Why do other people always control my thoughts? Why do you keep hitting me?

Looking back, I feel that my judgment will always be affected by other people's words.

Take the college entrance examination to choose a major as an example, I really don't know what to choose, and there is no one to negotiate, I will be influenced by the classmates around me, depending on what others choose, I will also follow what to choose, a while clothing design, a moment of cooking, a moment of computer, a moment of accounting, ......

I have considered all the students who play well around me, and I have been wandering around me and don't know how to choose. I really admire those students who are very determined in choosing their majors, how do they do it, how do they know what they want? And it won't be influenced by others.

In the end, I was influenced by the good classmates around me to choose the English major. I have never regretted my choice, so let's live life like this, and it is also an attitude of indifference.

I feel like I have never made my own decisions since I was a child, I have listened to the advice of my parents and sisters, and they have decided to do so, I was so stupid at that time, I had an idea that I hoped that someone would show me the way, saying that you take this road, this road is good, and ensure that you will have no worries about food and clothing in the future, and make money.

I'm really going to go that way, because I don't like to use my brain and I don't have a lot of exposure to things, so I want someone to show me the way. When others say what a stool model is, there is no basis for judgment, or their own position, and it's really stupid to think about it now.

When I make my own choice, someone else will add a sentence next to me, and I will completely overturn my decision, or doubt whether I made the right decision, what if it is wrong? It's so tangled.

My heart is very unfirm, until now I understand that in fact, there is no good or bad decision, it depends on how you do it, life is your own way to go, and other people's suggestions are only within the scope of his cognition, and there are many infinite possibilities ......

In the future, you should go by yourself and choose your own life, rather than giving others the right to choose and letting others choose their own lives.

As the saying goes: if you don't arrange your life, then someone will arrange your life.

For better or worse, choose what you want, stick to what you choose, and at least don't regret it. Don't wait for the last thing to say: if I hadn't listened to him then, what would have happened to me now......

It is estimated that most people will have this kind of thought, in fact, behind the choice is not willing to bear the responsibility after the choice, others help you choose when you can also say that it was someone else who chose me, do not blame me, and there is a reason to shirk their responsibility.

But life is your own after all, and you still choose to bear it yourself.

The methods are as follows: 1. It is easy to be swayed by other people's thoughts, because there is no own assertion and opinion in career and life, and it is necessary to learn to establish an independent character in the cover and search life, and to have your own opinions in case of trouble, so as not to miss the situation will be easily troubled by other people's thoughts;

2. Learn more about material lead, improve the initiative of thinking, make your thinking more mature, and believe in yourself;

3. Express your thoughts and communicate with others.

It's easy to be swayed by others, which means that you don't have your own opinions, and you're often guided to do things that make you regret it.

Coping method: Don't easily accept what others have in front of you, and then decide whether to agree to the other party after careful consideration. Try to grasp the initiative of the words as much as possible, and don't put yourself in the next trap.

A college campus is a big family. In this big family, we play the role of the object of cultivation. Teachers are our elders, so I have a lot of respect for them.

Students are like brothers and sisters, we study together, play together, help each other, and get along in harmony. Living in a group has taught me to take the initiative to be considerate and caring for others, and it has also made me stronger. I feel that I should be in charge of my own affairs, and that the most I can do is give you some advice.

When encountering things, think calmly and don't be impatient. It's not easy to promise, and if you make a promise, you have to work hard to fulfill it. Life needs to be sketched by yourself, and different ways have different lives.

In terms of studying, I think the first task of college students is to learn professional knowledge, so I am down-to-earth and not relaxed at all. I think that good study methods are very helpful for learning knowledge, so after each exam, I summarize my learning experience. Every time I see my gratifying results, I will sigh that as long as you are determined, nothing is impossible.

For our students majoring in fine arts, it is far from enough to have good knowledge in light optics books. In my spare time, I often read art books and participated in some art level competitions, and achieved good results. I believe that learning is a student's career, and this profession also requires wisdom, perseverance and perseverance.

In today's fast-paced information age, we must continue to acquire new knowledge so that we will not fall behind.

Ideologically speaking, I have gone from an ignorant little girl to an active member of the party who serves the party, and my ideological consciousness has been greatly improved. I love the motherland, love and resolutely support the party's leadership and system. I feel that a person's worth is measured by his contribution to society and others, and the reason why I joined the Chinese Party is also to strive to realize my self-worth.

I have conscientiously studied the party's various theories and worked hard to put them into practice, and I have gained a clearer understanding of the party.

Learning is important, but the cultivation of one's abilities cannot be ignored. The three years of university life have given me many opportunities to challenge myself, such as the election of the department's student council and the writing contest organized by the college. In the process of participating in these activities, I have made some good friends, learned how to deal with people, and exercised my abilities.

These experiences have taught me that there are some things that have a half chance of success if you try, and that if you don't try, the chances of success are zero.

As an active member of the party, after a year of more in-depth understanding of the Chinese party and the precipitation of relevant knowledge after the end of the party school, I could not suppress my desire to become a glorious member of the Chinese party, and wanted to make my own contributions to the Chinese party, China, and even the Chinese nation! I will also continue to study hard and strive to become a qualified member of the Chinese Communist Party as soon as possible!

And it's more sensitive.

Asking questions about everything, asking your parents about everything, will not give me a chance to be independent, and the answer that has a big impact shows that a large part of the reason for your current situation may be due to the influence of your original family, and many people will be difficult to get rid of for a lifetime.

How old are you now.

You can see that you really want to get out of this state now.

I have my own thoughts and thoughts, but the long-term habit makes you unable to take action and ask questions, I am afraid that my decisions and thoughts are wrong, and I want to ask for help, but when the outside world gives me different thoughts, I am very annoyed, I don't know who to listen to, it seems to make sense, but it is not the real me [tears].

I was afraid that my decisions and thoughts were wrong, and I wanted to ask for help, but when the outside world gave me different thoughts, I was very annoyed, and I didn't know who to listen to, and it seemed to make sense but it wasn't the real me [tears].

You can discuss it with your parents.

How to discuss the question?

No one can influence your thoughts, other people's words can only be used as suggestions, and it is you who really make the decision.

Calm. There is no way to change a fait accompli. You can get a job and do it well and take your time.

The people of the present are the same as the people of the past, and they can't afford to be profitable, Look at you in that situation, such as a team, to see if you have any attention to the right person, What kind of person is the right person, now take the right person, the belt is very smart to him, he will want to send you, can only wait until the time is ripe, will not hesitate to pull you down, so that you have no room to turn over, (this person will be very careful) If you are his friend or brother, there is no fame and fortune, you are still brothers and friends, once there is fame and fortune, Once this person is selfish, he will think of all means, (to get what he wants) such a person is called a villain, first he will slowly make you have a bad impression in this team, and then he will say everything that is beneficial to the people around you, he wants to win everyone's approval in front of people for selfishness and vanity, Usually you can feel in the conversation, you say that he will argue with you, his language is full of gunpowder, what he says is the truth, this kind of person will be superior to others, aggressive, if you do anti-erection, He will say in a loud voice that he is not good for you or that you are sick in the brain, (to influence your thoughts) (at this time, it is intolerable to say that you have touched the bottom line of your personality, and you can't give him this opportunity, this is you have to fight back, now you have to calm down, and you must make every word you say become incomprehensible, so that the other party can't find a reason to attack you, and he will retreat after a long time).