My relationship with my best friend of the opposite sex

Updated on psychology 2024-03-14
21 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Maintain the status quo for the first time. Because it's not appropriate to confess now. The confession results are nothing more than two, 1:

    Can you balance success, affection, and learning? 2: Failure, can you guarantee that it will not affect the learning of the two of you?

    Taking 10,000 steps back, the third year of high school is a key year for the carp to leap into the dragon gate. Be sensible! You can see from your narrative that she is also interesting to you.

    You guys have a good chance.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    It's never just a straight friendship, and I'm a prime example of that, I have a very good male friend, and I like to talk to him about everything, and I've always liked him, even though I've never said it. So from a girl's point of view, I think your female classmate should have a good impression of you, try to confess slowly, don't leave regrets in the beautiful and young middle school. But since it's already the third year of high school, the two of them have to work hard!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Keep up this relationship, occasionally make some tentative jokes, such as asking what kind of boy she likes, and wait until the college entrance examination is over before confessing. The situation is not very rosy, but the probability of success is not small. Good luck.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    No, I like to be together early, I won't wait until now!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    You are qualified to enter the house, you can seize it if you like it, but don't worry, you have to talk about strategy, don't give people too obvious. You understand?

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    You just ask her, or you try it.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Telling you everything, in general, treats you as a really good friend, but it's hard to say whether you like it or not.

    It's possible with her, of course, but don't force it, it will have the opposite effect, just get closer slowly, anyway, we've been together for so long, it's not a short while.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    With the best friends of the opposite sex, the end result is of course perfect.

    It is more suitable to be with friends, because they understand each other's living habits better, can take care of each other's feelings, and can be more considerate of each other's hearts, because the other party has nothing to talk about with her.

    Most of the people I've seen with the best friends of the opposite sex have been very good, they all have a happy result, although there is no lovers, the initial budding, but the sense of happiness and security that ordinary lovers do not have.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    My best friend and his best friend of the opposite sex got together, at first they could talk about everything, but then I found out that they were really only suitable for being friends, not for being a couple, although they spoke a lot of common language, but there were many incompatible places, not suitable for being a couple, so later they still said that they broke up peacefully and returned to the best friend relationship.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    I think it's normal to have a relationship over time, that is, the more fun we have together, the more we appreciate it. Judging by the way we interact, my mom is very fond of my friends. But personally, I think friendship turns into love, and I can't imagine being with the best friend of the opposite sex, at least right now.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    You must know the best friend of the opposite sex very well, and he met you in your most serious youth, and he knows you very well, maybe it will be smooth at the beginning, but there will be constant contradictions later, but after this run-in period, you will enter a long-term relationship, until you finally get married.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    broke up and became the most familiar stranger. When I was in high school, I had a male friend who had a very good relationship, and the relationship was so good that others thought we were in a relationship, but in fact there was none. But then he confessed to me, and we were together.

    can be together and find that there is no feeling between the two people, so they break up and become the most familiar strangers.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Remembering a very lively discussion, is there a pure friendship between men and women? I think of course there are pure friendships, but friendships also change with time and feelings. Some will become fading and becoming strangers. Some will get deeper and deeper and become love.

    There's nothing wrong with being with the best friends of the opposite sex. We know each other very well and will not have a wrong or inaccurate judgment about each other. And there are many years of emotional foundation, which is conducive to living together.

    Don't be worried, be brave together, and happiness will not fail you.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Then the two of them got married, and now she's my wife, next to my pillow. At that time, people always said not to fall in love with their best friends, but we felt that we knew each other well enough, and we would be more familiar with each other, and we would be less familiar with the run-in process, so we chose to be together, and now we are very happy.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    I ended up getting married to him. I have a male girlfriend who is always there to comfort me when I am sad, and slowly I get used to his presence and unconsciously like him. Then he told me:

    My family thinks I'm not too young anymore and asks me to go on a blind date tomorrow. "Suddenly my heart was empty, and I lost my mind and confessed to him, and we were together.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    When two people fall in love, they must be based on the understanding and satisfaction of both parties, and the best friends of the opposite sex, which means that the two of you are very compatible, the personality is very suitable, and the two people also have a better understanding of each other, which will save unnecessary contradictions, and generally can go to the end.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Everyone was already familiar with each other before, so there is a lot of tacit understanding that is self-evident, but sometimes it is because they know each other's lives too well, so the requirements will become higher and higher, resulting in everyone sometimes having nothing to say, in short, there are good and not so good.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Finally broke up. I'm a man, and I've been there! But I'll quickly find a light-hearted topic, make a joke, and try to get out of an awkward situation in the environment I find myself in!

    When you grow so big, you should still have a few humorous jokes! If you really don't have it, then use your ingenuity, take what you are best at, show it to her or him, and try not to stalemate, the more you end up in the end.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Not recommended, because we know each other too well, so the knives we stab at each other are extraordinarily sharp.

    The personal opinion is that even if it fits, don't be together.

    Because two people have a very comfortable relationship, there is a great chance that it will be affected because of this relationship.

    I met him through my girlfriend in 09, broke up after 11 years together, and then I didn't contact him for more than three years, and I got in touch again by chance in 14 years, and I've always been very good friends, and we were together again at the beginning of this year. After going around for 10 years, the classmates and friends around me are very surprised, maybe this is fate!

    Two people who have known each other for a long time and have a good relationship, after being together, less than half a year, are very likely to break up, 75% of the reason for the breakup is freshness, once you understand it deeply, you will find that this person really has nothing to do, if two people who have a good relationship must not be together, cherish it now It's good, don't mess up the relationship, 05

    I feel that it should be different from person to person, my feelings are the most important, I have known my partner for ten years, I have been good friends since high school, this year is the tenth year of our acquaintance, he has been by my side as a friend, but I am naturally nervous, big grin, he knows my emotions, 10th cautious changed years, we are together and now we are very happy I am making trouble He is laughing.

    It's not suitable for leniency, right?,Sophomore and my good friend who I met in junior high school are together.,Well,Not to mention that he doesn't really like me that much.,It's hard for me to adapt myself.,Even if I like him for many years,,I can't convert to the role of a girlfriend for a while.,There's even a lot of straight girl operation.。

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    I'm with my best friend of the opposite sex.

    Eleven years of acquaintance, the fourth day together. It feels like two people who like each other have finally mustered up the courage to face their emotions, to face an unknown future, your courage plus mine, to face the world, it's enough.

    When I was friends before, it was very easy and comfortable to get along together, and I thought about it in private at the time, if we lived together in the future, it would be very beautiful, but at that time, the timid each other did not dare to pierce the window paper, so they have been getting along as good friends, you know me, I understand you, but the time has not come to be together, hastily together, the result may not be too perfect.

    How did they get together, that is, some time ago, the contact was more frequent, and then I also received a hint, I was afraid that he was too impulsive, so I avoided talking about this issue, and before I met him, I also determined my own mind, and I was sure that I was with him, and I was a relaxed and happy free myself, I didn't have to pretend in front of him, I trusted him, because of so many years of understanding, I knew how he was to me and others.

    Then school started, I went to school, he went to work in the field, a little ambiguous chat, at this time he was a little lacking in courage, I was afraid that I would lose this person, one night chatting with him, I said, let's play a game, rock-paper-scissors, the winner asks the question of the loser. (Selfishness is to let him not scruple and say everything he wants to ask), and then he expressed his intentions, saying that he has liked me for a long time, and he is ready to confess, and he has been planning in the past few days, haha, I have been out of the routine one step in advance.

    The ending was a happy one.

    Yes, I'm worried that we'll break up in the future, and I'll lose my love and the best friend who knows me best at the same time, but we have to pursue the feeling in our hearts, I like you, and I'm going to tell you, if we're not together, what will happen in the future, that's all for later.

    I hope everyone can be with the people they like.

    The most wonderful thing in the world is that I like you and you like me at the same time.

    In closing, I would like to say that I am lucky that my best friend is in love with me and I love him too.

    If I could, I would like to ask you to be together, after all, I am ready to be with you all the time.

    Make good money, but you want to marry me, and you have to do it.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Love seems to have always been defined as possessive and irreplaceable, so most of the attitudes in front of love are absolutely private, and they will always unconsciously put love at a high level, imagining it as the only pure place in a long life.

    It is also because of these thoughts that they decided to distance themselves from their friends of the opposite sex, which is called "avoiding suspicion". But they ignore one point, friendship is also the only one in a long life, in ancient times, "death and life are broad, and Zicheng said; Holding the hand of the son, growing old with the son" is meant to celebrate friendship, not the love of men and women.

    For my part, I would choose to keep in touch with my friend of the opposite sex, because he has been present in my life for too long.

    Our two families live very close to each other, we have known each other since childhood, and it was he who has been with me throughout my youth and youth. He never disliked me when I was full of pimples, patiently helped me answer my questions when I didn't do well in exams, accompanied me to skip class, accompanied me to chase boys, passed notes, and even accompanied me through the first relationship ...... my life

    I'm glad I met him before I met true love, and for me, his company is as warm as family. In fact, the feelings that real friends of the opposite sex and their partners bring to you are completely different, in love, you will quarrel because of the disagreement with each other, and the three views between friends are not wild, and the combination of the three views between friends just gives you an extra angle to look at the problem; Love will make you get carried away and want to do something crazy for each other, while friends will always be dull, and cherish it; Love is sweet first and then bitter, while friendship is bitter and then sweet; There will be a lot of demanding requirements in love, and friendship is about mutual tolerance.

    Therefore, the existence of a true friend of the opposite sex will only make your world more complete.

    Love him well, and then, also live well, and what keeps a person is never humble, but living well and independently. "So, you don't have to give up your friends of the opposite sex because you love him, you just have to be yourself.

    And the person who really loves you and knows how to appreciate you will not mind you because of the existence of your friends of the opposite sex.

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