I wrote to him that I had a crush on him for a long time, what would he think, would he think I was

No, what he will think depends on what he thinks of you, this problem cannot be solved by others, and only this person can answer this question if you understand it.

Of course not.,The current society has long been equal between men and women.,Of course, you have to take the initiative for some of the boys who are more wooden and you like.。

Generally speaking, it probably won't.

First of all, no matter who you are, you will feel a little proud of being liked by others.

The second thing is to think about how he feels about you

No.. Tell you. He will be pleased.

What's so upset about being chased by a girl.

I'm going to die happily ever after.

But whether you say yes or not depends on your charm and hard work.

The first thing that comes to the boy's mind is not the question of frivolity or not.

Whether he thinks that way or not depends on what kind of person he is. The frivolous character is not going to insist"Long-lasting"of the crush.

In fact, what many boys are most worried about is whether there will be a day when they break up, and this is only for people who are emotional.

Write it, it's nothing remarkable.

Writing is an explanation to yourself, and if you write and he accepts it, that is the best ending.

If he refuses, it's nothing, after all, he hasn't started, and his heart won't hurt very much.

After the time passes, you will meet the right person at the right time.

Yes, specific problems are analyzed.

Since you confess in person and are afraid that the words will not reach the meaning and affect the girl's opinion of you, it is better to write a letter first, organize what you want to say, as long as there are no mistakes in grammar, and then ask her to meet, preferably in a scenic spot or park, sincerely chat with the girl about topics that are of interest to both parties, in various topics, especially to show concern for the girl's life, girls, most of them are birds, and when she feels cared for, she will begin to accept you. Note that this kind of communication time can not be too long, if the time is too long, first, the girl's parents will not be at ease (sometimes the other party's parents have a good impression of you is also critical), secondly, if you say too much, it is better to leave room for aftertaste to both parties, so that it is easier to make an appointment next time, at this time you take out the prepared letter and give it to the girl when you say goodbye, ask her to read it when she gets home, and then leave some time to observe the girl's reaction, if in the next few days the girl will show you that you are closer than before, there will be a play, otherwise there will be no play, Don't force others to do emotional things, there is no grass at the end of the world, and it is easy to find something that suits you. I wish you success!

Yes, you can also draw some cute vignettes on the letter that represent your mood, and the girl will accept it.

It's not bad to send e-maill, I found you some small **, put it in e-maill!

Yes, yes. But to really show sincerity, you still have to confess it in person, be bold! It will make the girl feel like you are a reliable guy.

Of course, you can write a letter. Write boldly, don't hesitate! In this regard, it is better for men to take the initiative. Good luck!

Personally, I think that writing a letter to confess is a countermeasure, and it will be much more sincere to say in person, even if you are very nervous, it doesn't matter, maybe it will show your attention and caution.

It can be expressed in a way that you think is subtle!

Don't write.

It's insincere.

Let's just say it.

Make an appointment to have a meal together or go to a place together, by the way, writing a letter is too earthy,,, feelings should be naturally revealed!! Like a cloud!!

It depends on your age, if you are still studying, stop for a while, and then confess to her when you have a career in the future, and have a good life together.

It depends on how mentally prepared you are, whether you are not prepared for anything, and don't write about it.

Go up and tell her, "Let's find a time to have dinner together."

It should be noticeable that you will often sneak a peek at you.

Then tease you, or then say something strange to you.

Maybe frivolous boys make people feel insecure.

But if you are tempted, it is also very reliable!

Inner entanglement,Gradually become calm.,If this girl can make you calm.,If you don't succeed, you have to chase it.。

PS: If the person is not you, it is not interesting. It is not easy for a frivolous boy to fall in love with a frivolous girl, and a girl's calmness and wisdom are the most beautiful.

A frivolous man,It seems that he will chase directly.。。

Otherwise, it's just a matter of fear. That's not frivolous. It's not steady. Yes and no direct.

How is your relationship with her?。。 If you are not cooked. Forget it.

It's not that I confessed to her... Then she agreed to talk again...

In fact, the confession was after falling in love. It's just unspoken love. Got it? If you confess to her like this, 90% of them will be rejected. Cultivate feelings first ... ok？

If you have to write it... To show your confidence and charm ... Be hopeful for the future.

It's better to say something that he can't say to you ... For example:"I definitely won't delay you, and if you meet someone better than I did to you, you can leave at any time, and I won't blame you.

This gives you the opportunity to socialize. The key is to grasp it yourself. After all, there's still a 10% chance.

Good luck!

I like you very much, I don't want to let this relationship pass because I graduated, I will love you and spoil you, accept me, okay?

Simple and clear, confession and promise.

For example, that girl's name is Chen Jing.

A note: Front: Chen Jing.

Opposite: I like you. Because of graduation, I don't have much time with you, and I hope you can accept me. Even if you only give me one chance. Chen Jing, you are mine!!

First of all, analyze it, you have a crush on him = he knows = he flirts with you = he doesn't like you but likes to take advantage of you = male hormones. I'll just say it, don't be surprised.

It should be, let's not talk about success or not, after so many years, if you don't confess, don't you regret it? A few years of youth are dedicated to a girl who doesn't know if she loves her or not.

Again, you seem to care a lot about academic qualifications, but in fact, it really doesn't matter, you already have a stable job, which is good, and now there are a lot of undergraduates, nothing.

Definitely. If you love someone, your education is not too important. It's her who loves her. You may think that your education is low, but that doesn't mean you're incompetent!

Wow! I haven't been in touch for two years! If you like, why don't you contact her???

In fact, maybe you have a lot of good girls around you! You've been separated from her for so long, she may not be the same person she was then! (i.e. there have been changes).

So, don't confess!

Of course I confess.

Whether it can be successful or not depends on fate.

But if you don't confess, you'll regret it for the rest of your life!

Good luck!

Since you love him, let him know and say it, so that he can be worthy of himself and have no regrets.

As for the result, it doesn't matter. If there is no fate, then bless the person you love, watching him happy, happy, maybe sad, but it is also another kind of happiness.

Either way, you should show your heart.

Because that's the only way she'll know.

You don't say just in case she likes you too.

And like you, I dare not say it.

Didn't you miss it?

How do you know if you don't try?,As for whether you will go to your hometown.,It's going to be discussed slowly after being together.,Is the problem solved by two people together.。

Just write about the good times you have together, the interesting things around you, and only the shelf life of friends is the longest

If you don't want to confess, just talk about what you see and feel every day.

I had something like that, and I ended up being really miserable.

There is a choice: start now, boldly chase her!! It's better than never doing it! (I regret it now).

I've read a lot of psychology and it's useless to spread the book!

In fact, we are deceived by the illusion of the world, and we have lost ourselves!

We don't know our "heart".

The best way to do this is to read the books of Buddhism: such as the Four Holy Sorrows, etc., Buddhism is the clearest way to explain the human heart.

Look at Taoist books, too.

The important thing is to understand the truth in order to change us.

Believe in yourself to change! If you don't believe it, of course you can't change it! Say words of encouragement to yourself every night!

It must be helpful to you!!

You can write her a poem first!

to make you understand my feelings.

It's been a long, long time since that happened.

Even if a lot of time passes.

And you smile beside me.

But I can't say it after all.

That's all there is to it.

I never had any doubts.

Even if I can only see a tiny future.

Firmly believe that one day the truth will be found.

Give me some more time.

Like this in a safe time.

I want to stay with you even more.

And I'm afraid to let you see everything.

Distance yourself from you.

But I feel the side of your face.

It's like it's broken, and I want to protect it.

Makes me want to get closer to you.

You can understand me, right?

No matter who you are, there will be times when you want to escape

But if that's the case, nothing can start

But I will].

i'm calling for a chance

Lingering on the lips all the time].

Finally, I can't hide it anymore].

I don't want to lose you

So many precious moments with you].

If you want to give up, please trust me].

I'm no longer confused].

My heart for you will never change

Try to forget her; Teach you a few ways:

1.It is not easy to forget a person who has a weight in his heart. But it's not impossible, play more with friends, find more fun to do, read more humorous books... Relax yourself·· Watch and write comedies·· Definitely forget... Hehe.

2.I remember the first time I fell in love, when we were apart, she said to me: If you want to forget a relationship, you have to start another relationship, almost ten years have passed, it feels right, and you still have to face it!

Not everyone in this world understands your love for her, does it? If you love her very much, all you can do is tell her that this is a haven for you at all times, maybe she won't come back to you at all, maybe you will comfort her when she comes back to you!

Just use this emotion to find someone you didn't dare to contact before, and maybe you will succeed! No one can do the best with relationship problems!

3.Time will make you forget her, it is better to keep yourself very busy every day, it is better not to live in the same city with her, it is better for you to make some new friends, maybe which one is your favorite in the future. In fact, you don't have to forget her, because the more you want to forget, the more you want to forget, you will subconsciously think of her again.

You can go and remember her little by little, when you recall, you will feel that you are very happy, but if you recall a little bit every day, every day a little bit, you will find that your memory is slowly not remembered, just like we eat three meals a day, sometimes even what you eat in the morning, you will forget. Don't go out of your way to forget someone, because then you will love her more than before, it's easy to love someone, it's hard to forget someone, it's harder to really hate someone. You just have to leave the forgetting you want to her to time to solve, it's okay, after a long time, you won't forget it.

4.You love her! Sometimes, giving up is for a better choice! If you love her, why forget! Go for it and don't let yourself regret it!

Even if you love her very much, if you want to forget, !That's just a matter of time! Keep yourself busy.

Listen**, and remember not to be sad. Go out and mingle!

Since you've missed it, don't look back and remember a line from the movie. That's fate. Maybe it's really just a passing by, after all, there are still some good marks left in the memory.

Fill out your life and divert your attention whenever you think about her. Change the environment and try to make yourself happy. For example, participate in some activities that you like, talk to your classmates often, or find a way to vent your feelings, play basketball, run, etc.

The first love is really the most unforgettable, and I won't forget it even if I am in the end. So you don't have to force yourself to forget this memory, as well as her, the more you want to forget the memory, the more profound the memory will be. Go with the flow, go over and look at her quietly when you think of her, and if she likes you too, I'm sure she'll feel it.

I don't know if you believe in fate, if you are a couple, no matter how many setbacks you encounter, no matter how many difficulties you experience, you will eventually come together.

I wish you happiness and hope she is happy.

Looks like you still can't let go of this relationship, right? Then it is recommended that you cherish it, you can take a two-way approach, you can reach an agreement, act secretly during the lover, and then the two of you must work hard and get ahead at the same time, so that it is good for the future lover road.