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Anonymous users2024-02-06I want to ask you, in the four years you have been in love with him, have you understood him as a person? What is the purpose of giving up because he has no money? Is it because he is afraid that you will suffer with him or is he unable to raise the money?
You should figure this out. Also, although his parents are thinking about whether he will change his mind like his father, although it makes sense, but in the past four years you have been together, if you are not even sure of this, then you have not reached the point of marriage. Not all the sons-in-law who guard the door are what you say, according to what you said, he is still a little unhappy, which means that he also has his own ambitions and ideas, but he is also powerless when you have too much bride price.
Since you are reluctant now, I think you can't tell him what to do directly. But I think you should knock on the side and ask him what we should do, what is his idea, and then you have to give him encouragement, stand with him, and let him prove to your family that if he doesn't have money now, it doesn't mean later. This kind of thing, you have to stand two people together to solve the problem, and you can't shake it, otherwise things will be really bad.
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Anonymous users2024-02-05For a man, the door-to-door son-in-law is a little uncomfortable, but if he loves you, everything is OKI don't want the best, I wish you happiness, and I'm also working hard for my girlfriend.
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Anonymous users2024-02-04You can let him go to work in Zhejiang, if he finds a job, I think the salary in Zhejiang is not low, let him take his time. Living in Zhejiang can have more opportunities to contact your parents and understand each other, if he loves you, he will abandon everything, and his hatred for your parents will slowly fade; Of course, if he doesn't love you, it can't be compared; On the other hand, as the saying goes: the more the mother-in-law looks at her son-in-law, the more pleasing it is, as long as he is self-motivated, are you afraid that she can't afford to buy a house?
Now you can take out a loan first, and when the time comes, the two of you will work, and you will pay it back slowly, and you won't be able to pay it back; If he doesn't agree to this, then don't want this man, he doesn't love you!
Girl, I wish you happiness! Don't think about it
I gave my advice and try it if you can.
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Anonymous users2024-02-03How to say about emotional matters, it is difficult to judge, everyone has a lot of pressure, especially young people nowadays, I am not married, I am 27, there are 4 brothers in the family, not to mention buying a house, it is difficult to get married. The key depends on your own mentality, everyone lives together happily, as long as you can live, don't your parents say the same.
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Anonymous users2024-02-02Is 24 years old a lot?! You're in a hurry, aren't you? The girl entered the siege so early, every day with oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea, you just have to wait to see what kind of attitude he has, if he is firmly with you, and he is also very self-motivated, he can still consider making money with his own efforts, machismo is not a reason, girls still have to be reserved, otherwise they will suffer everywhere in the future!
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Anonymous users2024-02-01It's an exaggeration. 20w。。It's up to you, do you care about him, or do you care about your family and money, you can't get both.
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I understand you very well Because I also came from that time In fact, the key to this matter depends on how deep the relationship between the two of you is Whether you plan to live together sincerely First of all, put aside the opinions of your parents, relatives, and friends No matter how difficult it is, even if you have nothing, are you willing to go on like this with him, then change positions, is he willing to die with you If both of you are willing, then you can try to convince your parents to look at your own conditions first, not very good, the job is not stable, and no one wants to find a husband who has no money and no house But if you find someone who has money and a house, will he be able to look down on you Even if he really feels sorry for you When two people are angry (there is no husband and wife who don't quarrel) he says that this one is not as good as him and that is not as good as him Will you be happy in your heart But people are telling the truth People are not born poor all their lives If you really love each other, go and persuade your parents and then work hard together for the future You are still young Success will not be far from you (when I married my husband, I didn't even have money to take a wedding photo, my mother's conditions were not very good, and I didn't hire anything.) But now we're not doing well.)
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Since the child is yours, you have to take responsibility, as a father of others, you should earn money to support your children, don't be so cowardly, your children will be born, you have no way to choose, either give birth to a child and live well, or beat the child, but you think that you are a real husband and you must give birth to the child, only the dead in the world cannot make money, you must do your best to support the child, believe me, you will never regret it.
Personality determines life, your boyfriend has such a personality and can't help it, you must know that it is stupid to want to change a person's character, in fact, in his heart, he is very nervous about you, but his expression is different, some people are very direct, and some people just keep everything in their hearts.