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Because it doesn't matter what you do in the face of strangers, there is no pressure, it makes people very relaxed, and you don't have to consider whether the people around him are very scheming, and people can't figure it out, and with acquaintances, you have to always figure out the psychology of the other party, afraid that if you say something, the acquaintance will be unhappy, so it's very tiring, and then there is the possibility that you have your own reasons, lack of security, and don't trust the friends around you!
Actually, I'm the same way, I'd rather go to a place where I'm a stranger and feel less tired...
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Autism, loneliness. If this is not good, it will harm oneself, and it is not conducive to future study and work, as well as making friends. Be sure to change!
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Then you will have a new self.
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There could be a variety of explanations for this psychology, and here are some possible explanations:
1.Avoidance: Some people may feel uncomfortable and avoidant as a result of receiving too much attention and evaluation in places where they know a lot. In this case, they may prefer to be in a place with a lot of strangers because they won't get much attention and evaluation.
2.Sense of freedom: Some people may feel more free and relaxed in places with a lot of strangers because they don't need to worry about what others think or say about them. This sense of freedom may make them feel more confident and autonomous.
3.Exploratory: Some people may be curious and eager to get to know strangers, and therefore prefer to be in places where there are many strangers. This desire to explore may make them feel more excited and energized.
4.Sense of relief: Some people may feel more expectation and pressure in places with a lot of acquaintances, but not in places with a lot of strangers. In this case, they may feel more free and liberated.
In conclusion, this psychology can be caused by a variety of factors such as personal experience, personality, and values. If you feel that this psychological situation is affecting your life and work, you can consider seeking professional help, such as counselling or **.
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First of all, I want to tell you that you are not an abnormal person as you think. I often have this situation because I don't like to go to big parties, and I think it makes me very frizzy. I also feel that this kind of gathering makes me feel upset.
In fact, in the eyes of adults, children should play together, and there is a harmonious atmosphere. But more often than not, we want to be alone, and it's better to be alone than to be with unfamiliar relatives.
There are always some social and social phobia that are popular, and these statements are also confirming some of our current social situations. So you don't have to worry about what your relatives say, we just have to be ourselves. Of course, we can also make some appropriate changes, such as the etiquette that should be done or the etiquette should be done should not show face to relatives, or ignore people.
When we're done with our proper etiquette, I don't think they'll say much.
Today, more and more young people, like the subject, have some rejection of meaningless group life, people in this life, the most understandable, the most concerned is their own, when it comes to getting along, no one is more down-to-earth than themselves, life, simple is enough, after all, the road of life still has to rely on their own to go on. This may be the truest thought in the hearts of the majority of solitary people.
The true meaning of solitude is to be one's own master and live a life free from the domination of others. Everyone has their own cognitive concept of different things and lifestyles, we don't have to sacrifice ourselves to cater to a certain type of people, others think that I am withdrawn and unsociable, we don't want to work hard to "fake social", be true to yourself, and being alone is a free way of life.
Therefore, there is no need for the subject to be too suspicious of himself and self-anxious. Be yourself seriously and freely, control your life according to your own plans and ideas, the road of life, or rely on yourself to go on, the advice of elders and parents is good to listen politely, their cognitive concepts are not a weapon to dominate your life.
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Because you like to be alone, you don't like to guess what you think, you don't want to offend others, but you don't want to please others, you are quiet, you can do whatever you want, very free.
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It may be because I am used to being alone, and I will feel a little uncomfortable once I appear in a place with a relatively large amount.
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It may be that you have a more withdrawn personality, you don't want to have too close relationships with others, you don't want to talk to others, and you just want to be alone.
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It's an escape! Are you afraid that you will be embarrassed or feel anything about this person, or are you afraid that you will be embarrassed? Remember, people don't care too much about what you do, and being bold and confident is the key!
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Inferiority complex is a problem, to break through the self, get up every day and smile in the mirror, and find the feeling after a few days.
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Because of the previous things that caused the current psychological depression, this is mainly because the previous things made you form some habitual thoughts, just like people will be cranky after witnessing a car accident. This kind of thinking needs to be consciously overcome. Of course, first of all, we have to admit that this is not a psychological problem, but a defect in personal understanding, which can be remedied.
Secondly, expand your circle of friends, participate in more group activities, and get together with friends to chat.
You may have rarely communicated with people since you were a child, and you are rarely willing to take the initiative to contact people. So now that I suddenly want to come out, I am a little panicked in the face of a crowded world. When communicating with people, please be bold in staring at others, certainly not rigidly, and learn to speak with your eyes, which can practice smiling and talking in the mirror every day.
Hehe. If you behave strangely at first, others will be confused. Please face up to the eyes of others, don't be afraid, and slowly allow yourself to change.
People who really care about you will not look at you in a strange light, but will be around you silently to support you and encourage you, and your pressure is mainly from strangers. Don't worry, for your own sake and for the sake of those who care about you, I believe that this behavior and habit can be changed.
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