Urgent Help: Help two people who truly love each other

Updated on psychology 2024-02-09
41 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Trust him and let him fly!

    Your conditions are obvious! His parents also don't agree that he has a burden!

    Besides, you're so much older than him!

    He went to Japan to develop, and if he really loves you, he will find a future that belongs to him and belongs to you.

    Although the likelihood of you being together is low.

    And the only thing that can sustain you is your trust in him and your love for him.

    Although if you fail, I'm afraid your damage will be even deeper!

    However, you can always be in touch with him, give him encouragement, and give him thoughtfulness.

    That's the only thing you can do, and it's your only weight!

    But don't put too much hope in your head! The greater the hope, the greater the disappointment!

    You have to want him to be happy because you love him! So I hope for his happiness and deal with your current situation with a normal heart.

    As long as he is happy, you will also feel happy, this is love!

    Isn't it?

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    It's cruel to face reality, but there's nothing you can't face, you are in a wheelchair for your first love, do you regret it now when you think about it? The answer is yes, I think this is what you have done wrong in your life, so don't let yourself be impulsive anymore, let the people you didn't have anything to do with before, your love is hurt now. , You can live a good life before, you can give up, love him to make him happy, not to embarrass him, I know these words are cruel but life has to face a lot of impatience, I hope you don't make mistakes again and again.

    This ending is freeze-frame, and there are accidents, but that's one in ten-thousands. Hope you can be happy!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    It is the right time to let go, because all you say is the past and the present, and it is clear from all that your future is no longer bright. In fact, you also know very well in your heart that this is a fruitless love, and there are too many impossibilities between you. Instead of hurting deeper in the future, it is better to give up and look for the next stop rainbow!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Truth be told, when love encounters reality, a considerable part of people's love will be destroyed. The story of you and him is only a small dot in thousands of love stories, and I can't advise you anything, because I feel that what to do is your own business, and no one else can help much. I hope that you lovers can break through the cage that limits you and believe that you can be together.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Since the parents did not agree, perhaps for the sake of their son, they did not want his son to have a troubled life.

    If the two truly love each other, as long as they don't separate the world and the world! (under abnormal conditions).

    Hope it didn't hurt you!

  6. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    There are a lot of such helpless love in today's society. /

    I want to open it. Or you go and get a marriage certificate secretly. See if he dare. And then let him go, or you go with you. Don't let his family know. When his career is successful, I think the old man will compromise.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    After reading your story, I am very sympathetic.

    In this world, true love is hard to find.

    I suggest, you go with the flow.

    Thanksgiving life. At least it won't be so painful.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    If he didn't lie to you this time, wait for him, since you said that he never lied to you, then you have to have the confidence to wait for him, God will let you be together, give yourself some confidence.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    I'm 18 years old, and I can't really help you, but I'll be sure to bless you. I am very happy to be able to find true love.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    This question, if I were that boy I would talk to my parents again, if it didn't work out I would go three times. Of course, I'm not talking about the boy's no, it's purely personal.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    I support you, love knows no borders, no age, have time to find me, talk on QQ 502039129 my number.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Bless your true love forever, and bless me and her true love forever.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    I sighed, I can say it very simply, I don't know the beginning of your relationship

    Love you need to be very strong, only you know with all due respect I sincerely hope you are happy.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    I can only say one thing: May there be lovers in the world who will eventually become married!

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Be strong! Never let go until one party gives up aza!

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    I haven't experienced it, but I still bless you.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Then find a way to get them to agree.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    This is the test, if you really love each other, this level will definitely be passed, persistence is victory, your parents can't break you up, so they agree, you also have to work hard, make some achievements to gag their mouths.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Time is the standard that tests everything, it is best not to make your parents sad, let the other party wait for you for a few years, and see if his feelings for you are still there, otherwise it will be unreliable.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    It's very simple, if her parents are more superstitious, find a fortune teller (just find someone you know, as long as the woman's parents don't know it, it's best to make a few false testimonies to the fortune teller, so that it seems more convincing), and then you take this fortune teller to the girl's house, saying how worthy you are. Got it?

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    That has to be Liang Shanbo, love Juliet, Romeo, Zhu Yingtai.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    It is normal for people to want their children to be good and have a good support. Now I can only wait, see his future development, and his family will also grind hard bubbles for a long time. But only if you read the wrong person, he is worth your wait.

    Everyone help everyone, good luck and I wish you happiness.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    This kind of question should not be asked to others, it should be asked to yourself. Because once you ask someone this question, there will be many answers, which will make you unable to make the right decision. Think about it yourself, and things will work out eventually.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Why can't people who love each other be together? I think it's a kind of happiness for people who love each other to be together, but there are many people who love each other in real life who can't be together. So it's no use complaining.

    There are many reasons why we can't be together, and external factors such as economic ** and parental disapproval may be the most critical. I don't know what kind of person you so-called love can't be together, but it's best to solve it within your own ability, if you can't solve it, there's no way, it can only be a memory! In fact, you can think about the reason why you can't be together, if it's the opposition of your relatives, then there must be their reasons, after all, the elders have more knowledge than us, and in some cases we can listen to their advice.

    If it's due to economic reasons or distance, it's up to you to stand the test. Willingness to endure poverty and the blow of time. In real life, there are many lovers who are broken up like this.

    Because this world is too realistic!

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Fight because you both care too much about each other! Because you love too much, you will both feel tired, too tired and too tired to bear it, so you will separate. It's not about not loving each other, it's about loving too much!

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    If you really love each other, if the two are suitable for long-distance love, then it should be acceptable. It varies from person to person. I'm in that state too. Pain and joy.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    It definitely has an impact, but I don't think "distance produces beauty".

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Sincerely, at the ends of the earth, there will be many who will not, and the prerequisite must be sincere.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    Distance can produce beauty, but it does not perpetuate love.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    You can't be friends after a breakup, because you have hurt each other, you can't be enemies, because you have loved each other deeply, so you can only be the most familiar strangers

    You are still in love, it is very likely that you will get back together and continue to be lovers, if you can't be lovers, then you can't be friends, because it will be awkward to be together, and it will be weird to talk.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    In fact, it is a matter of the attitude of two people, sometimes they feel that meeting and contacting each other will affect each other (in all aspects), so they simply stop contacting. But as long as you know what you're going to do again, even if you break up, there's nothing wrong with being friends!

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    It varies from person to person, but it is possible to be friends after a breakup.

    However, it is rare to be friends, even friends may only be ordinary friends, because if they are separated, they will have their own lives and partners, and it is not excluded that there is a kind of breakup that is very good and reconciled.

    If you have loved each other deeply, at least one party will feel deeply hurt, he may be reluctant to contact again, he may be more hurt when he sees each other again, and it is better for the other party not to force it.

    It seems that after the breakup, everyone must understand the reasons for the breakup, learn a lesson, and recover as soon as possible in the next time.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    You want to be friends with him, but it depends on whether he wants to be friends too, and if he also wants to continue to be ordinary friends with you, then that's fine. It's exactly what the two of them want, and there's nothing wrong with it.

    But if he doesn't want to, then forget it, it's also very nice to leave a good memory in his mind!

    I wish you all the best of luck.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    Yes, because I have.

    Two people don't necessarily break up and can't even be friends, after all, you have truly loved each other, and I would rather keep such a little relationship.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    It's impossible, and it must not be divided. Unless you haven't really loved.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    It's a tangled question.

    The so-called breakup. It's because you wanted to hate, but you also loved each other.

    So... It depends!! After a year or two, you can be friends!! And they will know each other very well!! Definitely a bosom friend!!

    Wait for everyone to slow down! It's good for both parties!! Remember to be sincere!!

    Listening to Tanya Tsai's beautifullove when I posted this, it was quite touching.

    Hehe.. I wish you happiness.

  37. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    Love needs to be treated with sincerity, willing to give everything for her, to care more about her, cherish her love can last forever, I wish you happiness, thank you for adopting.

  38. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    You can't be friends after a breakup because you've hurt each other.

    You can't be enemies after a breakup, because you have loved each other.

    So you can only do the most familiar stranger ......

    After breaking up, don't be friends again, if you can still be friends, it can only mean that you haven't loved deeply.

    If it's a friend, it needs care, and if that's the case, then why choose to break up?

    A relationship, a journey, a journey together, too much joy and touching, too much helplessness, heartache, from true love to hurt each other, to the moment of breakup, can you still be friends?

    If you can, you must not have really loved, or it is the result of a person's grievances and desire for perfection, and there is no floodgate in the relationship, and it is not a ...... that can be closed with a pull

    It is difficult for two people to love each other at the same time, and it is even harder to not love each other at the same time......

    There is no love or hatred in the heart, and only when the throbbing in the heart is indifferent can we become friends.

    Lovers are so close, friends are so far away......

    If you can't be a lover, maybe he will say that he will be friends, but the car obviously drove away, even if he returns to the original point again, it will be a different time......Different characters, different landscapes. We've already taken a step forward, but how can we measure the same size and go back?

    It's better to keep moving forward and keep going ......

    Until you meet up again with someone else you can love.

    Don't love him her.

    Let it go, don't make excuses for your selfishness.

    Don't keep if you still love her, don't expect her to turn back ......

    Therefore, when you break up, you can't continue to be friends or enemies, and you can only be the stranger you know most ......

  39. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    Dear landlord.

    Glad to analyze for you.

    I've had your problem before.

    Hope it can help the landlord.

    If two people are serious, they are really in love

    It is absolutely impossible to be friends after a breakup.

    If both of them are just having fun

    You may also be friends after the breakup

    You can't be friends because you've hurt each other, and you can't be enemies because you've loved each other!

    It is precisely because of the past vows that it can only be a stranger!

    Even if you are friends, you can't be a real friend anymore, and there is a separation in your heart...

    If two people have no feelings for each other because of time, maybe they can be friends in a superficial sense!

    If one party still has feelings, the party with feelings will want to continue to be friends, but in fact, even friends are spoiled

    And if couples break up due to contradictions, betrayals, etc., it will only be strangers!

    What if two people become friends?

    Look at the people you once loved

    And now you don't love each other anymore

    Once you are friends, how should you get along with each other, how should you deal with it, that may only remind you of your past.

    It only hurts more

    It's better to be a stranger

    Let time fade everything that once was

    Just let it be a rainbow in memory

    I wish you happiness

    The landlord is welcome to continue to ask.

    Please forgive me for any inaccuracies!

    We look forward to your adoption.

  40. Anonymous users2023-12-28

    It depends on your will and the degree of love you have. There is no definite answer.

  41. Anonymous users2023-12-27

    People all over the world are chasing love, but love is like a polar bear, I think it's cute through the camera, and when I actually get close to it and be stepped on by it, I know what it means to be so painful that I want to die.

    People always wait until they lose something important to understand its preciousness, and when they regain it, they forget its importance again. So if you lose it, let it be lost, and live like this.

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