If it s you, listen to your mother, right?

What she needs is a man who loves her, tall enough to eat? The words of your parents are not necessarily correct, what you like is the best, hold on, and have perseverance.

It doesn't matter what we do, it's her who matters.

It's still possible to listen to your mother's words, tall and big, do you think there is still hope? If not, then show some skills to impress them, or just retreat.

Now it's about finding a job that pays well.

You must always have savings, and the family conditions are good, so that people can rest assured that they will hand over their daughters to you.

As long as there is money to go tm tall.

Yes, work hard to earn money, in today's society, money is indeed the standard by which a person is measured.

I graduated from a bachelor's degree, and my family belongs to that kind of conditions, I have a car and a house, which is okay with us, my boyfriend only graduated from high school, and now he is in the army, as tall as me, and the family conditions are very poor, my parents don't agree, but he never gave up.

It depends on the attitude of the girl.

If she is also very resolute together.

I will not give up.

If only she had given in.

Maybe. She doesn't love you that much.

To know. The power of love!

As long as the work is good, the character is good, and the economy is good, go to the tall and big sister of the girl, and see how tall and big her man is?

Talking to my mom tonight, she said, "We have to be plain, be thrifty, don't spend money indiscriminately, save money." "I suddenly felt that my mother's pattern was still as small as ever, she just wanted life to be safe, healthy and safe, and I felt that in addition to living a stable life, I also had to live a beautiful and meaningful life.

But I was deeply affected by it, and the seeds of inferiority took root in my heart since I was a child, and I felt that I just couldn't be the best person, and only plain belonged to me. This is what my mother used to teach me.

My dad valued education very much, so he worked hard to provide for my four siblings to go to college, giving me constant exposure to outside ideas. I've been studying hard to change my mother's mind. Whenever we didn't see the same values, I would always quarrel with her.

It wasn't until now, after studying her original family, personality color, and psychology, that I understood her suffering. She was born in the countryside, only studied for a few years, never worked after marriage, and was derailed from society. In fact, she is also a person with low self-esteem, so she infects this inferiority complex to our children.

However, at that time, she had no opportunity to learn, and even food and clothing were a problem, so how could she talk about self-confidence?

I don't want to transform her, but to understand her. At the same time, I also hope that I can become more and more confident, so as to influence my child to have a confident and cheerful personality.

It may not be right to listen to your mother, because if the thinking of your mother's generation cannot keep pace with the times, it will naturally make the child unable to keep up with the new era. It can be seen how important a mother's learning is. Moms must be physically and mentally healthy mothers in order to raise confident and happy children.