Well wishers, comfort me, should I see a psychiatrist?

I can understand how you love your father, but if you want to earn money to support your father in the future, you have to have the ability to do it first, and you can endure hardships. Learning this thing is very boring, so you should hone your will. If you pass this level, you will be able to earn money to support your father.

If you want to make money to support your father, it is a good idea to repay your father, but how can you make money at your current age? You have to have enough wisdom and ability in society to have the possibility of getting what you want. Do you have any of these now?

Do you think your father would be happy if you went to work outside the home in your current situation? Studying in school is a painful thing for the vast majority of people, you have to put in hard work, patience, assiduity, but it is the best path, and you can gain a lot through learning, not only knowledge. That's why most people choose to study.

If you really make up your mind to raise your father, you must prepare well and study hard before you grow up. However, you can consider changing schools.

If you don't go to school, your dad will be unhappy and distracted by your business. You know?

From your description, I can see that your love for your father is very deep, and you are determined to make money to support your father, which is rare for you who are only 14 years old. From here, I not only saw your love, but also saw that from here, you are likely to have a strong motivation to learn, and I am willing to endure hardships and be willing to do a good job in learning. Are you willing to endure hardship?

To fulfill the desire to love your father?

People always have to grow up, growing up is painful, but it is also happy, happiness lies in having things that you can't do when you are a child, when you are a child, you are low, and when you go to the mall, you see more adult legs, rather than beautiful goods. When you grow up, you have more ability to do things that you couldn't do as a child, such as making money to repay your dad.

In addition, I also found that when you enter junior high school, the friendship between your junior high school classmates will be more colorful, more emotional, and more interesting than that of elementary school. Open your heart, care about your classmates, be with your classmates, and gradually, you have the friendship of your classmates, and you won't miss your dad too much and affect your studies.

In fact, your mother is not bad to you, it's just that she doesn't know how to express her love for you, your father knows how to express it, he is a person who is good at expression, so he feels a strong father's love, and you have a certain psychology of dependence. You adore your dad very much, this is not a father-lover complex, this is a common characteristic of post-90s children, that is, they are afraid that they will lose their love and lack love, and you have to exercise and improve your adaptability.

I feel that the school beats people and swears people in the minority. Your school must have been carefully chosen for you by your dad. He certainly couldn't be wrong. Feelings are still fragile. I guess there are other reasons why you don't want to study, such as friends and grades.

You're actually scared, it's not that you don't hate learning

If your dad is in a good relationship, just find a time to talk to him and communicate more, maybe your dad will teach you how to learn, you don't need a psychiatrist, you need communication

It's okay, you tell your dad that you want to try another school, and then you study, you don't have to go to a psychiatrist, rest assured, this kind of thing should not be reminded by you alone (who likes to go to school!!) ）peace cya

No, adjust it yourself!

School may be stricter, but you still need to study hard, if you want to make money, you have to learn good knowledge, it is difficult to eliminate the boredom of learning, you must slowly cultivate your interest in learning, so that learning will not be so painful, 14-year-old girl, the first period of learning, I hope you can come on.

It should be that the school and the teachers are not suitable for you, not your problem. I also loved my father and wanted to repay him for his problems. Welcome to me, but I'll be home on Friday night to get back to you.

That's not like that, that's if you want to be rich, be filial to your father, because he treats you well. Who doesn't want their parents to have a good life,

I didn't want to go to school before and now, but I still have to face it, one day you need to face a lot of things alone, it's useless to dodge, work hard, don't you want to support your father, you should be brave enough to face some things yourself. If you want to see it or if the conditions allow, go and see it, even if the psychiatrist is to enlighten you, in the end, you still have to rely on yourself. Hope you feel better.

It is necessary to go and see.

But you also need to think that in today's society, you must study hard and have a good job in order to be better with your father, and sometimes you need to know that you are also a big child and need to be responsible.

It's not just for yourself, learning is inherently painful, take your time to get used to it, kid.

No, you need to rely on it at your age, especially at school, when you feel lonely and lonely, you will miss the person who will be good to you and give you a sense of security, you cultivate your own hobbies, divert your attention, listen to **, sing songs, play basketball (boys) -

It looks like you're more dependent. Everyone has an aversion to going to school. But now in society, you can't do anything without a degree.

Since I love my dad so much. You should study hard. When you grow up, you can repay your father.

And you say the school is strict. Although corporal punishment of students in schools is not right. But believe if you do well.

Ask your dad to help you change schools.

Of course, I'm going to school at such a young age, so let's see a psychiatrist.

When our friends are facing emotional problems or psychological difficulties, as friends, we can help them seek professional psychological counseling or **. Here are some tips for persuading friends to see a psychiatrist:

1.Respect and understanding: You need to respect your friend's thoughts and feelings and try to understand their situation and emotional needs.

2.Tell them about the importance of professional help: You can tell them that the psychologist has the skills and knowledge to help them better understand their emotional state and behavior, and solve their confusion and distress.

3.Provide support and companionship: You can commit to supporting and accompanying them to their psychiatrist to make them feel safe and supported.

4.Various problems have affected their normal life: when your friend is facing some serious emotional problems, these problems may affect their normal life and work.

You can tell them that psycho can help them alleviate these difficulties and pains and regain their balance and self-confidence.

In conclusion, persuading a friend to see a psychiatrist requires patience, respect, and understanding. If possible, you can accompany them to their appointments to a psychologist so that they feel supported and safe. At the same time, you also need to respect their choices and decisions, and provide them with the necessary support and assistance.

1.Respect and listen: First, respect your friend's feelings and privacy and give them enough space and time to express their emotions and distress. Listen to their needs and concerns so they feel understood and supported.

2.Provide information and education: Share information about mental health and the psychologist with friends, explain the psychologist's expertise and skills, and the help and support they are able to provide.

Emphasize that psychologists are professionally trained experts who can help friends cope with and deal with inner confusion and challenges.

3.Emphasis on normalization: Most people have mental health issues, and seeking help from a psychiatrist is a positive act of action. Emphasizing that this is a normal, courageous and healthy decision that can help friends get out of trouble and improve their quality of life.

4.Share success stories: Sharing with friends some success stories about helping to achieve positive outcomes with a psychologist can increase their trust and confidence in the possible benefits of a psychologist.

5.Feel the importance of transformation: Help a friend realize that their current predicament may affect their daily life, relationships, and well-being.

Emphasise the positive changes and improvements that seeking professional help can bring, and remind them of their own health and well-being.

6.Suggested accompaniment: If a friend is skeptical or afraid to face a psychiatrist, you can offer to accompany them to the doctor to give them support and encouragement. Companionship can reduce their nervousness and uneasiness.

The most important thing is to understand that everyone accepts help and the rhythm of ** is different, and respect their decision. If they are not interested in or refuse to see a psychologist, you can continue to offer support and listening, and you can also recommend other support methods and resources, such as support groups, self-help books, or resources.

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Hello. Hello.

Is there anything that doesn't vomit and is unpleasant.

There are more children in my family, and then I belong to my parents regardless of my old cha, the 6th grade of primary school is in a fully closed school, I have experienced primary school violence, and I have been very inferior since I was a child, and I have relied on my sister to survive. I'm an adult now, and my mom treats me well, but I just really want to get away from this home...Sometimes I feel very strange to my family, and I can't figure out what I think myself.

You're just coming of age now.

In fact, before you asked the question, you were already doing a similar act of "drawing a clear line with your parents", and now asking me a question is just a confirmation that you need to take a rough step in your pants.

Many times, the more children grow up, the more they want to stay away from their parents, not really want to be far away, but in the face of some setbacks and burdens, they learn to deal with them by themselves, and they no longer rely on their parents to carry them. This is a sign that children grow up, and it is also a "alienation" that makes children and their parents feel a faint pain in their hearts. The town repented.