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Who told you that the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law must be very difficult?

Is the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law still divided into eras? How do you know if you haven't gotten along?

If you live together and you really can't get along, then I think your boyfriend will make a choice!

And if you live together, you must be married, and I don't think he can divorce you!

This is not child's play.

And if you don't get along because you're afraid of getting along, you'll definitely break up at this time!

It is also inevitable.

Single parenting is not something you can understand now.

You'll be fine if he leaves his mother to live with you?

How so? What's so bad about living together? Times have changed? Are you going to separate?

I don't understand what you think! Of course, I'm thinking from a man's point of view!

But I don't know why you're doing this because of this?

Maybe I don't know women well enough!

If you break up because of this! You'll definitely regret it!

Think about it! It's best to talk to your mom about it!

See what mom thinks!

I hope you two can come together happily.

This depends on what you think, in fact, as far as I am concerned, you are very happy, such a filial boy at least knows gratitude, he will be good to his mother and sure to your mother is the same, besides, how do you know that it is not easy to get along with your mother if you have no contact with his mother, a mother can raise a child alone is great enough, since you love him, you must also love your mother as much as he does, it's just a personal opinion, I wish you happiness.

Summary. Hello, when your boyfriend says that you don't understand him, you need to listen calmly to him first about the specific problem. Then you can try to let go of your thoughts and put yourself in his shoes.

Try to understand his perspective and make suggestions to solve the problem. At the same time, it is also necessary to maintain good communication and communication with him, and learn more about his preferences and interests. It is recommended that you spend more time with him to enhance the relationship and understanding between them.

Most importantly, mutual respect and understanding are the foundation of a relationship. I hope mine can help you.

Hello, when your boyfriend says that you don't understand him, you need to listen calmly to him first about the specific problem. Then, you can try to let go of your own thoughts and empathize with his feelings and needs. Try to understand his perspective and make suggestions to solve the problem.

At the same time, we should also maintain good communication and exchanges with him, and learn more about his likes and interests. It is recommended that you spend more time with him to enhance the relationship and understanding between them. Most importantly, mutual respect and understanding are the foundation of a relationship.

I hope mine can help you.

He went out to drink, I sent him a message and asked him to answer why he didn't go home yet, he saw that the state was missing and didn't need to go back, and said that he was already on the way home and there was no need to go back, and then Juchang said why did I hold on to this.

Based on the information you provided, I understand that you sent a message asking him why he didn't go home yet, but he was already on his way home, and then he asked why you were holding on to this. First of all, I would like to remind you that if your worries and concerns are irritating him, you can talk to him when he gets home. In addition, you can also ask him why he feels unnecessary to reply to your messages in order to better understand his thoughts and emotions.

In addition, communication and understanding are key to maintaining a healthy relationship. You can communicate your concerns and needs openly with him so that you can better understand and support each other.

I didn't bother him the whole time when he was drinking, and I sent him a message at one o'clock to ask him why he didn't come home yet, and he saw that he couldn't read it back, and it was difficult to accompany Liang Liang to say that this Lu Yun is my fault.

According to the information you provided, you did not bother him to drink, but later asked him about his homecoming. It's not your fault that he's seen your message, but hasn't responded. However, we also need to take into account the feelings and thoughts of the other party.

Maybe he was too drunk at the time, or he wasn't in a good mood at the time, so he didn't reply to your message. We should respect his choice and not read too much into his actions.

Summary. I think a guy often just doesn't go back to empathy, you must just vent your emotions when you quarrel, right, you don't really think so, you just want to scold him to be happy, but this really hurts feelings, he will feel that he is very unbearable in your eyes.

Yes. Yes.

Did you quarrel?

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Yes. He said he was so unbearable in my eyes.

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Said he wouldn't feel sorry for me.

also scolded him and said that he was not as good as a technical girl.

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What does he mean by that?

Excuse me, did you guys quarrel [] yes. Yes.

Did you quarrel?

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Summary. Hello, I'm glad to answer for you Your boyfriend doesn't understand you, this proves that there is a communication barrier between you, first of all, you must clarify your emotions, thoughts and preferences, and talk about these with your boyfriend. Try to avoid hurtful remarks on the topic of "not understanding".

If your boyfriend still doesn't understand you, you can set some boundaries for your thoughts and emotions, so that the other person can clearly know the scope of your "incomprehension" or what you want him to behave when expressing his thoughts.

Hello, I'm glad to answer for you Your boyfriend doesn't understand you, this proves that there is a communication barrier between you, first of all, you must clarify your emotions, thoughts and preferences, and talk about these with your boyfriend. Try to avoid hurtful remarks on the topic of "not understanding". If your boyfriend still doesn't understand you, you can set some boundaries for your thoughts and emotions, so that the other person can clearly know the scope of your "incomprehension" or what you want him to behave when expressing his thoughts.

Hello, today my aunt is in pain, I covered my stomach and went to work for a day, and when my boyfriend got off work, I called ** and told him that I wanted him to comfort me, but I heard that I was home, go to sleep, and I didn't answer it when I was in **, and I didn't reply to the message.

I can understand your feelings.

It's a bit too much for him to treat you like that.

Depending on how you feel at the time, you may think that the other person doesn't care enough about you, so you feel a little lost, and you may even get angry. At this time, I suggest that you might as well write down your feelings and feelings at that time and express them in words.

How to write it. When he was uncomfortable, I immediately bought him medicine, but I was uncomfortable and waited for him to go to sleep, I also knew that he worked hard, and I was not easy, and I had to go to work and take care of his father.

It's all when girls know that your physical condition really needs to be cared for.

Write directly what is in your heart.

Well, but how do I write it?

After writing it, you can see if you can feel better.

If it's still bad, take it to your boyfriend and ask him to read it.

How to write to him about his feelings.

Just write down your views and opinions on this matter.

Writing this out is also a way to vent.

In fact, you know his feelings better.

I also understand your grievances now.

In fact, the mood can be controlled by yourself in many cases, and whether it is uncomfortable or not depends on how much you deal with it.

Since he treats you like this, you have to let him know the cost of doing so.

Huazhen emotional tutor Leng Ai replied:

When the other person tells you that "I can't keep up with his thoughts, I can't achieve mental communication", it is generally conveying to you that you do not understand him enough. So what you have to do is to respond according to the other person's words first, and then gradually improve your impression in the other person's mind.

1. How can I better understand my boyfriend?

Learn to generalize the other person's point of view. First of all, you can repeat the other person's point of view and take the other person's words to heart, so that you can pay enough attention to the other person when interacting with you, and then you can "hear" what the other person is "saying". Slowly you will find that when you really care about a person, listen carefully, and feel the words and deeds of the other person when interacting with you, you will understand that what he expresses is not just the surface meaning, but also has a deeper meaning behind it.

So back to your current question, if you can make a basic repetition of what the other person has said and what he has said, you can at least make the other person understand that you are trying to understand him.

Partners who are too close can easily lose themselves in intimate relationships. The two who have lost themselves seem to be more like one person, caring about each other and ignoring themselves, and one person is sick and both of them are suffering. What's more, love is a world of two people, not a world of one person, there is a distance to be attractive, and love without distance cannot be experienced.