How to understand that suffering is a blessing and patience is gold?

Dear landlord.

Glad for your question.

There is no right or wrong in love, only whether it is suitable or not, willing or not, happy or not. When you can't be together anymore, it's not that she didn't choose you, it's not that you abandoned her, it's that happiness didn't choose you, happiness didn't choose you, and love didn't choose you. So don't be troubled, don't be sad, you should bless each other and hope that each of you will find your true love.

If you feel pain when you lose the other person, then it proves that you don't love her at all, you just want to possess her, and you will only suffer when your possessiveness cannot be satisfied. When you love someone, what you should think about is not what the other person can give you, but what you can give her, can you give her the affection she needs? Can you give her joy and happiness?

Can you be happy with her happiness, happy with her happiness? Only this kind of love is true love, and only this kind of love is happiness!

Please forgive me if my own is inaccurate!

Suffering is a blessing, how to understand.

Some people say that young people should suffer more. This means that young people should work more and get less money, and it is a blessing to suffer losses. This is, of course, a sentence of chicken soup, chicken soup that fools people. Suffering is a blessing, and it is not understood in this way.

It is a blessing to suffer losses, and it is the traditional culture of the Chinese nation, and there is a certain amount of truth, and if it is well understood and applied, it is good. If it is misunderstood, it is a fool, or the spirit of Ah Q.

So how to understand it? The correct understanding is that it is a blessing to be able to suffer. For example, a person who has a mine at home and a lot of money, and when he interacts with poor friends, he suffers a loss in money, of course, he can only suffer a loss, after all, poor friends have nothing to do, or they will suffer, unless they don't want these poor friends.

He can afford to eat this loss, he can afford it, he can bear it in his heart, he can bear it in his heart, and he can accept it. He can afford to suffer this loss, because he is blessed enough to bear it. It can be said that only the blessed can suffer.

To be able to suffer a loss and bear the loss is to have a certain amount of blessing.

Only a blessed person can suffer a loss, if he is not a blessed person, he suffers a loss, even if he can bear it materially and is not affected, but he can't bear it in his heart, he wants to earn it back, or he has a dislike in his heart, or he quarrels and fights, or he retaliates, or even commits a crime.

Not all those who can suffer are blessed. For example, in some games, knowing that others are out of the thousands, knowing that others are operating in the dark, knowing that as long as you enter the game, you will suffer a loss, you still have to play, and you have to participate, even if you can afford this loss, but it is not a blessing, but stupid.

Suffering a loss is a blessing, and it should not be understood that if you suffer a loss, you will be blessed. Rather, it is understood that it is a blessing to be able to suffer losses, and only those who are blessed can suffer losses. Because the rich and noble should be lenient, and the wise should be generous.

Since I was a child, my parents have taught my younger brother and me not to take advantage of others, but to learn to be troubled and suffer losses, and suffering losses is a blessing. I've been following this creed all along, and I hope to be blessed! It turns out that I am a blessed person.

After practice, taking advantage of others, I always feel unsteady in my heart, and I have to keep in mind that I have taken advantage of others, and I have to repay each other when I have the opportunity, and I want to exchange courtesies. This kind of thing is too tiring, it's better to suffer a little loss yourself. It turns out that he is not a person who likes to take advantage.

So, this side suffered a loss, and that side made up for it.

Friends have dinner, they rush to pay for it, they lose money, but they gain friendship. What no one wants to do at work, I do it myself, although it is harder, but I have accumulated experience. When there is a conflict with others, I actively mediate first, and I get the understanding and recognition of others.

When dealing with the ignorant behavior of his relatives, he chose to be tolerant. When waiting for the pickiness of others, I chose respect. When dealing with the high voice of others, I chose to speak low.

On the surface, I have suffered a loss, but, in fact, everything has its two sides, and I have gained the other side of it.

I now have a happy family, children and daughters, a stable job, and a family that is always together. This is the happiness that many people can't ask for. This is the blessing I have been accumulated.

I don't like possession, I don't have strong desires, vanity, and comparisons, but at least I get by. Although, there are times when the heart is unhappy, and there are things that do not go well, but there is perfection in life. So, I'm quite content.

Others carry his LV, and I carry my little broken bag, as long as I like it, I'm happy. Someone else drives his BMW, and I ride my little electric energy to get around. I don't envy others who earn hundreds of millions, and I don't dislike them if I earn thousands, as long as I earn money with my own hands, I can earn it with peace of mind.

Others live in his big villa, I live in my small house, as long as the family is warm and happy, it is better than anything else.

Suffering is a blessing for everyone, there is no free lunch in the world, and what you owe to others must always be repaid.

Generally speaking, a shrewd person in life has a shrewd calculation, and a fool naturally has a fool's solution. Fools are not very attentive to many things, and lack some calculations and assumptions of shrewd people. However, while calculations and assumptions are good things, the flip side of good things is often a trap that people fall into.

Fools don't pay too much attention to the potential dangers around them and what they might lose, so they often don't take the initiative to attack things, so that they don't make the danger bigger, and they can eventually make a career.

Most successful people have grown up in the tempering of the years, and most of them have suffered losses and matured from losses, so as to become more intelligent and wise. If anyone suffers a loss, he is full of sorrow, as if he has lost his soul, depressed, even annoyed and cursed, and collapses, and the injured person can only be himself. This kind of injury, taking any palace secret recipe will not help, and the special prescription for diagnosis and treatment is only four words:

Suffering is a blessing! There is a sand and gravel boss who has no culture and no background, but the business is surprisingly good, and it has been prosperous for many years. Speaking of which, his secret is very simple, that is, when he divides the profits with each collaborator, he only takes the small head and gives the big head to the other party.

In this way, everyone who has worked with him once is willing to continue to work with him, and will also introduce some friends, and then expand to friends, and these people will eventually become his customers. Everyone said that he was good, because he only took the small head, but when the small head was taken from everyone combined, he became the biggest big head, and he became the real winner!

Suffering losses is a blessing, because people have the nature of profit-seeking, you suffer a little loss, let others benefit, you can maximize the enthusiasm of others, so that your career prosperous.

It is a blessing to suffer a loss, and to take advantage of a small loss. But it also takes skill to suffer losses, and those who will suffer losses will suffer in the light, and take advantage of them in the dark, so that you will be taken advantage of and grateful, which is also the wisdom of doing business.

In a sense, being able to correctly treat "suffering" is a state of mind and a sublimation of personality. Those who can correctly treat those who suffer losses are not arrogant but magnanimous in terms of material interests, not the first to seize others but to put others before themselves in the face of honor and status, and not to be self-respecting but to respect and exalt others in interpersonal interactions. Such pride and pleasure in suffering losses is bound to win people's respect.