How to understand being down to earth and living in the moment?

Don't have too high expectations for the future, live every moment of the present in a down-to-earth manner, and maybe all the problems will be solved.

Writer Yang Daxia Yang Ke sent a message, doing a good job now is the best.

Because the environment in which we were born cannot be changed, everyone has their own different lives, so when you envy others, remember that we are different from each other.

But when we want to be the same as others, then we should consider where the gap between ourselves and the other party is, and how to shorten the gap, not to be ambitious, but to lay a solid foundation in a down-to-earth manner, so that we can have the ability to be the same as the other party. So what should we do!

Elevate yourself. 1.First of all, we must recognize ourselves, analyze our strengths and weaknesses, give full play to our strengths, and change our weaknesses.

2.The mentality of treating things, the mentality determines everything, build yourself into a serious person, no matter how big or small, you are down-to-earth and take it seriously.

3.Go all out and try not to back down.

But how many people can do the above, but everyone wants the best life for themselves, and who is not willing to change. But change is really hard, and we need to change slowly.

The basis of change is to strive to live in the present, so that you really know in your heart that the present is the most important, because yesterday you have died, tomorrow you have not come, only the present you are alive.

So let's talk about what the present is!

The roads are steep.

For example, when we are eating, then we think about eating well, how to eat, and don't think about other things while eating, so that we live in the present, only focus on the current things, and don't think about the things that are irrelevant to the present.

How to do a good job in the present is to eat with peace of mind, feel the taste of rice when chewing with your teeth, and slowly experience every action of teeth chewing.

I don't think it's easy, but it's really hard to do. Because our hearts keep running and can't be still. So what we want is to persevere, work hard to live well now, live in the present!

I believe that many people in the workplace have been entangled: while doing a job they don't like, they are "busy" thinking about life all day long. In fact, the workplace does not need so much "inner drama".

In a word: don't dwell on those who don't, work hard and live in the moment is the right solution.

It is true that the number of universities has increased dramatically after the expansion of enrollment, and the gold content of undergraduate students is far less than it was before. In addition, the employment situation is becoming increasingly severe, and many factors such as college students' eyes and skills are low. The reason why this article has been widely circulated on the Internet is that it has resonated with many college students, and it has also inspired many college students who are about to graduate and look for a job.

After reading the article, I felt a lot, and I also saw a lot of common problems from my own perspective. I think this is a common question among our contemporary college students, and it is something we need to pay attention to.

In my opinion, college students should avoid this kind of problem of low eyesight. Seeing our own current capabilities, things don't happen overnight. It's like what the article says: put away your inner drama and keep your feet on the ground.

On campus, I think the school should pay more attention to the link between students and the society, do more internships, give students more opportunities to contact the society, realize themselves as soon as possible, and realize the society, so as to develop better.

The first thing to do is to live in the moment! Only by living in the present can we recognize reality, recognize ourselves, and live in a down-to-earth manner. Any castle in the sky, as beautiful as it is, is illusory.

Your question exposes the contradiction between your dreams and reality. While you are sketching beautiful dreams in your heart, you have to adapt to the environment and be a person who conforms to the public opinion. When you ask, you still haven't realized what you want most to overcome all the difficulties and obstacles that may arise and work hard to achieve your dreams?

Or do you want to succumb to the public and be your ordinary self?

The realization of any dream can only be achieved with hard work! There is no casual success, and there is a history of blood and tears behind any excellence.

However, even as an ordinary person, I have to face all kinds of troubles and difficulties every day.

Either way, it's up to you to be who you want to be!

Xu Junjie. The boyfriend in the comic takes the child, standing in such a shallow fish pond, surrounded by a bunch of fish fry fantasizing about catching big fish, in fact, his behavior is meaningless, first of all, the shallow water of the fish pond is destined to have no big fish, and he should think rationally after recognizing this fact, live in the present, if you want to catch big fish, first, raise yourself, second, go to a deeper fish pond to catch. The process of obtaining a big fish must be down-to-earth, and it is possible to move forward step by step.

The so-called "down-to-earth" I think on the surface can refer to the fact that human beings live on the ground most of the time, no matter how good the person is and how much he has achieved, he cannot fly in the sky and still step firmly on the ground with his feet. From a deeper level, "down-to-earth" means that if a person wants to succeed, he must take every step step by step to lay the foundation for future success.

"Down-to-earth" is very important in life, it is related to a person's ultimate achievement, and it can also change a person's life. For example, there was a young businessman who exchanged a paper clip for a villa. He saw the news of the villa on the Internet, and although he liked the villa very much, he could not pay the expenses because of his poor family.

But he didn't give up because of this, but established the direction of his efforts and then moved towards the goal of the confession in a down-to-earth manner, at first he chose a large paper clip that he thought was more distinctive, exchanged it for a pencil, and then exchanged the pencil for a delicate clip, and then used this clip to exchange for a candle ......In this way, after each exchange, he became more confident in buying a villa, because his funds became more abundant. But he didn't get complacent and deceived himself in the long run, he realized that there was still a long way to go before he actually bought the villa, so he kept exchanging it with his feet on the ground, food, cars, ......In the end, step by step towards the goal of buying a villa, of course, at the end of the story, he successfully achieved his goal and got the villa he wanted. It can be seen that no matter how big the ideal can be, the premise is that you are not anxious and greedy, can persevere, step by step, down-to-earth, do not accumulate steps to thousands of miles, do not open your eyes to accumulate small streams can not become rivers and seas.

The most terrible thing is accumulation, and countless little things add up to unimaginable big things.

Therefore, it can be seen the importance of accumulation, and the premise of ensuring accumulation all the time is to lower the figure, bit by bit, step by step for their own ideals in a down-to-earth struggle, towards their own ideals to blow the horn of attack, to believe, pay will always have a harvest, the decimal is afraid of the long plan, one day will achieve the goal!

Do things need to be down-to-earth, only down-to-earth can do things well, three days of fishing and two days of drying nets will eventually achieve nothing, everything must be done, just say that it is useless not to do, things must fall into pure books and real actions, just like the law, there must be a law to follow, there must be a law to follow, law enforcement must be strict, violations must be investigated, the prince violates the law, the same crime with the people, everyone is equal before the law, and people are also equal in personality, no one can infringe on the personal dignity of others, nor allow others to infringe on their own personal dignity. Without execution, thinking about things is equivalent to a piece of paper, and everything has the ability to execute to be effective.

Things need to be done, and if you don't do what you can do well, it becomes impossible, and if you do the impossible, you may become possible, in a word: everything is possible. Life needs to be down-to-earth, and down-to-earth will have a good life.

As the saying goes: no pain, no gain. As the saying goes: people are not rich without windfalls, and horses are not fertile without night grass. There will be no pie in the sky, be a simple person and do things in a down-to-earth manner, and you will definitely succeed. Come on!

Put your hope in someone else and you will feel helpless; Put your hopes in yourself, and you won't be distracted. Brother, the business journey is stormy, I hope you are down-to-earth, step by step, and strive to one day no longer look at other people's faces. Be your own boss!

Only a down-to-earth person can say: The road is under my feet.

Perhaps the starry sky is a wish, and the field is the sacred realm that can be closest to a dream; Perhaps looking up is a "luxury", and the pedal is a tool for action. I believe that only by keeping your feet on the ground can you reach the gorgeous and colorful starry sky.

To be a man, one is to be kind. It doesn't have to be vigorous and upright, but it must be kind and sincere! The second is happiness.

There is no such thing as an absolutely happy person, only a heart that refuses to be happy. The third is to be practical. Be a down-to-earth person, do things in a down-to-earth manner, and work harder to have more chances of success.

Fourth, integrity. To be upright, to do things decently, to sit upright, walk straight, walk right, upright is the foundation of the world.

Be happy every day, work when you should work, and go to work when you should go to work.

First of all, you have to stand on your feet, and there must be support behind you, so you have to be sincere in your treatment of friends. (Of course, the actual analysis of the actual occasion is for those true friends, and the villain should not be bothered.) ）

Then, to be based means to be capable, and to have the ability to gain a foothold in society, it is not enough to just talk and not act. You may need to have a wealth of knowledge and expertise in one area. (In this society, in fact, a diploma is very important, so if you have the ability, you should try to get a high degree.) ）

Secondly, we must persevere, forge ahead, and endure hardships. We should also be tolerant of others, turn big things into small things, and turn small things into small things, don't be careful, but don't be afraid either. will solve problems, but also ask questions.

The most important thing is to maintain a good mindset and a healthy body and mind. The body is the capital of all wealth. (I think so.) ）

This is my general answer to some of the qualities you should have in society, because I don't know your specific situation. I don't know if you're a student or an adult who has gone into society. If you can do two or three of the above, it will be enough.

In fact, what I said above is some formatted things, and there will always be many changes in real life. How to gain a foothold in society, each individual has a personal opinion. What to do, the biggest difficulty is not firm in yourself, so you have to believe in yourself, don't forget your own nature when you encounter difficulties, you should be what you are, don't force yourself to change, and don't blindly imitate others.

Isn't there a saying that says? Go your own way, let me not go. What you will become in the future, as long as you believe in yourself, you will not regret it. As long as you have paid, you will not leave regrets.

Many times, people like to reminisce about the past: regret how I didn't grasp the time, how I didn't grasp the opportunity, if I were asked to go back to a certain day, I would definitely try, I would definitely do better, maybe I would succeed now; Then, people look to the future: from today onwards, I will study hard, work hard, persevere, and I will definitely gain something.

This is what is often referred to as "flag-setting".

Time is in a hurry, it is easy to slip through our fingers, we can't save the yesterday that has passed, nor can we predict the tomorrow that has not yet come, the only thing we can control is today! Don't think about the time that has been wasted, and don't fantasize about the beauty of the future, only by basing yourself on the present and grasping every minute of the present, can you succeed and make your future self proud.

Based on the present, it is not just talking, it requires your efforts, practice, and you need to show your original intention, confidence and determination when laziness strikes. People have bad roots, laziness is people's bad roots, is the biggest stumbling block on people's road, and those who are full and proud are the ones who kick laziness far away. All reasons not to fight are excuses!

Life in the world, living is the present, the past and the future are illusory, don't think too much, struggle is your only goal, everything, you need to struggle to get.

A person who does not struggle is like a soulless shell, without the eyes of God, empty and confused.

A person who does not struggle does not have a sound personality, will never be able to understand the meaning of life, and will walk in the world in vain!

If you want to base yourself on the current society, your own hard core power is indispensable, followed by the influence of various external factors.