After the confession, I was rejected, is this a stain on my life?

Updated on psychology 2024-03-03
23 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    What kind of stain is this, but in the future, you must remember that girls should be reserved, and you can't easily show to boys, and you have to wait for someone who likes you to confess to you. The vast majority of experience shows that marriages formed by men chasing women are more stable than marriages formed by women chasing men. In addition, you don't want to think about the person who rejected you anymore, no matter how much you like it, a woman's shame and self-esteem will overcome this liking, how can you always think about a person who has rejected you.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Your honesty should be a plus. But in today's society, you are at a loss by doing this, and if you meet a man you like in love in the future, it depends on the personality of the other party, as long as you really love him, it is best not to mention it. If you run into him again in the future, you should treat him as an ordinary friend, because love is a matter of two people, and he doesn't have you in his heart, and it's useless if you like it.

    Cheer up, at the age of 21, you will definitely be able to meet someone who likes you.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    No, when you were young, who didn't like someone else?

    You have to treat him as a friend, just an ordinary friend, and you will get your true love, and as for him, it will be better to stay in the memory.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Hehe, I'm similar to you, I've had a crush on a girl for more than three years. But I don't even have the courage to confess. This can't be regarded as a stain.,The person you like will miss it if you don't pursue it.,Just like me.,It's only a day later than that brother.,I'm going to confess the next day.,As a result, the brother was a day ahead of me.,Doesn't it become someone else.,I still like her silently.,But what's the use.,I'm in favor of your approach.。

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    No, what you liked may have been him before, but now, when you see him, you may feel less intense, and everything is light.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    What you can't get is always the most precious and unforgettable! Time is always written or something, whether light or thick, he will always be in your heart! But what is there!

    If you have it with love, how much can you remember in your life? Walking through the flower season, walking through the rainy season, walking through confusion, ushering in is often sunny! Clear sea and clear sky!

    I wish you all the best in life, and a beautiful mood is always around.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    It can be said that most people have this experience. What a stain on this? It's just a small setback in a person's life. I want to open a point.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Like my friend, I always advise her to look away, he is just your fantasy ideal boyfriend, and if you really get in touch with you, you will find that it is not him who you are obsessed with, give up the obsession in your heart, and embrace your own forest.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    You just haven't met someone who loves you right now. As the saying goes, "If you can't find someone you love, find someone who loves you!" "Everyone has their own secrets in their hearts. You bury it in your own heart!

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    During the ignorance period, at the age of broken melons, I can't let go of my heart, and I have to let go of the surface, otherwise I will be hurt even more, each other.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    There is no grass at the end of the world, you have to believe in yourself, don't command the people in front of you, look around, there are too many good men!! You will find which one belongs to you.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Sort of experience! Not a stain.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Since someone has a girlfriend, let him rest assured, learn to let go slowly, and then find someone who loves him and lives happily!!

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    I don't think so, is this all normal? It doesn't matter if it's dirty or not.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    was rejected, I planned all the confession process at the time, and called a lot of friends, I was expecting a good result, but I didn't expect him to refuse directly and indifferently.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    I once confessed to a woman, and I was rejected, and I felt very uncomfortable and embarrassed at that time.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    I was rejected, but later I learned that in fact, the other party has always felt for me and has always liked me, but he never said it because of his face. Later, after a while when I got a little closer to the other boys, he took the initiative to confess to me.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    I was rejected, and I felt embarrassed when my face was flushed, but they gave me a lot of face and rejected me in a very tactful tone, and then they still treated me as a friend.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    I haven't been rejected, probably because I'm less timid, even if I have a crush on someone, I didn't say it, and it's a pity to think about it now, maybe the result will be different.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    I had the experience of a confession since I was a child, but it still succeeded, and now the two have been together.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Of course, my confession was rejected, and I was rejected three times by the same girl, and the sadness of being rejected did make people feel a little desperate, but I didn't leave myself with regrets.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    I did get rejected, but I think it's normal, because rejection means that the other person is not interested in us.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Yes, for most people, I may have encountered the same headache as me, that is, how to re-confess to the person I like. What we are afraid of is not that the other party doesn't like us, but what we will do after we confess that the other party refuses. Don't worry here you can get a little useful.

    First of all, let's not worry about what will happen if the other party refuses, that can only show that you don't like the other person so much, yes. If you like each other, I think that feeling is strong and can't extricate yourself, then what should I do if the other party refuses, at this time we should calm down and think about whether the other party is the type they like? Do you really like each other?

    How much do you like each other? I think as long as you think about this issue, you will think through a lot of questions, you will know whether you dare to confess to the other party, I think you will not be afraid of the other party's rejection, you should want to see the other party more moved by seeing your confession, happy to hear your confession, these may be enough for you. The person you like is happy because of some of your actions, do you still care about the other person and feel sad about the rejection of you.

    Secondly, if you already understand from the above or yourself, the other person is the type you like, and you also clearly know that you like the other person and want to be with the other person. My suggestion, this place is the point, don't confess you heard it right, maybe you will ask why don't you confess since you like the other party? Wouldn't that be without a chance to be with each other?

    Yes, there is nothing wrong with your idea at all, but you should have tried to be rejected after confession sometimes, and you may be discouraged and afraid to confess after being rejected many times, then you can try not to confess at this time Since the other party is the person you like, you can start from knowing the other party and slowly cultivate feelings until it comes naturally. Among them, you enjoy the feeling of being with the other person, and the other person is also enjoying every day you accompany him, and in the end, you will find that whether you confess or not does not affect whether you will be together or not.

    Finally, most of them may still want to confess, after all, this is this love, and they want each other to have a good memory. What I want to talk about here is that since the confession must be sincere, let the other party see the sincerity, the key is sincerity, show your intentions: and then tell her very frankly that you only want her to be happy and happy, and tell her that if you don't agree to you, you will be sad, but you will still bless her.

    Then wait for her to say, and when you wait, you will feel like you are about to be sentenced to death (pro-person or side-model experience).

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