What is it like to have a friend who makes you burst with negative energy?

Sometimes I really want to kill him, and I can't stand it.

It's just that she didn't get depression yet, I got depression first, and I just wanted to talk about it before going to bed after working overtime, but she was complaining about this and that.

I felt like I was just her emotional trash can, she was forever complaining to me and completely disobedient to the comfort and advice I gave.

I feel a little blocked in my heart, and the laughter won't last long before it ends, and my happiness can't affect that guy at all! Will be disappointed.

Especially when I was under a lot of pressure, I had to listen to her complain about receiving her negative energy, I almost wanted to commit suicide, it was enough, so angry that I couldn't sleep.

Who is it to see this kind of person who hates this kind of negative energy explosion to stay around, and who is it to see if he wants to die? It made me feel bad.

Negative energy is bursting, often cynical, like the whole world owes her, pretending to be pitiful and crying in front of relatives and friends at every turn, how sorry for her again, I really want to stay away from her!

The whole person became irritable, especially hated this, and felt that his Lotte was consumed by her, and he didn't listen to any persuasion, and he kept living in his own world.

Like a black hole, I felt like I was constantly absorbing my own light and heat, and it didn't change at all, swallowing up all my enthusiasm and patience.

They are all people whose hearts are higher than the sky and whose names are thinner than paper, and this mountain looks at that mountain high. I always feel that others are happier than myself, but I don't know that it is all a problem of my own mentality.

To actively guide each other, we must keep each other away from negative energy, and we should also pass on positive energy to each other at ordinary times, and both people should become better.

You should take the initiative to keep a certain distance from each other, and you should not have any communication and communication with each other in your life, nor should you maintain a very close connection with each other, otherwise you will make yourself a person with negative energy.

You should take the initiative to talk to each other, and you should also improve your own thinking and the other party's thoughts, so that the other party can become a positive person, and the two of you can become good friends.

Try to understand people with negative energy, because their stupid hearts are extremely inferior and fragile, try to communicate superficial content, do not talk deeply or entangle, if Bituan has the ability and love, you can give people with negative energy sincere smiles and acceptance, but do not get too close to the side wisdom, so as not to be infected.

Usually you must take him out to play, let him see the great rivers and mountains of the motherland, and encourage others in the world, it is not as bad as you think.

First of all, you must communicate deeply with the other person, and then express your views to him, and at the same time let him enjoy the problem, so as to solve the problem.

First of all, you must have an optimistic heart, otherwise many times what your friends do can make you burst with negative energy.

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People with the same frequency will be attracted to each other, what kind of person you are, and what kind of friends you will naturally make.

But if one day, you find that the other person's negative energy affects you and makes you unhappy, it means that you have begun to disqualify.

And emotions are contagious, people who are easy to empathize, if you don't want your emotions to become bad for no reason, it's best to stay away from people with negative energy.

Unless you are willing to sink into the whirlpool of negative energy with your friends without a bottom line, you can't extricate yourself.

People with their own negative energy are like a swamp with grass on the surface, no matter how bright and tidy its surface is, once you fall into it, the more you struggle, the deeper you will sink until you can never escape again.

The best thing to do is to just stay there and not make unnecessary responses.

Moreover, no relationship, whether parent-child, lover, or friend, is obligated to sacrifice indefinitely in order to maintain a relationship, including sacrificing one's own emotions and good spring time, to accommodate the other person.

The best relationships are one that fulfills each other, not sacrifices each other.

So unless you are willing to sink into the whirlpool of negative energy with your negative energy friend, otherwise, the best way is to release each other, if he wants to change the situation, do his best to pull a hand, if he is willing to continue the negative energy, you can fulfill him.

1. The most important characteristic of people with negative energy is that they lack the ability to check reality and lack basic self-reflection skills. Yes, they don't know it.

2. Being seen is the greatest comfort to a person, and being ignored is the greatest torture to a person. The reason why we are willing to continue to give for a person is sometimes not that he gives us anything in return, but that he sees our efforts.

3. "How good it would be if you understood me" is a kind of negative energy; "If I knew you, how good it would be" is a positive energy.

4. No matter what the relationship, no one owes you.

Whatever you've done on your own initiative, it doesn't have to be an exchange.

And no one is supposed to do anything.

5. "Why don't you ......"It's a negative energy; "Thank you for ...... me"It's a positive energy.

Friends with negative energy will affect your mood to a certain extent. If your friends are always complaining in front of you that this is not good and that it is not good, then even if you are a positive person, you will become negative after being with him for a long time.

You can talk more about positive things in front of this friend, and try to make him bright and cheerful; If you can't change the ta, then it is recommended that you stay away slowly and don't let the tata turn you into a negative person completely.

Dear subject, hello, it is a pleasure to communicate with you.

Regarding this problem, we can use the method of "doing what we can" to deal with.

When you feel that your energy has been overwhelmed by the other party's negative energy, or you can temporarily stop and change your stupidity, keep a certain physical distance from the other party, and let yourself return to your own life and work on the normal track first, I believe that no one can blame you.

After all, we first have to solve our own problems, and then on the basis of spare power, we will influence others.

About Boundaries.

1.Is your status affected?

2.Can this impact be controlled?

About [expression] - tactfulness, sincerity is enough.

1.I'm sorry, but I've been in need of a bit of a correction lately, but after a while, we'll continue to talk about it, you think?

2.I really don't know what else to say about your status, nuclear oak but I care about you, or if you need some professional help, I introduce you to some professional consultants.

Sometimes a friend's complaint is just a complaint.

And sometimes, behind the spit is "a thousand holes", I hope you can help those, you can help, others if they are beyond the ability to cope, or refer others will be a good choice.

I hope you are getting better and better, this is the immortal people.