Tell me what it s like to have a mother full of negative energy?

There is a feeling of a mother who is full of negative energy, that is, no matter how suitable it is, she is pouring cold water on me, and she does not bring me a more positive attitude towards life.

There is a mother full of negative energy, and I feel that I am infected by it all the time, and many times, I have become negative energy.

I think it's a very bad experience to have a mother who is full of negative energy, and life is very unfortunate, and she complains all the time.

Having a mother full of negative energy feels very bad, every time she comes home she sighs, and then I feel very depressed.

If there is a mother full of negative energy, sometimes it is particularly helpless, I feel particularly inconsistent with his three views, I don't know what to do sometimes, I quarrel inexplicably, that is, once an old man fell to the ground, and then my mother said don't help him, what if he blackmails you, and then I was very angry, I said how can you think so, and then the two of us quarreled and felt like they would quarrel at any time.

My mom was full of negative energy during menopause, and my dad and we would be very tolerant of her, telling her some positive and optimistic things to help her come out.

My husband is now driven by my positive energy to be very positive about life and work very hard, as for the little brother-in-law, he is still being instilled with a negative energy attitude towards life by my mother-in-law, full of invisible pressure and negativity in life, young and lifeless all day long, and his mind is very heavy. My husband and I often enlighten him, and now he contacts my husband first when he encounters something, and he is becoming more and more reluctant to communicate with his mother.

I think it's especially painful to have a mother who is full of negative energy. It's very depressing to come home every day.

Having a mother full of negative energy sometimes feels that she is also very depressed.

I think you should try to say as many encouraging words as possible to your mother, and at the same time tell her that she sighs like this is also very stressful for you.

I think you should listen to her as little as possible, and you can move out to live with such a mother, and sometimes try to comfort her as much as possible.

I think you should let him go out and play more. Tell him that life is not so bad, and that you must not think about things too hard.

Hello dear! We're happy to answer for you! There is a mother with negative energy, which is the "great disaster" of the child, and the child will be unhappy.

A child's childhood should be happy, and there is a mother with negative energy, who magnifies the child's shortcomings every day and keeps nagging. It is difficult for children to be particularly happy if they are angry with their children at every turn, and compare them with other people's children. Children are prone to pessimism, and mothers who lose self-confidence and negative energy have pessimistic personalities and obvious emotions, which have a great impact on their children.

If the child has such a negative role model, he may become cowardly in character, lose self-confidence, and have a very poor ability to resist blows.

There is such a parent, her child is particularly good in primary school, and of course the grades of junior high school cannot be wrong. However, with the increase in the number of subjects and the deepening of the difficulty of junior high school, coupled with the increase of the child's own bad habits, the child's grades fluctuated in the first year of junior high school, and the second year of junior high school was obviously inadequate.

The reason for this is that on the one hand, the child, and I think the biggest problem is her parents, especially this mother - she gives the child too much negative energy!

In the summer vacation of the first year of junior high school, the children were left to do a good job of preparation, and as a result, when the children were not suitable for the start of school, they always complained in front of the children that the teacher left too much homework. In secondary school, the number of subjects has increased from three to seven, and even if there is not much homework for each subject, it adds up to a lot! But if you don't let your children go during the summer vacation and do some pre-study, the situation will be much better.

What's more, complaining about the teacher in front of the child will increase the child's disgust with school, and it is strange that the child does not regress.

When the child wanted to catch up, the mother began to feel distressed again, and posted on Moments, how long did the child stay up when he studied, and even matched with the ** when the child was studying at home. When the child is doing homework, when the mother's photo is clicked in order to send it to the circle of friends, have you ever thought about affecting the child?

If you feel distressed when your grades are good, and complain in front of your children when you are bad, will such a mother raise a positive child? When encountering children's problems, I advise mothers to communicate with the school, teachers and children diligently, and find the crux of the problem and the solution is the right way! You must not play the role of "negative energy" and drag the child's "hind legs"!

To a certain extent, you can feel that your father actually connived at your mother's development into what she is now, so your mother's personality will become more and more intense, because your father's behavior has not been well resolved from the beginning, so gradually it has also made your mother in a dominant position when interacting, so of course, it also makes the relationship between the sexes not to an equal relationship, but to have a hierarchy, so that one of your parents is in an active position and the other is in a very passive position.

But landlord, if you can realize this situation, it also shows that you have a strong sense of observation and insight, so I also praise you for your courage.

Because you have some courage to help your family change the current situation, although it will be a little difficult to change, but only if you persevere, your family will undergo some changes, but it just takes time.

In fact, the reason why your mother is what she is now, your father also has to bear some responsibilities accordingly, because the quality of the relationship between the sexes depends on two people, not one person. So, to a certain extent, your father is also the key person who caused your mother's current character, and I think you also have deep feelings, so you will write out some of your father's characteristics.

In the description, you mentioned that your mother always said some critical information, which to a certain extent also indicates that your mother is in a more anxious situation, although what she said has caused you a lot of harm, but at the same time, these words she said are also hurting herself, maybe this line of expression is not right, but she does not really understand the appropriate way to comfort others, so she will use an extreme way to comfort your father, although the words are very bad, but this represents your mother's concern for your father.

In this regard, I have also summarized some ways to help you alleviate the current situation, I hope it can help you to a certain extent.

1) Take it easy and take your time, because you are aware of your current situation, so don't worry too much, because too much worry will make you very uncomfortable at the moment.

2) Try to communicate with your mother and express your thoughts and feelings, instead of suppressing your feelings and thoughts too much, for example, you can say that she has some practices and how you feel about them, instead of saying too much about how she does it.

3) You can also communicate with your father, say some actions you want your father to do, and move them with emotion and reason.

Instead of letting the father continue to do what he did before, without making any changes.

4) If conditions allow, you can try the family** to better solve the problem, rather than letting the family develop.

5) Have more family meetings to integrate the views of you, your father, and your mother on some things, rather than letting some misunderstandings cross between you, so communication will be particularly important.

For people who have too much negative energy, I most likely want to stay away, whether it is my family or friends. After all, she is your mother, you can try to change him, do more things that make people feel happy and happy, and use more positive energy to drive her.

Be happy, and then you can give each other gifts, you can take each other for a walk, bask in the sun more, you can give each other care and love, you can celebrate your mother's birthday.

You must learn to let your mother relax, pay attention to the way you communicate at this time, and sometimes don't blame each other, everyone's personality is like this.