After the girl rejected your confession, she kept asking if you had a girlfriend

Such people ignore her.

Although the girl rejected your confession, she couldn't bear to hurt you, and she would reply to your messages, thinking that you were not bad and could be friends.

may feel that she should respect you and thank you for your confession, and she doesn't want you to be too sad and lose face, so she still replies to you politely and tries to be friends with you.

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Questions. There are problems emotional.

There are two possibilities for a girl to reply to your messages often after rejecting you: one is that although she does not want to have a relationship with you, she is willing to maintain a general friend relationship with you. Another possibility is that there is a desire to reunite with you.

Explain that the other party may like you, but the current feeling for you is average, and at the same time, they don't want to lose such a good friend as you because of rejection.

It may be tempting to test whether you are sincere with her and see if you can stick to her liking. The other situation is to adjust your appetite, tease you, and prepare to use you as a spare tire.

In this issue, let's talk to you about why some girls, after she rejects your confession, but will reply to your messages? A friend came to consult Xiaoqing before, and he said so, he said that he had confessed to a girl recently, but this girl politely rejected him.

Personally, I think this girl must be very kind relatively speaking, and she doesn't want to make you particularly ugly because of her refusal.

After chatting for a long time, you will have a sense of dependence, and you will definitely not give up chatting with you suddenly, and it may be to see how long you persist to judge whether you can like yourself.

Just because I don't want to be so embarrassed by each other, it is also possible to treat you as a spare tire, and with the mentality of being friends since you can't be a couple, you will slowly become a licking dog.

There is a high probability that it will be rejected.

Is confession and non-reply a rejection? Yes. In fact, it is very likely that he may not have a strong love for you between men and women, he just treats you as a friend, but it is not good to say it to death, refuse directly, I am afraid that I can't even be a friend, and it hurts your heart, don't worry, just treat it as a friend, don't force him to break it, don't embarrass both of you, will he fall in love with you, time will tell everything, be a confident, independent and emotionally intelligent person.

Wait patiently Although love is beautiful, but if you don't get a reply after the confession, it will become a tragic love experience, in fact, you can't blame the people who are confessed, they suddenly receive your confession, they may be at a loss, don't know how to deal with it, and forget about the things that reply to you. That's why you can't get a reply for a long time. The more this happens, the more you can't panic or choose to give up.

Confessing to a girl and not replying doesn't mean that the girl has blocked you, or that the other party doesn't like you. Perhaps, they just need a period of calmness to figure out how to deal with the decay and how to reply. Then all you have to do is quietly wait for a reply.

When the girl thinks clearly, she will reply to you with her answer. Even if the reply you wait for is a rejection, don't lose faith. Don't be like a headless fly, restless.

Recognize yourself. In fact, we also know in our own hearts that sometimes if we send a message to others, others may not necessarily be able to see our message on time, so if we send a message to others, we will comfort ourselves that the other party, if we don't reply in time, we must be because we didn't see it. But we also have to know that if a person really hasn't replied to your message for a long time, then he is actually really rejecting you, he just doesn't want to reject you in a particularly direct way, at this time we should actually know what to do in our own hearts.

Make it clear in person.

In the Internet era, more and more people have become dependent on mobile phones, and even confessions and breakups can be solved on mobile phones. I saw such a story on Weibo before, the boy proposed to the girl on WeChat, and said to the girl Would you like to marry me, the girl said that no one proposed on the WeChat bridge, and the boy said that you are on QQ. Don't you want to laugh a little, such an important thing as a marriage proposal is done through a mobile phone, I think no girl will agree, girls don't necessarily ask for a lot, but at least you need to make it clear in person.

Confession requires temperature, and we often prefer to face each other directly rather than a cold mobile phone, because through the mobile phone, we can't feel each other's joys, sorrows, and sorrows, and we can't see each other's expressions at this moment. So through I like you on WeChat, the girl can understand whether you are sincere or tentative. If you want to confess, you have to ask the girl out and tell her to her face, I like you.

Although many young people do not respond directly to their sweethearts in the process of confessing to their sweethearts, so some people think that they are likely to be rejected by their sweethearts, but I don't see the other party this way, and not responding to their confession does not necessarily mean that they have rejected themselves.

First of all, for a girl who is really rational and has a calm personality, when she meets a boy who confesses to herself, it is obvious that such a girl cannot respond to the other party immediately, because such a girl has not thought about whether the other party is really suitable for herself, whether she should really accept the other party's confession, even if she has a certain good impression of the other party in her heart, but she will not easily agree to the other party, The reason why they do this is not that they have rejected each other, but that they need to get along with each other for a while, get to know each other well, and then let themselves make a final decision.

On the other hand, for some girls who are sexually hidden and reserved, they did not respond when they met the boy's confession, in fact, it is not that such girls reject each other with silence, but such girls are actually happier in their hearts, because these girls also have a good impression of the boys who pursue them, but in the process of growing up, such girls have developed a relatively reserved and cold character, so they want to further test these boys in this way, Let such a boy confess to himself with a bright step, which can not only reflect the boy's Cheng Yi, but also make himself more face-saving.

Therefore, for many young people, in the process of confessing to their beloved, the other party did not respond to them, and they should not be too lost and frustrated, or should have the courage to further find the other party for communication, so that they can get real relief in their hearts.