If two people who truly love each other, shouldn t they tolerate all their shortcomings?

You don't have to have someone to love, but you have to love someone well!

When you have experienced loving and being loved, and learned to love, you will know what you need, and you will find the most suitable person for you and be able to get along for a lifetime.

But sadly, in real life, people who truly love each other for various reasons may not be able to be together;

The one you love the most often doesn't choose you;

What loves you the most is often not what you love the most;

And the longest-lasting, it's not what you love the most, and it's not the one you love the most.

Only the person who appears at the most suitable time will really be with you forever!

No one deliberately wants to change his mind, he really loves you when he loves you, but he really doesn't love you when he doesn't love you, and there is no way to pretend not to love you when he loves you;

In the same way, there is no way for him to pretend to love you when he doesn't love you.

When a person doesn't love you and wants to leave you, you have to ask yourself if you still love him (her), if you don't love him (her) anymore, don't refuse to leave for the sake of poor self-esteem;

If you still love him (her), you should want him (her) to live happily, hope that he (she) is with the person you really love, and will never stop it, if you prevent him (her) from getting real happiness, it means that you no longer love him (her), and if you don't love him (her), what right do you have to accuse him (her) of changing his (her) mind?

Love is not possession!

You love the stars, and it's impossible to take them down and put them in the basin, but the light of the stars can still shine into your room.

In other words, if you love someone, you can also have it in another way, so that the lover becomes an eternal memory in your life, and if you really love someone, you have to love him as he is, love his good, and love his bad:

Love his strengths and his shortcomings, and never want him to become what he wants because he loves him, and if he can't change, he won't love him.

You can't tell the reason for really loving someone, you just know that no matter when and where, good or bad, you want this person to be with you;

The real relationship is that the two can stay together in the most difficult situation, that is, without the slightest requirement.

After all, feelings must be given, not just wanted to be gained;

Separation is an inevitable test, and if your relationship is not stable enough and you have to admit defeat, true love will not turn into resentment.

When the two are in love, they like to make each other swear and make promises, why do we swear to each other, it is because we don't believe each other, we don't believe in lovers at all, and these mountain alliances and sea vows are very unrealistic.

The sea is dry and the earth is barren, but it can't change my love for you!

knowing that the sea will not wither, the stones will not rot, the earth will not grow, and the sky will not be barren;

Even if he could, he wouldn't live until then.

When making a promise, be careful, don't make promises that can be fulfilled, it is better to promise what you can't do, anyway, it doesn't matter if you can't do it, remember that "impossible promises are the most moving".

In love, one thing is said and another is done;

The speaker does not believe it, and the listener does not believe ......

Who have you met in the vast sea of people? Who met you again.

To love is to love him or her all, both good and bad!

But in order to see him, in order to be with him, there are many people at all costs. Some people like the kind of temperament on the other party, or that kind of voice, they will ignore other places that don't live, irritable temper, don't understand how to be polite, and even arrogant and unreasonable, some people can just accommodate it.

In short, if people are good at everything, they will be able to cover up a lot of character flaws. Or to turn a blind eye, to pretend not to see, and to be happy to accept it. As for what kind of glasses the glasses are, what they look like, or what the lenses of the eyes are, as long as he likes the glasses, he will no longer consider other factors.

Therefore, a person who really likes you will tolerate all your shortcomings.

A person who genuinely likes you will embrace everything about you. It is precisely because such a pair of lovers have entered the palace of marriage, and because of this, two people who are in love can go to the silver wedding and get married, which is enviable and makes many people eager to come. So in life, finding the person who really likes you in marriage is a great happiness, because there is tolerance, so you can live independently and not suppressed.

In life, we must cherish the person who likes you, and a person who really likes you will tolerate all the shortcomings in you.

A person who really likes you will tolerate you, but it is impossible to tolerate all the shortcomings in you. When your shortcomings seriously affect him, he will eventually lose it and explode one day.

A person who really likes you, of course, will tolerate all your shortcomings, because liking someone is tolerance, understanding, thoughtfulness and care, and in his opinion, your shortcomings are nothing at all.

It is true that he will tolerate all the shortcomings in you, because if he likes you, he will only see your strengths.

Yes. Because people who really like you will feel that you are full of strengths, and there are no shortcomings at all.

It's good to like someone and like some of his strengths, and it's good to love someone and tolerate some of his shortcomings. The happiness of marriage comes from love, and true love is to tolerate all the shortcomings of the other party and make changes for the person you love.

Yang Jiang's love for Qian Zhongshu is the same, and the love between Yang Jiang and Qian Zhongshu is exactly such a kind of quiet time, long water, and purer over time. It's still talked about today. Both of them are famous writers in the literary world, and their love is a timeless love affair in the literary world.

Spring goes to autumn, and it is not a good story to wait for the prosperity of this life to fall.

Qian Zhongshu once described Yang Jiang as "the only combination of three incompatible beings: wife, lover, and friend." And Yang Jiang also wrote after Qian Zhongshu's death, "We were separated, leaving me to clean the scene alone, and I missed us alone."

is such a relationship from acquaintance and love to staying together, which amazed the time and tendered the years.

I like the text that Qian Zhongshu once wrote to Yang Jiang: "Before I met you, I didn't think about getting married, but when I met you, I didn't think about getting married." "It's so beautiful, so beautiful that there's no reason not to be moved, so beautiful that people have to be jealous.

I think that loving someone is not only to tolerate all her shortcomings, but also to slowly become a better person with him.

In fact, if you love someone, you naturally need to tolerate everything about him. Tolerance is understanding, just like a sponge, which plays a buffering role, so that you will not quarrel with each other because of each other's shortcomings, and lose your temper with each other, but as I said above, tolerance is only the first step, the most important thing is to help the other party change, after all, if it is a shortcoming in the long run, it is not good for the other party and the development of your relationship, and the best result of loving someone is that we slowly lose the shortcomings of both parties when we love each other, and become better.

Of course, this does not mean that all shortcomings have to be corrected. Each of us has our own way of life, there are some small shortcomings you can tolerate, if you can make up for it, then don't be harsh to ask the other party to change according to what you think, sometimes tolerate each other's insignificant small shortcomings are actually tolerating yourself, after all, love is mutual.

To love someone is to tolerate all her shortcomings. Because in the process of getting along, especially when living together, her shortcomings will be exposed in front of you, if you can't accept and tolerate her shortcomings, you should break up in time to avoid wasting time. If it is true love, you can tolerate and accept her, and the two will run in well.

It may be a little more tolerant, but it is by no means all, because we love someone because you think they are worthy of your love, and when they have many shortcomings that you didn't expect, they may not still be able to tolerate.

I don't think so, a person always has a bottom line, and it is impossible to tolerate all her shortcomings just because you love someone.

To love someone is to tolerate her, but not all shortcomings, some shortcomings need to be reminded or corrected, so that it is the performance of truly loving someone.

Loving someone will definitely tolerate all her shortcomings, if it is true love, it is too acceptable to accept your strengths, and it is also able to accept the shortcomings you have.

I don't think I can do it, even if I love someone again, I can't tolerate all his shortcomings. Maybe some inconsequential shortcomings can be tolerated, but there are many bad habits that I can't tolerate.

Yes, when you fall in love with someone, you only see his advantages in your eyes, those shortcomings will be minimized, and the advantages will be infinitely magnified.