What should I do if I have a boyfriend who has negative energy and is a bit na ve?

First of all, are you in love with this naïve and annoying boyfriend, if he deserves your love, or you really love him, then everything is fine, maybe his childish and annoying performance is a relaxed and down-to-earth performance of life with you, I am with my wife sometimes I feel that she is very naïve and annoying, but there is no way who calls me to love her, in fact, some childish actions can increase each other's affection, and it is also very interesting for two people to be together appropriately with some small "troubles", The important thing is to see how you look at his performance.

Being with someone who has too much negative energy is like eating a dish with too much salt and salt, and the more you eat, the more uncomfortable it becomes. You have to be strong enough to influence him, otherwise forget it. No one owes anyone, so don't blame yourself, even if you're a friend, you can care about helping him.

You can't cause your subsequent regrets because of this little kindness.

I have an ex who is two years younger than me, and when we first started talking, I was very cute about him. He has a bit of a baby voice, just when he was in the voice change period, as soon as he talked to him, he was instantly crispy. After talking for a long time, I realized that he was too clingy.

Look for me after class, look for me if you don't listen to class, talk for 2 hours before going to bed, and give me a slash in physical education class if you have a hand. I quarreled with my family and told me, and when I won a game, I also said that I reported everything in detail. I feel that I am not in love, but I have found a son, not only to be a confidant sister, but also to be a mother to coax him.

Then I couldn't stand the breakup, and then he threatened me with self-abuse. So girls must find a suitable partner when they fall in love, if you enjoy thinking about him everywhere and worrying about the feeling of being needed, a naïve boyfriend will be more suitable for you. But on the contrary, if you yourself are more changeable and unstable, don't challenge this kind of boyfriend.

I am a person who likes to talk about sibling relationships, and I have come to the above conclusion based on the common characteristics of multiple boyfriends. I feel that many boys will never grow up, not that they are really naïve, but very immature towards people and things. Doing things without thinking and acting on your whim is the biggest manifestation of naivety.

My first love was not a few days away from me, but it felt like we were several years apart. In the past, I would tell him my buckle password or something, and he would log in to check my chat history. Once, my high school best friend told me about her troubles of being chased, and after he read the chat history, he directly used mine to quarrel with her.

Not only her, but my other good friends quarreled with them. It's in a dilemma, I'm really super angry, my friend, you can't look past it, why do you just use my identity to quarrel with others! In the end, I had to apologize to my friends one by one and explain it well.

As a result, since then, I have gone out with my friends and never dared to take him, on the one hand, I am afraid that he will have a bad temper, and if it doesn't go well, he will directly put a bad face on my friend, and on the other hand, my friend doesn't like him.

It is most difficult to find happiness in a lifetime, and naivety can be said to be a kind of childlike innocence, and simplicity is not a good thing. Of course, if your boyfriend is too naïve, your sense of security will not be strong, and not seeing future love will make you hesitate. Thousands of pampering in one is what every woman desires, annoying isn't it also a kind of pampering, and never wanting to leave you will make you bored.

Of course, it is not unreasonable for the saying that men who revolve around women have no "promising".

Radish and cabbage have their own love, who is not from naïve to mature, don't say each other's stupidity like a joke, you really don't deserve to have this kind of stupid person, you can't play if you're shrewd, you look down on the stupid, it's difficult to do, a little naïve in maturity, a little fun in naivety, it's not a kind of happiness, it's a pity to miss it.

There is a person with negative energy around him, and he will finally have a face, and that face is not the sometimes sunny and sometimes melancholy that everyone likes, but a melancholy, in layman's terms, if you have a joy, I have a joy, everyone shares it together, everyone is full of happiness, on the contrary, if you are full of negative energy, others see it and are unconsciously infected with this unhappy atmosphere, no one wants to be unhappy all the time, so negative energy people, there is also a lack of friends around them.

I think this situation should be broken up. I understand what you're saying, I have a colleague who feels naïve when he talks and understands, he shows his maturity by drinking and smoking, learning to be cool and so on, but he's your boyfriend, and your boyfriend is very motivated and works two jobs, so it's not much of a problem if you say it's okay. It's obvious that he likes you, his naivety may be the result of a pick-up, in fact, he thinks it's very romantic, I personally don't like to drink and smoke, but young boys rarely don't smoke and drink, is he smoking and drinking to show his so-called maturity?

<>I think your boyfriend is very good, and he wants to do better and do two jobs, as for drinking and smoking, as long as it's not a big problem, it's okay, however, as for the teenager, it may be a channel that you don't have for the time being, but it may affect each other in the future, and he will become more and more mature, but I think he loves you more than you love him, then you have to think clearly and understand, if you don't like her, if you can't accept his childishness, then you don't waste each other's time and feelings. If you think you still like him, then his childishness is not a big problem. The most important thing you should consider is whether you really like him or not.

One is a sign of immaturity, childishness, as you said, not feeling the calmness of adults, childlike innocence, and not thinking about the consequences, which can be the worst. If that's the case, the relationship was on a whim and he hasn't thought about your future yet, which is also a good reason to end the relationship. The other is that his view of love is like this.

No one stipulates that love must be mature, perhaps it is a real temperament that sees through life. Some people say that our generation is always young and pretending to be old. As they get older, they become more and more naïve.

There's nothing wrong with that, but it depends on how you think about it. As the saying goes, women don't stay, and men don't work.

This question still has to be communicated with her Peng Zhao boyfriend in depth, after all, there is still a long way to go. You have to be tolerant and learn to put yourself in the shoes of others. When you encounter a disagreement, think about what you would do if you were the other person, so that you can go further.

Jujube and Yuself always believe that in a relationship, it is about enjoying happiness and fun. If a relationship has left you feeling depressed and disappointed for a long time, then why should you be in a relationship?

Maybe it's not the right time, when you get older, you will naturally mature with more experience. It's just that some people are earlier, and some people are late.

Are you too mature, or is he really naïve, and if so, how did you end up with him in the first place? If it's naïve on the surface, it's fine, if it's naïve on the inside, then you have two choices, go on, then you will have a feeling of taking a penis, break up, as long as you are ruthless.

It's a good thing to accompany him naïve, innocent and innocent.