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Women can easily let go, but you're not that kind of person. And don't just look at the superficial phenomenon, having a new girlfriend does not mean forgetting the old love, but burying it. People have to be realistic, it can't be too long to take out an old relationship, maybe he is not small, he wants to start a family, if there is a suitable one, there is no need to give up, there is no need to waste too much for something that is impossible to recover.
You may also want to use new feelings to get rid of old feelings more quickly. After all, none of you kept the original vow, and there is no point in mentioning it again, because everything ends with the end of the relationship. Whether it's perfect or not.
So you think about the past again, the past that you say emotionally, but as long as you analyze it a little, it seems meaningless, just a performance that is not free and easy. You are in the past tense, you are not in a position to ask others to follow what you think is the rule of separation, how he has nothing to do with you, and it seems a bit of a masochistic thing for you to be sad or disappointed or angry because of it. Of course, people are emotional animals, and feelings are naturally expressed, and it is not easy to restrict, but I still hope that you can live a little more chic, a little more rational, and a little more relaxed.
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Stinky men are like this, women like a person will remember it for a long time, but men don't.
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I'm the opposite of you, my girlfriend did the same thing, or it varies from person to person, don't say all men.
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Maybe it's the nature of men! Innate! Just like women have long feelings, men are always reluctant to waste too much time on feelings, they always feel that there are a lot of things to do, and they will also find feelings very upsetting, so they will forget as soon as possible, and it is easy to let go!
Alas! There's no way to do it, that's a man! In fact, if women can pay more attention to other things like men, then they can be like men, and they will not be easily troubled by feelings anymore!
Of course, it's easier said than done, but as long as you work hard, I believe you can do it! Also, it is necessary to believe that time can dilute everything!
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It's okay for a man to create dozens of offspring a year – can a woman?
From an evolutionary point of view——
In order to reproduce, men must constantly create offspring to continue the family.
So it's easier for men to build or forget a relationship than women.
Matter determines consciousness - tens of thousands of years of physiological evolution have been decided.
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Now women know that it is not the number of men who are down.
And I don't think about thinking about my own things.
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It's normal, maybe he hid you in a corner for good memories, and the appearance of that girl just took your place in his heart, added.
A little brilliance! Life is originally realistic, and now the mountains and seas oath, the sea and the rocks are rotten......It's all fake, it's what people imagine. Let's be realistic, you are the same, when another one appears, he will only remember that there was one.
He is just hiding in the corner of his heart, slowly reminiscing about ......
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Now that we're separated, why bother thinking about it?
Why torture yourself with things that have already passed?
You have your own new life, you have to pay attention to yourself, why do you always look at other people's lives?
Don't be so stupid women, don't embarrass women!
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Grandma's is now a woman.
Men still have a headache for not being able to find a good woman.
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It varies from person to person
Not all men are like that
Besides, maybe he was also forced to be helpless
It's not enough to live with love, you have to think about what reality is
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Sending this kind of texting, and deleting all messages to leave you in order to make yourself strong. It shows that it is actually difficult for him to answer back to you like a "friend".
He won't be able to bear it if it goes on like this.
He either forgot his feelings, or he had to do it because he couldn't forget his feelings.
The feelings that a man really devotes himself to will not be forgotten, because there is only one person that a man loves most in his life.
In terms of a positive attitude towards life, this is the right thing to do. People cannot always live in the past, or in the illusion of tenderness, but must face the reality and move forward towards a new future. Your boyfriend is a responsible person and will not drag the relationship along, which is good for you and him.
In doing so, he is giving himself a chance to live again, and he is also giving you a chance. Maybe if you think about it, you will understand what a lot of what he left for you. Men don't give 100% of their feelings, but they can read them in action.
The person who loses him in life and makes room for him should be yourself. Take courage.
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Maybe he wants to be unable to contact you anymore, afraid that one day there will really be no way to forget you... What happens if you can't get the result together, I think you'll understand ...
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This has nothing to do with men and women, only mentality and love motivation.
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I don't think he wants to be sad and broke up with me a few years ago, and I still can't forget it.
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He couldn't forget it all, he remembered it all.
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Those who forget quickly are not really invested, and those who are really invested will have traces in their hearts no matter how long they are. Men and women are different, women forget a relationship, first pain, and then slowly think about it. And men, at first, are free and easy, and slowly begin to be sad, and the cycle may be longer than that of girls.
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True forgetting can't be done. Unless you don't fully give your heart in the first place.
After breaking up, only time can wash everything and bring yourself out of the pain. But it doesn't mean that you can forget it, it's just that you can fade it and bury it deep in your heart. Sometimes, the cold suddenly stings and makes you feel sad.
As we get older, we are more and more able to restrain ourselves, but the pain in our hearts will always be there.
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To make love have a long-term and tenacious vitality, it takes both parties to be careful.
Patience and careful management can be maintained.
When it comes to making it long-lasting, it seems that it is quite profound, but once you understand the truth, it is actually very simple, and it can be summed up as:
Understanding, understanding and trust ...
These three factors are indispensable, is the essence of all love secrets, all the secrets that can make love have long-term vitality are contained in it, whether it is love or marriage, as long as both parties have these three necessary conditions for each other, then it will definitely be a wish.
Here's a little trick:
If you want to make it last, you need to keep it fresh from time to time, that is, you need to find some fatal "killers" to deal with each other's impatience, long-term sensory numbness, aesthetic fatigue, etc., and can quickly deepen and thicken the earliest feelings in love at the fastest speed, and transform them into "compound" feelings that are like family affection and depend on each other. Only love with this kind of affection is the strongest and most long-lasting, and it will become more and more durable and unbreakable with the passage of time.
When one day, you suddenly find that you are so happy, after careful consideration, this is to realize that the original understanding, understanding and trust have long come to your side, they have been silently accompanying you, when you found out that they exist, this suddenly realized: it turns out, they are not only the patron saint of love, but also indicate the true meaning of life...
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