Alas, why am I so unconfident, why am I so unconfident?

I was a bit like this before I went to college, but the environment of the university affects people, let me tell you what I think, make yourself more cheerful, love to laugh, people who love to laugh are very attractive, no matter how beautiful or ugly he is, communicate with people more, no one has a lot of friends at once, there is a saying that ambition is not old, even if you are older, as long as you want to change, you can definitely change it, not to mention that you don't like your current life, you can find a few people with good personalities, chat with them more, eat, play with people with good personalities, and it will not hurt your self-esteem and self-confidence Especially those girls who can say optimistic, you will definitely talk very high, can make you confident, become able to speak, when your brain is excited, you can definitely talk more than usual, so how to have fun and how to play with them, you may think it will be difficult, when you do it, you will find that it is actually very simple, do not believe it, try it, the sense of humor can be slowly cultivated, you can observe the way others speak, look at more sketches, jokes or something, and true friends do not need more, three is a lot, the most important thing is to make a heart, give your heart to the most trustworthy friends, so that you will learn how to communicate You can casually chat with ordinary friends TV and movie handsome guys**Love marriage, live yourself, other people's things, what you usually see and feel, a lot, of course, you have to be willing to be willing to friends, don't be stingy with money or something, we often invite each other to eat and chat, sing, play ball, poker or something, take your time, believe in yourself, you must be able to let go of your heart, face or something, don't care, be optimistic, smile often, smile in the mirror every morning, live in your heart, and say *** You can do it! You're the best! I wish you success!

Because of low self-esteem and lack of self-confidence.

Ways to make yourself confident.

1.When others say about your shortcomings, you can say to yourself in your heart: I'm against it! Reason.

2.If possible, sit in the front row of the classroom during class;

3.Practice facing up to others;

4.Keep your head up and chest up when you walk, and speed up your walking;

5.Practise speaking in public;

6.Three virtues that find yourself every day;

7.Learn to praise yourself;

8.Experience the joy of success.

Is the knowledge not solid enough? For example, 1+1=2, if someone wants to say =3, you must be wrong, because 1+1 is =2.

It can only be said that you are not sure of yourself, and the most terrible enemy in the world is yourself. You have to overcome your inner fears, strengthen your exercise, communicate boldly with your classmates and teachers, think more about your strengths, and if you can't think of it, you can ask your parents, and then you will suddenly be enlightened. Man lives in this world for this breath.

You have to fight, this is the most precious. I wish you to come out of the shadow of unconfidence soon. In addition, I also found one of your advantages, you can surf the Internet, and I don't know how many people in the world don't know how many people don't know how to use computers.

Is it that you don't want to try? Afraid of being laughed at, secretly find something you think you can't do to do it, maybe you will do better than being laughed at!

Lack of self-confidence is related to one's own personality.

Ability is also a bit related.

Get in touch with the outside world.