How to feel about the misfits, withdrawn people in life?

I am the person who is considered "unsocial" and a bit "withdrawn" in my life.

This has something to do with my introverted personality, and when I'm not happy, I like to enjoy my own independent space without being influenced by the outside world. And have a lot of fun doing it!

They are absolutely independent both in life and at work.

In my opinion, on the one hand, I don't feel the point of participating in some gatherings, and on the other hand, it is also related to my low emotional intelligence. Weak expression skills, not good at talking, lack of initiative to create topics, inability to communicate for a long time, etc., are all notable characteristics.

In the eyes of my friends who are not social and withdrawn, they think that I am an absolutely free and free person, and a person with my own principles. Although he is not good at communicating, he will not refuse to come. Relatively speaking, the evaluation is quite high.

In my own opinion, there is only one rule, and that is to be yourself.

This kind of unsociable person is often a little different from ordinary people, and seems to be a little depressed. It is related to the introversion and inability to perform. In other words, it is difficult for such people to appear alive and trap all their opinions in their own world.

My mother used to say to me: Don't hold anything in your heart. But in fact, I really don't know why I just can't say it.

In fact, this type of person is often kind, unsociable and unable to express himself. Although they may seem withdrawn, they are not lonely at all. They have their own independent world, a separate space for themselves to rest and survive.

Loneliness is a person's carnival, carnival is the loneliness of a group of people, loneliness is innate, no one can avoid it, enjoy loneliness, is the real way to survive. Life is a person, there is no need to use the way of gregariousness to prove, whether to fit in or not is not the true meaning of life, people who understand life will not be obsessed with being gregarious.

Going from one group to another is the way of life of many people, and it is the persistence of many people to flow to every group that is not suitable for them. But what about being gregarious? Can you bring happiness to yourself and make yourself satisfied?

No, being gregarious only proves to be more lonely. The essence of life is not embodied by being gregarious, and only people who do not fit in understand life.

Unsociability is superficial loneliness, gregariousness is inner loneliness, and it is better to stay on the surface than to let the inner loneliness. Trying to fit in with a group that doesn't suit you can only exacerbate your loneliness. You don't understand what others say, others don't understand what you say, and chickens and ducks are the loneliest.

Therefore, in my opinion, this kind of person is a normal member of the collective, just like everyone else!

Looking at the unsociable and withdrawn people in life, I don't think you should think about this type of people, this is their character, and they don't like too many people.

How to say this, it may be a problem of personality, it may also be a problem of three views, I will not talk about the problem of personality, the problem of three views, I think if a group of people do not agree with your three views, you don't have to integrate into them, low-quality social interaction is not as good as high-quality solitude,

I think this is normal, these unsociable and withdrawn people are basically their own, and they will not affect others, it is nothing more than a lack of social interaction and friends, but now the society does not say that it is correct to socialize, everyone has their own choice of social mode, whether it is withdrawn or unsocial, there must be their own reasons.

I think it's important to be understanding and tolerant of them. Because not everyone wants to have much to do with the world, they have their own little world.

Don't look at it with colored glasses, unsociable, withdrawn people are not because they have a problem with their personality, it's just that the three views are different from us, and if they can also meet people with the same three views as themselves, they can also be gregarious.

There are two kinds of people who don't fit in in life, one is that they have a personality disorder and are not good at communicating and communicating with others, and the other is that they are too thoughtful and assertive, and this kind of person tends to be more successful people.

I think most of these people have been hurt before they are like this. I would feel that this kind of person is very worthy of my peers, and I will choose to be friends with them.

I believe that no one likes this type of person, because that kind of taciturn and very withdrawn person, others don't know how to communicate with such people, sometimes we don't want to deliberately isolate them, because they are so silent that you can't find a topic to talk to. This kind of person usually has a very, very low sense of presence in life, and sometimes you will forget that there is such a person, because he hardly speaks much, and he does not take the initiative to communicate with others. In such a situation, if you are colleagues at work, you may not have any intersection except work.

If he is your friend, the relationship will not be very close, because it is really difficult for such a person to make good friends, and everyone does not like such a person very much, because they don't know how to contact and communicate with them. In fact, such people are really very common in life, including these people themselves, they also know that their personalities may be more withdrawn, they also want to communicate with others and want to be gregarious, but because of their personality, it is really difficult to do it, because they don't know how to speak, how to contact others. And there are some people who he doesn't want to change at all, and he thinks it's good for him to be like this.

In fact, sometimes when we meet this kind of person, we don't know what to do, we don't know how to contact them, so the only thing we can do is to stay away from them. Some people may think that it is definitely wrong for you to isolate a person like this, because it is a kind of disrespect to others, but sometimes when we meet this kind of person, we don't know how to communicate with him, so can't we hide? Why is it said that things gather like and people are divided by groups?

In fact, it's such a truth, if the personalities of the two of you don't match at all, then there must be no way to be good friends. <>

If you talk about the words unsociable, taciturn, and withdrawn, the first personality that you may associate with is introversion, because many people often call themselves introverts, but in fact, they like to be lively and very caring in their bones. But this kind of excitement is limited to a few friends or family members, who don't like to get together with a large group of strangers and talk to each other, because this way can make them very insecure. Society is very chaotic, and we need to be cautious about things that are heartfelt, so let's talk about it today, in life we will often meet this kind of unsociable, taciturn people, will everyone like this kind of people?

For the word like, it is still necessary to judge according to one's own personality, for example, people who like to be lively may attract friends who are good at expressing themselves and good at creating an atmosphere, while those who are withdrawn and unsociable, they are more likely to be liked by people with the same personality. Moreover, in the process of getting along, as we get older, more people will tend to live a quiet and peaceful life, rather than lively contact, as if they are social experts, generally everyone no longer needs this superficial personality, more attention is paid to their inner needs, and want to show their most authentic independent personality. <>

Many people may think of people who are withdrawn and unsociable, and think that what they do is related to low emotional intelligence, but the real low emotional intelligence is actually no thought, decadent all day long, or rhetoric at work, but there is no actual action, this kind of person can be called a real low emotional intelligence group. For the withdrawn people, many of them have their own talents, and have their hobbies and pursuits, like literary and artistic scenes. <>

Maybe the Internet is the best way for them to speak out, because it's a place where they can be completely open without fear of being hurt by strangers. This kind of people don't want a vigorous and short-term relationship, but they want the person who appears, like a cup of old tea, with a long history.

Normal people don't like people who are unsociable, taciturn, and withdrawn, because feeling very depressed with these people will affect their mood.

Of course I don't like that, because such people are especially embarrassing to the whole atmosphere, and they are very ugly when they speak.

I don't like it very much, probably because they give me a very negative feeling, which makes me feel like I don't have any hope in this life.

First, it will be considered disappointing.

Second, don't participate in social events that you don't want to attend.

Three, it doesn't have to fit in with everyone.

Fourth, respect the collective.

What is respect for the collective, in fact, I have always felt that people who are too withdrawn in collective activities are not enough to respect the collective, of course, this is also my personal opinion, I think that since I participate in an event, then we must be happy, happy to participate, if you don't want to participate, then don't go, if you go must not spoil everyone, because a person destroys the atmosphere of a collective, which itself is not enough respect for the collective. Therefore, we must learn to respect a collective, we must learn to maintain the atmosphere created by others, and we must learn to respect the collective.

Yes, and it will also make people feel very unsociable, and at the same time, it will make people feel very alternative, and it will give people a very independent and lonely feeling, so it is easy to be isolated.

Yes, for example, everyone has a lot of fun together, and there are always some people who don't fit in, and they really don't like it.

I don't think it's going to be hated. Because there will be many people who understand them. They will also respect the way of life of such people.

Many times this kind of person is not hated by people, but people do not understand this kind of person very well, and there will be some misunderstandings about them.

Yes, because everyone thinks this person is very strange, and after a long time, they will not understand what the other party does, and they will be hated by others.

It's going to be hated. Because you are so withdrawn and unsociable, it will make people think that you are very arrogant.

will be hated by others. Because such people will make everyone feel very unsocial. There are certain flaws in the character. It's going to be a big nuisance.