How do you develop your child s self care skills?

How to develop children's self-care skills.

A child's self-confidence begins to sprout at birth. When he babbles and talks to you, stretches out his hands for a hug, and makes all kinds of dao movements for attention, his self-confidence develops. Some inadvertent actions by parents are likely to injure this young shoot, and the following practices can be a good way to take care of its growth.

Step Method:

1。Learn to guide your child correctly. Children are a blank slate, and parents need guidance to draw beautiful pictures.

I never walked to be able to walk, and the way I walked at that time may have been cute, but it was also a big step in life. We should not be afraid that the child will fall or not, because that is a process that must be passed. Maybe our parents are afraid of this and that, and do a lot of things, which just loses the opportunity to cultivate children's self-care ability.

When we get up in the morning, we will let the child get dressed by himself, don't care if he is comfortable or not, and then help him tidy up after he is dressed; Let him eat by himself, even if the rice drops on the ground, don't blame him, that is a process that must be passed in the process of growing up.

2.Start with interest, don't force it. The child always felt funny when he watched us mop the floor, and he also brought a mop to help us mop, but as a result, the ground was mopping like a painting, and we still praised him, and the result was more energetic and better than every time.

The child's brushing also starts from interest, when he saw that it was fun for us to brush his teeth, and he also clamored to brush his teeth with a toothbrush, and in this way, he developed the habit of brushing his teeth every day. If we force him to mop the floor or brush his teeth, he probably doesn't want to do it until now.

3.Less blame, more affirmation, more help. When a child washes his face and feet and makes water all over the floor, we will not blame him loudly, but teach him how to wash his face and feet. After the meal, he took the bowl to the kitchen by himself and accidentally broke it, we just told him to be careful next time.

The child is smart, and he will figure out for himself how to get better and better each time. As long as our parents guide more, interfere less, and encourage children to use their own wisdom and talents to do their best, I believe that he will do better and better.

Form a correct concept of education and promote the development of children's self-care ability. Good family education is a necessary condition for the healthy growth of children, and it is also an important guarantee for the comprehensive development of children in kindergartens. Therefore, parents must establish a correct concept of education in order to let children have a good family education.

How to develop children's self-care skills.

How to develop children's self-care skills.

The first point is to let children start from small things, when children do more small things, they will accumulate a certain amount of experience, and then parents should let their children learn more when doing things.

From an early age, let the child do what he can do by himself, such as washing some worn socks and used towels by himself, so that he can have a sense of participation in the family. As he gets older, you can arrange a little more housework for him.

Parents should let their children develop the habit of doing their own things in their daily life, such as folding quilts, washing socks, helping to wash dishes, helping to mop the floor, etc.

If the child is still young, he can often instill the view of "doing his own thing" in the form of storytelling, and parents do not do what he can do, and whenever he does it himself, he will give praise in time. Sometimes parents can pretend to be tired or uncomfortable, give their child a chance to express himself, and then praise him a lot to give him a sense of accomplishment. If the child is older, "carrots and sticks".

Carrots (encouragement, reasoning) are supplemented, and sticks (don't help him do it, force him to do it himself) is the main thing.

3. Teach children the skills of self-care, whether adults or children are in the continuous exploration-learning-learning-exploration to learn everything, so to improve the child's self-care ability, we should teach the child the skills of labor to give correct guidance, so that he can observe how the mother washes the handkerchief, how the father brushes. Get the right way out of it. 4. Gradually cultivate children's sense of self-service according to their age, characteristics and abilities.

In the syllabus, it is required to educate children according to the characteristics of the child's age and respect the requirements of children's physical and mental development. Education cannot be beyond the child's capabilities. Giving them tasks that children cannot complete without the joy of success is easy to have an inferiority complex and lose confidence.

For example, if you ask your child to wash a shirt at the beginning, it will be very difficult for your child to try it, and he will become bored and afraid of doing laundry, and may not want to do laundry again. If you give a handkerchief to your child according to his age, he may feel very relaxed, and with the praise of adults, the child tastes the joy of success, thus stimulating the child's interest in self-service. 5. The cultivation of children's self-care ability should be persistent, and the formation of a habit is not an overnight thing, we need to do it every day, always do it, and persevere.

This is especially true for the cultivation of children's self-care ability. We can't let our children take care of themselves today, and tomorrow we will do everything for them when they feel that they are too hard or too troublesome. This requires patience and perseverance to make educating children our business.

6. Families work closely together to cultivate children's self-care abilityThe current educational philosophy of our kindergarten is to let children learn to live, learn to learn, and learn to be a person. Under the guidance of advanced reasoning, parents need to cooperate closely, unify their thinking, unify education, and jointly cultivate children's self-care ability. When children learn to take care of themselves, half of their life will be successful, and they will lay a solid foundation for entering this highly competitive society in the future, and they will be able to face life and be strong and self-reliant in society.