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I spent 3 years dealing with college classmates, but failed, so I simply avoided it.
Sometimes running away is the best way to deal with it. Do what you love. Don't grieve yourself. And I want to remind you that if you are escaping, it will take a lot of time to get out of your current state, because you have such a good memory!
The simple way is to disrupt the current habits, and make yourself a little messy, and when you don't know what to do, you won't have time to rate those troubles! However, you will find that this may be tiring, but it is very leisurely and at the same time very stressful.
Don't watch sentimental TV shows during this time, as you'll be even more sentimental.
I don't know what is going on with you and your friend, but I want to say that maybe she is not a friend in your life who will be with you for a long time, so why care?
The real world is chaotic to be honest, I'm used to retreating into the middle of nowhere, it's not that I don't fit in but I don't want to do too much suspicion! So I play games, at least, I often get relaxed. So I also recommend that you play a game and play it at your leisure, so that you don't have to think about things that you shouldn't think about in the first place.
Another thing I want to say is that emotional people tend to put themselves in a desperate situation of thinking. There are many things that are not justified, like why I didn't win the 500w jackpot. The more I think about it, the more I suffer myself.
I suggest that you disrupt the current rhythm of life so that you have no time to think about things in your working hours, and let you play games in the hope that you can see other things in your spare time!
There is a classic old saying, "It's hard to get confused". I hope you can be confused once, maybe your current troubles are no longer troubles!
Hahaha, I can help you so much, 4 years of college, my only gain is "escape" and "confusion"!
If your problem is solved, don't promise me anything, otherwise I won't be able to stand it!
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People are complex animals, and if you think so, there is nothing wrong with them, so you can naturally associate with them, and you don't care about right or wrong, but you have to be principled.
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You have a good mentality. Need.
1.Evaluate yourself appropriately.
2.Good at discovering changes in one's own emotions and behaviors, and then positive psychological suggestion.
3.Learn to socialize with others and create a good interpersonal and family environment.
4.Develop good habits.
5.When encountering difficulties in real life, you should be optimistic.
6.Participating in physical exercise can regulate people's nervous system, vent people's depressed emotions, and bring people a good mood.
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What's wrong? To unlock the bell, you still need to tie the bell, and it's good if you have nothing in your heart.
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Study earnestly and diligently; Family understanding and communication; Friend expression; Communication.
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It's very simple, be warm-hearted, and don't get angry at every turn. I don't know if it helps you, but I'm usually like this anyway.
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Be quiet, don't think about it, and you'll be fine
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