My girlfriend keeps giving me a shapeless pressure, what should I do?

First, find out whether your current job is meaningful to you, and whether you are doing this job is your own interest or that of your parents.

Second, clarify the reason why you quit your job because of your parents or your own analysis of yourself or market demand?

Third, sort out the pros and cons of quitting your job now, and which is more appropriate than the pros and cons of quitting for a while.

Fourth, figure out what kind of business you want to create after resigning, what are the market prospects for creating such a business, how much you can invest, what is the rate of return, whether there are other beneficial helps, and what are the disadvantages.

Fifth, after you have a complete business plan, take this plan to talk to your parents calmly and slowly, and do the ideological work of the elderly.

Sixth, when carrying out this series of actions, communicate with your girlfriend at any time, clearly tell her what you think and why you are doing it, and accept her opinion appropriately. If she is a reasonable person, she will not have an opinion.

Seventh, during this period, excessive stress can be vented through exercise, etc.

The most important thing is to be calm in the process of communicating with your parents or your girlfriend, and don't get excited and angry, because it doesn't mean anything.

The above is my opinion.

Work hard, wait for the opportunity to come, and then find your own development, your girlfriend puts pressure on you, there is nothing wrong, it may also become motivation, but too much pressure is not good! Communicate with her more!

Let it be, if your girlfriend doesn't know you so well, you have to tell him what you think, don't bear the pressure all the time. Letting go of stress is the final start of entrepreneurship.

Stress often comes from within.

Otherwise. Why don't you see it as a motivator?

If you also have an idea to start a business, can the two of you talk about it?

Tell her your reasons, and the two of you will analyze the situation together The most important thing is to ask yourself, is your so-called reason for the inappropriate timing a way to escape, after all, your current job is very stable, if you want to start a business and enter that state of life, the most important thing is courage!!

Don't blame everything on others, it's your girlfriend and your parents', say you're cowardly and get it Also: The proposal upstairs is very detailed!! Like one

Your girlfriend has the idea that most women in modern times.

Quite realistic. Maybe you haven't made much progress for a long time, and you'll have no fun.

But you also need to think from her point of view.

Who doesn't want to be stable, they can't rent a house and get married.

Even if you change your girlfriend, you may not be lucky enough to encounter unrealistic, unless she is the daughter of a rich man.

How do you want to save this love, first of all, you have to show this girlfriend that you love him very much and can't lose him, you have to tell her that fortune telling is not credible, and some people will divorce if they are good at fortune telling. Then you have to tell her that you have to bear her pressure with her, first of all, you must give your sincerity, go to her house often, be good to her and her family, let his family think that you are a good man, and your daughter can be reliable to marry you, the main thing is to solve the pressure on her family, and the family agrees to the friend's nothing!

It's useless to suggest anything Now that you have this idea Drag it out and you can't solve the final problem Sooner or later, let's just divide it The result is really the same in a different place Your girlfriend understands it You should understand it quickly and too The pressure is high, but she spoke euphemistically Divide it.

This woman said it very tactfully, and the reason is very appropriate, since he is under pressure, his fate is not compatible, and he will not be happy, so you can let it go.

Let's change it, no matter how good she is, it's useless, this is fate and no share.

Feel the same way, every day outside with a smiling face, what do we men do? It's not that no matter what you suffer outside, at least your girlfriend understands us!

Hey, there's no way, I'm too, I have to coax every day, I'm really tired!

I think that no matter how much pressure people have, they should learn to regulate themselves. My girlfriend doesn't understand, that is, you have been communicating less recently, if you remember her no matter how busy you are, I don't think she won't understand. Good luck friends!

Talk to her calmly and tell her what you really mean. Pay attention to his interests and hobbies, so that there is an intersection.

You should adjust yourself, first of all, you must recognize what makes him stressed, there is no problem that cannot be solved, you want to be the best for yourself, but don't be arrogant!

If you can't relieve her pressure, you will break up.

Hehe, if I say it, you'd better give up, the first step will be difficult and give you a headache, then it means that this girl and your personality are not worthy. If she does, she should know that this is a kind of care and love. I should be happy and happy with you.

The first step is to dislike him, which means that your starting point is different, so it will be difficult for you to get along in the future.

The words you care about are not right. How much do you care about her life, affirming everything she is getting now, such as job opportunities, work progress, etc. Don't expect too much from her, or she'll feel stressed.

Don't overdo it ... You've been pestering people to say that it will make them uncomfortable... It's better to make a joke and relax and reduce the distance...

It's because I haven't met that I feel pressured

In fact, this is a kind of psychological suggestion to relax.

The woman has narcissistic tendencies.

If you really want to be with her. I think you should start with her and start with the feeling of being a friend and take your time, after all, you are on a blind date and don't know each other. It's normal for her to become a couple all of a sudden. It may also be slower, though.

Or find a time to talk to her, tell her what you think, and see what she thinks of you, so as not to make unnecessary efforts.

First of all, you have to summarize what your problem is, emotional things are not something that can be explained in one or two sentences, and secondly, you have to understand that whether you are in love or married, it is a matter of two people, you don't always unilaterally think how I am, how will she do if I do this, you should also get to know her, pay is mutual, you always accommodate her, so not only will you be tired, she will be more tired, if your state has always been like this, then it means a problem, you are not suitable, what the relationship needs is to run in, Not entanglement.

You're still forcing people!

There are 3 ways to feel stressed.

1.Parents on the other side.

2.Work-wise.

3.She doesn't like you.

The more you push her, the more pressure she feels, and the more annoying she becomes.

It feels like she should hate you a little bit, and you should remove all the pressure on her and find a way to make her happy.

You can ask her what she thinks. Communicate with each other.

Your girlfriend has a very similar personality to me, and she likes freedom.

I've been in love many times, but I'm close to the door, and I'm afraid that my girlfriend's family will let us get married. I don't know what I'm afraid of.

For example, if there are more noisy children in the class, they should be called to manage discipline, such as homework The homework of a class is about 1 hour to be corrected, and the preparation of lessons can be done when there is no class at work, and the time is reasonably arranged and the children are allowed to manage themselves.

It is necessary to arrange the time reasonably, and try to do a good job during the day and review at night when there are many things in school. Don't do everything together, it's going to be messy. You have to encourage her often, such as when to go back and see her, and buy her some gifts.

Hehe, of course it's to talk to her, do something romantic, and divert her attention. In a word, husband and wife must share ups and downs, as long as you can treat her like a baby (child), then she will definitely feel much better!

He's stressed, you can help him. Buy him something nutritious, like pure milk, yogurt, etc. He is a primary school teacher, so you can use the Internet more to dare to have children, ways to improve children's autonomy, and then discuss with him.

That way your girlfriend's work won't be too tiring... Force him to play for a while on the weekend, find a secluded place, take his work with him, and the two of you can play and do his job. Secluded place is easy to think about and also helps to relax, every time I am stressed I do it with my other half, you can try oh I hope it helps you...

Listening to her complain is to help her decompress

Listening to her complain also helps her decompress.

I really don't want to do it, so let's change it.

Tell her, don't worry, you won't be free, you still have to be yourself, hehe, I'm like this too, my boyfriend said I'm a fool, what are you afraid of, why don't I stop you... Hee-hee

At this time, you need to do what you should do as a man, what you said upstairs is good, you can take her to relax and so on, and encourage her a lot, no matter what the first nervousness is inevitable.

Big brother, the situation at home hasn't been explained...

Hehe, for the first time, everyone has fear, it's normal, understand more, care more for each other.

As for yourself, it's good to be stressed, turn stress into motivation.

Nervousness is inevitable. First of all, your family should smile at her. Next, you have to enlighten her. This is her psychological tension, so you have to make it clear to her, but you may have to be wronged by your family. For the sake of your happiness, ask your family to bear with it.

Take her out to play and create a chance encounter.

Just graduated and talked about marriage, everyone will feel a little too anxious...

Silly girl, 20 years old at most, right? Hehe, I love to watch idol dramas or those so-called romances, right? Lie to you!

Your question is not clear, what does it mean that he does not want you to be pressured to leave you? Did he tell you or do you think it yourself? Do you think he got a new girlfriend because you hated him?

If that's the case, he's a little immature. Isn't love a playhouse? It's really in love, why is it so childish?

It's not fair and irresponsible to that "new girlfriend", right? So we prefer to believe that he really wants to break up with you, you said that you were unreasonable in the previous quarrel, maybe after a long time, he is tired? People have a limit of patience and a bottom line, and once you cross this line, it is possible that principled people will not accept it.

In fact, don't be so uncomfortable, calm down with each other first, you don't look for him, give him some time, if you really can't let go of each other, calm down and then contact, recognize each other's shortcomings, and make clear what to do in the future, even if you take 10,000 steps back, he really doesn't want to turn back, you have to respect his choice, give yourself a little dignity, after all, you have also learned from this relationship, right? Don't think about not wanting to live or anything, look ahead, life will not be as bad as you think, give yourself time, give yourself a chance. Best wishes!

You're so cute But I think you're usually too dependent on him, I suggest you calm down, no matter why he left you, leaving is leaving, no one can live without anyone leaving, I wish you a chance to have a new beginning, take advantage of it.

。。。A man who really loves a woman will not leave her, and he will not die, this is the nature of men, and there is only one reason to leave, that is, not to love. Where are there so many good men in this world who will wronged themselves?

It's all written in books to lie to you, silly girl, we're already past the age of reading fairy tales, so why deceive ourselves?

People are looking for a girlfriend not because you hate him, it's because of physical needs. Don't be too naïve, I really don't know what to say about you, this kind of society is so naïve, you just came from Mars

Girl: Give him up, he doesn't love you at all.

Generally he should have something to leave you forehead.