Why do I always rely on others to do things, how to change it?

Getting used to relying on others is not a bad thing, there are two sides to everything. If you think about it carefully, the emperor in ancient times didn't govern the country personally, he didn't rely on the Manchu Dynasty to help him, didn't he rely on others. So it's not a bad thing to get used to relying on others, but it's not easy to rely on it well and rely on it.

At least the following three points must be achieved: first, know how to make good use of people, the person you rely on must have the ability to complete the things you rely on; Second, as long as you decide to rely on others, you must trust others thoroughly, and don't want to be at both ends; Third, to buy people's hearts, mutual trust is very important, only to win the hearts of others, when you rely on him is absolutely safe, all buy people's hearts, let people rely on you, do your best to complete the things you rely on, that is the highest state. Now you know, it's not so easy to rely on others.

Then you should be more confident, no matter whether you handle things well or not, come by yourself, decide your own things, big deal, make a mistake, start all over again. You can't rush this, you have to take it slowly, come on.

When you feel dependent on someone, kill someone so you don't have to rely on!

It comes down to the fear of making mistakes, and if you're afraid of making mistakes, you'll never break the habit. What can be called to you, even if you do it wrong?

That's because you don't have confidence in yourself.

Don't accept that you've given yourself a reason to back down.

Opinion, bai is a person's view of a thing.

Du way and zhi treatment method, learn to deal with everything by yourself, no return to big and small things, answer and decide by yourself, but before deciding, you should also listen to one of your friends, which will help you grow yourself, but in the end you have to decide by yourself.

Everyone has the psychology of dependence, but you are an independent person, what do you do when you have no one to help? If you really want to do something independently, first of all, don't think that I can ask someone else to help you before doing something, but do it yourself first, and if you are sure that you can't do it yourself, then go to someone to help.

First of all, bai

You should first overcome the psychological barrier of self-control, this kind of thing zhi is a kind of dao subtle process, you return.

It takes a lot of time, you can't answer overnight, you have to pay attention everywhere in life, when you encounter problems, you must first keep in mind that you have to make your own choices, don't be influenced by others, of course, it is not that you and other people's good ideas are different, especially some small things in life, gradually you will have your own opinions!!

Hope these words of mine can help you!!

Not being assertive is not copying a letter. Self-confidence comes from many aspects, such as knowledge, zhi

Many factors such as social aspects, living environment, and many other factors have a lot to do with personality. I suggest that you get in touch with people who are cheerful, humorous, confident and intelligent. Listen to and think more about the problems they deal with, which will be of great help and improvement to you.

I'm also such a person, I should listen to other people's opinions, but more importantly, my own thoughts, Du Yu, don't hesitate to do what is good for you, just do it, take your time.

I can only say that you are not confident, anyway, if something happens in the future, what you think is right, just say it, don't follow others

Try to live alone in one place, and learn to deal with some small things in life first.

1.It may be that you are too unconfident and lack the courage to face the things and responsibilities in front of you. I don't believe in my own ability and strength, I'm afraid that I won't be able to do it well, and I will mess up the answer, and I have no face.

2. The sense of independence is not strong. Remember, no one can help you at all times, you can only rely on yourself, so even if you don't want to, you have to force yourself to handle things independently, which is paving the way for your future work life.

3 It may be that you are too inert and don't want to take on too much responsibility. This can only be overcome by perseverance.

Because, you are used to relying on bai, so it is not easy to get rid of this non-independent dao habit for a while.

1. First of all, give yourself.

Allow a little time, and be determined to change your mind Don't be in a hurry.

2. Everything is difficult at the beginning. Make up your mind to start doing a small thing that doesn't depend on others, starting little by little, thinking about slowly changing yourself.

3. Be confident: why let others help you decide, why can't you trust your own vision and choices. Choose the path you want to take in the future, even if you can't get to the end in the end, or you don't succeed in the setback, you will definitely die without regrets.

4. Do things with your own plan and constantly cultivate your own sense of achievement: you can record your plans and things to be done in a notebook. One by one, what needs to be perfected, what has been done, and it has been done well.

Constantly cultivate a sense of self-fulfillment and make yourself more and more confident.

5. Have your own private territory: No matter how complicated it is outside, at least leave yourself a pure land in your heart.

If you have any ideas, implement them immediately, don't give yourself too much room to think about them repeatedly, and slowly realize the truth in this habit, and you can deal with it yourself!

Did the landlord work?

I think the landlord can only be exercised in the melting pot of work and society, because no one wants to help you do it at work, and when you feel pressure, you will naturally work hard and change slowly.

The landlord is in a hurry for anything, not to mention his nature

You are very pampered at home, Bai's parents and family always help you arrange everything.

Zhi, don't worry about it, you've developed your current habits. You can try to leave the protective circle of your home and force yourself to stand on your own feet. When there is no one around to help you, you will find that you can actually do whatever you want by yourself, although the process may be stumbling, but you can do it as long as you want.

In one word, lazy.

There are some things you don't want to think about, and some things you don't want to do.

Over time, you want to rely on others to do everything for you.

You lose the ability to do things.

The ability to think.

Once you're alone, you feel helpless.

It is suggested that if you can do it yourself, do it yourself and do it yourself.

Unconfident, unaware, unenlightened, irrational due to nervousness, lack of experience, less frustration or fear of frustration is not the right mentality Poor people have hateful things If you don't change, you will definitely ruin your life Unless it's a cute little beauty.

Strong dependence, one is character, the other is family education methods, and there are more only children.

On the long road of life, who do you rely on? Some people may say that they rely on their friends, and some people will say they rely on their relatives, but I want to ask, are they really reliable? How many of your friends can be relied on?

How many of your relatives are willing to help you with all their might? You may ask who else to rely on, after my years of personal experience, the only one who can rely on myself is the only one who can rely on me. If you think you can't be trusted, then your friends and relatives are even more unreliable.

Today's society is very realistic, if you want to survive in this society, no one can help you too much, only if you work harder, you will take on all the responsibilities of the whole life road, friends and relatives see your life colorful, will be more willing to add their hands in your colorful space! Everyone is trying to dress up their own living space, for their own status, for their own authority, for their own wealth, for their own happiness. These things make everyone can't stop, how can anyone be willing to put down their efforts in order to help you!

Even if it helps you, it is only to help you along the way, and without affecting its normal life, what percentage of its effort do you say it accounts for? This is still willing to help you in the case. Some people believe in fate, that is, the kind of people who think that they can't even rely on themselves, and they go around begging others to rely on, your space is pitch black, who wants to die.

That's because you have people to rely on.

It's too lazy, but you should be glad that you still have someone to rely on.

Feelings, deeper and deeper, deeper and deeper, if you don't come out, you can only suffer, now you, it's better to leave this place, go to a place you are not familiar with, stay alone, however, it is best for the family to agree, so as not to quarrel again, you can also explain the situation to your family, after all, your family is your best reliance, they will never abandon you, what you have to do now is to isolate him, hate him, disgust him, because of his betrayal, you have to leave him, even if you cry, you have to leave than yourself, otherwise, You will be in such pain for the rest of your life!!

To put it mildly, he is cowardly, knowing that he is relying on him, why do he do that, what more does he have than us, is he three heads and six arms, why don't you try to let others rely on yourself? Forgive me for talking so much, I hope it helps.

Contrary to you, why do I always rely on myself? It's good to rely on others.,It's going to brush the sense of existence of both sides.,Like me, there's basically no sense of existence.。。。

Hello friends, this is quite normal. People will always grow up, as long as you experience more things, you will naturally grow up, and I wish my friends to be happy every day.

In fact, there are times when you let others rely on you.

Then find someone you can rely on.

Because you don't believe in yourself, you are afraid that you can't do well, you are used to the arrangements given to you by others, you have no opinions, you don't try to do things by yourself, maybe one day you try to do something by yourself and succeed, you will slowly get rid of it, and you will not be so dependent....

I guess I don't have the experience to do things on my own.

Many people have dependent behaviors both mentally and behaviorally, and when there is a second person around us, we always rely on him to do things, and we become the ones who enjoy the results, and we blindly think that the people around us should help us solve problems, rather than doing it ourselves. Many times, this dependence is a manifestation of a personality disorder, and if it is too intense, it is a psychological disorder. This disease is more often manifested in childhood.

People with this type of personality disorder have abdicated their obligations to others in many significant areas of their lives and have replaced their own needs with the needs of dependents. Causes of Dependent Personality Dependent personality disorder is one of the most common personality disorders, and it is the foundation and prototype of all personality disorders. The main cause of dependent personality disorder is that the dependence needs in early childhood are not sufficiently met, which leads to the psychological fixation in adulthood in the "oral desire period", so that a person's "psychological lactation period" is continuously prolonged, and some people are even in a state of "lifelong psychological breastfeeding".

Dependent people are often referred to by others as "not growing up", "naïve", etc.

Too dependent on others should belong to dependence, this is a psychological problem, may be related to the living environment when I was a child, lack of self-confidence is not independent enough, not more creative, it is difficult to complete a thing independently without external help, in addition to psychological self-regulation, it is necessary to take the first step bravely, do not be afraid of failure, setbacks are also a kind of growth, but also a kind of motivation, in the frustration forward the heart will be strong, slowly will become a habit, and eventually get rid of dependence on others.

Because of my own lack of ability, I am also lazy, so I rely too much on others.

Maybe it's because your heart is not strong enough, and you need to rely on others to give yourself a sense of security.

There are many reasons for this, lack of love.

I think it depends on the strength of your sense of independence. If we yearn for an independent life, we will slowly get closer to this goal, even if independence is difficult. I think if you want to be independent, you should let go of the impetuousness in your heart, start from the small things in life, reflect on yourself when you do something wrong, find the reason, and work diligently, and you will gain a sense of fulfillment.

The important thing is to follow what you really think, what you want to do, what you are interested in, and do what you are interested in.

I have experienced too little, I can't take responsibility, see more of the outside world, sometimes a lot of things need to be done independently.

Laziness is a kind of psychological manifestation of laziness, lack of progress, lack of sense of responsibility, and lack of time concept. Laziness is particularly pronounced among primary school students. In the process of quality education, it is required to cultivate students' abilities and qualities in various aspects, and laziness is like a city gate, which cannot be opened, so how can we talk about improving quality and ability?

Therefore, I am a manifestation of the laziness of elementary school students.

Well, me too, and now I want to live independently.

Do you know what you want?