

    It's better to wake up a little earlier, and miss the flowers will reap the rain. Cherish life and cherish yourself. Waiting for a result is a blessing, but I'm afraid that some of the waiting is far away, maybe you have waited for a lifetime without results, but don't be sad, an unknown vision, although there is no appointment, this is also a kind of happiness and joy.

    Some waits may have results, some waits can also make people feel regretful, maybe empty joy, maybe sad life, maybe it will make a person crazy, maybe all you have experienced along the way is a lonely long journey and a lot of scars all over your body. A person may lose everything in order to wait for someone, and even pay the price and life of a lifetime.

    In fact, some losses are doomed, some fate will never have results, people's fate and fate are doomed, disobey can't, force can't come, no one's soul will always be spotless, people's hearts are unpredictable, changeable, the world is unpredictable, everything is still fate, so at least you won't let yourself get hurt.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    To trust each other is the foundation

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    He said that he was willing to wait for you for three years, and there are several situations:

    He really waited for you for three years.

    Situation 1: If you are not with him at that time, then it is recommended that you do not promise him, making it clear that you will not agree to be with him at that time.

    Situation 2: If you are with him at that time, then let him wait for you, but it is recommended that you stay with him now, why wait so long?

    He didn't wait for you for three years, he just talked.

    Then you don't have to worry about it, because it doesn't mean anything to him.

    The general advice is: if you like him, just be together, don't let him wait and waste each other's three years.

    If you don't like him, just explain your attitude towards him, and there is no need to make him wait.

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