How do I get along with my roommates when I study in the U.S.?

Are you and your roommate both male or female? I hope you can add a little bit of clarity so that it can help you.

Personally, I feel that black men in the United States are relatively easy to get along with.

In fact, the simplest sentence is to be polite and courteous, neither humble nor arrogant.

But it's a bit harder to do.

First, be polite.

Daily face work should be done, meet hi, have nothing to do with shot talk or something. It's all very simple, as long as you don't step on a landmine (like accidentally asking, how old is your wife).

Second, there are knots.

Be helpful and be kind to others with moderation. A lot of times when you do too much, they just think you're cheap and won't have a good impression of you. This is often the case among Chinese who have just arrived in the United States. So sometimes just ask him if he wants to help, and you don't have to reach out to do it.

Third, not humble.

Be a dignified person, and if you don't like to do something, you have to bring it up with the other party. It's okay to accommodate roommates appropriately, but blindly accommodating can only make the other person kick their nose in the face. (There used to be a Chinese girl who went to study abroad, and the kind with a softer personality was always bullied.)

One day he couldn't bear it anymore and made a big fuss. After that, his American roommates treated her very kindly. Hehe, sometimes Americans are quite cheap.

You didn't tell me what exactly the problem you were having, and I don't know if it helped you after all this I said above. In fact, as long as you are doing what you usually do, your roommates will naturally have a good impression of you after a long time, and when you can go out for drinks together, you can talk about anything. My black buddies are very nice, very honest and enthusiastic.

I've been messing with them for more than a year, and we both went together when one of my buddies' sister got married, and we taught them how to make a hole. To be honest, popularity depends on mixing everywhere, take your time and don't worry, I'm sure you will get along well with your roommates.

Many college students are living in accommodation, and there will be a lot of problems in accommodation, especially a child who is studying abroad, who is not familiar with life in other places, and the only reliance is on their classmates and boardmates, which requires us to be able to handle the relationship with boardmates. In getting along, we must be tolerant, give and understand, so that the relationship will become very good and get along will become more harmonious. One:

Learning to tolerate everyone's temperament is different, which requires us to be tolerant of each other in getting along. If the other party has something that you don't like, you can choose to tolerate, only if you tolerate, your mood will be calm, and you won't count too much. If you are not tolerant, it will lead to quarrels, which will make the relationship with your roommate very poor, and you will be very depressed in the long run.

So in getting along,Tolerance is a very important existence, only tolerance, mutual harmony, the relationship will be better.

2: Learn to pay in getting along with people, only when you pay, others will feel your good and respond to your pay. If you are a selfish person, then your roommate will not be good to you either, because people get along with each other and only give will be rewarded.

In the process of getting along, people are very disgusted with those who are selfish, because people get along with each other with their heartsOnly when you give sincerely, you will feel warm, so that the relationship with your roommate will be better.

Three: Learn to understand that cultural differences are different in every place, and the education of each family is also different, which requires you to be able to understand some of the behaviors of your roommatesOnly when you understand will you find the other person good。No matter what the other person does, you will be very receptive.

If you don't understand, some of the other person's behaviors will make you disgusted, and in the long run, it will lead to conflicts and make the relationship with your roommate strained, so understanding is also very important.

If you want to have a good relationship, you must pay first, and only if you pay, you will get real friendship and life will become better.

First of all, we must be tolerant, cheerful, good at communication, accept each other's habits and culture, and of course, politeness and respect are still very important.

First of all, it is very important to know which nationality your roommate is, at least you should know what kind of thinking and behavior people of this nationality are, especially their life taboos, otherwise you will get into trouble.

Secondly, try not to express dissatisfaction with the country or nation to which he belongs, especially some people in the world who are very sensitive to such topics, and you should know the shortcomings of their country or nation.

Also, I overcame my nervousness when facing a foreign roommate, and over time I got used to it and didn't think the other party was a foreigner.

Of course, if the other party is from Western Europe, Eastern Europe, North America, South America, Australia, Japan and South Korea, generally more educated, if you don't do too offensive things, you can get along well, if it is some countries, the situation is probably not very good, if it is really unacceptable, try to propose to change the room, this I have experience, my original roommate is three Arab, love to bully, always physically with people are very excessive, but they think this is just a joke, and, when I was taking a shower, they kept knocking on the door, Urging me to hurry up, very disrespectful, and love to use religious words to scold people, and have violent tendencies, I mentioned this to the dormitory manager, the dormitory manager warned them, and persuaded me to change rooms, and then I saw that they were still the same as always, so I decided to change rooms, and now my roommates are two Russians, and they get along well.