Is it a shame for a guy to get rich?

In the old days, it was really a shame for boys. Generally speaking, only when you have no ability, no temper, and poor family economic conditions will there be a marriage.

However, in today's era, people's eyes have long changed. Affected by family planning, our country has a large number of only children. Many people will choose to marry an only woman if they have several brothers in the family and are married to an only child.

This kind of involvement has nothing to do with personal ability, family environment and other factors, but simply for a better life together. In ordinary life, it is also necessary to take off the colored glasses for marriage. Choosing different forms of marriage according to personal circumstances is the best marriage.

There is no shame in getting rich, it's just that your parents don't agree, you can communicate with your parents, as long as the two of you love each other, there is no shame, if your parents don't agree, then there is no need for the two of you to continue dating, because it is impossible to get parental consent for this kind of thing.

There is no shame in making money. The first way is the path you choose, whether you are happy or not has your own heart to know best, is just like buying shoes in our daily life, whether the shoes fit or not only you know best, as long as you think about it in your heart, these things have nothing to do with other people. Second, if this situation exists, then there is a certain degree of reasonableness, so for such a situation, there is no need to care about other people's eyes.

The world is so big, there are so many people, and there are so many things that are different from everyday thinking, so there is no need to worry too much about these things. Thirdly, from a practical point of view, this way can often reduce the pressure on parents, and this way can at least buy one less house.

Second, the difference between a door-to-door son-in-law and a son-in-law.

1. Both have the same meaning.

What we usually call a big deal is actually a boy being a son-in-law, and there is also a saying called inverted door, which is a folk custom. The door-to-door son-in-law mainly refers to living with the woman's family after marriage, and the cost of marriage is also paid by the woman, and even the bride price is paid by the woman. In ancient China, if a man was very poor and could not afford to marry a wife, then he could enter the family and pass on the family lineage.

2. Is the door-to-door son-in-law good?

Marriage is a traditional custom, and in ancient times people usually had a prejudice against a son-in-law, because the man needed to settle down with the woman and follow the woman's surname. Now that society has developed and everyone's minds are open-minded, although everyone thinks that we should abandon prejudice and pursue equality between men and women, some boys will still be discussed as sons-in-law. Everyone thinks that such a person is an incapable person, and he chooses to be a door-to-door son-in-law for the sake of money.

Therefore, if you want to ask if you are good or not, you must first realize whether you have the ability to bear the gossip and whether you have a sense of responsibility to be able to take on the heavy responsibilities of a family.

I have always thought that everyone looks down on this type of boy, especially the older generation, who think that it is a sign that a boy is not profitable to enter the woman's house. Generally marriage is the girl marrying into the man's family, and the marriage is equivalent to the boy marrying into the woman's family, so this is different from the tradition, so everyone will also point fingers.

In fact, now that society is more open, many old ideas are not too much cared about. If both men and women really love each other, but the man's conditions are not too good, then it is okay to choose to join the family, as long as both parents have no opinion. After all, marriage is a matter for the two of you, and it has nothing to do with outsiders, even if others have opinions, they don't dare to say anything.

It depends on what kind of mentality you have. It is not a shame at all to become a member of society now. , and it's normal.

My former girlfriend is the only one in her family, and her family background is really much better than mine, but when I am with him, I have to join her family, I just can't bear my parents to be unwilling,! As long as you have true love with him, it is the same for everyone to get married, and the key individual has personal difficulties!

No, as long as you truly love her, that's enough.