How to deal with someone who is jealous?

Put something to the side. Go ahead and move on to your own way of life and work. That is to say:

He said his, you do yours! Ignore all jealous gossip. There are some colleagues at work who often like to collect some gossip.

For example, I am going to change to a new house again, and I am now renovating. Some people will ask suspiciously: Where did he get so much money?

Even if you earn 10,000 yuan a month, you can't save that much? Could it be that his job has"After sleeping"Income or grey income? Sometimes they even poke their heads and ask you these questions face to face.

It makes you cry and laugh! Tell him the truth, right? I don't think that's necessary.

Don't tell him, right? He was not happy, and even walked away! He looked very angry.

How to deal with it: you just have to stick with it for a while! Still ignore it!

At most, it is not the answer to the question, and it is good to prevaricate in the past. In this way, after more than three months of running-in, those who are very jealous will stay away from you. You should never again establish any friendship or friendship with such a person.

It's just a colleague!

When I was in my third year of junior high school, my teacher often pushed my classmates to participate in the school's talent activities, and I was very glamorous at that time. Later, he fell from an honor student to a middle student. A withdrawn, obese short-haired girl in the class used to be from two worlds with me.

Seeing that I had no friends, she always made it difficult for me. One time in an English class, I was reading words aloud and confidently. She suddenly shouted at me inexplicably

You pronounced this word wrong, it should be ......! is also pretending to be a performance. I didn't think much of it at the time, smiled and nodded and whispered"Hmmm''.

It's really uncomfortable to think about it now.

The second time was when I was reading a biology book, the teacher's voice was low and I couldn't hear the number of pages. I asked her how many pages she had, and she yelled, "Page 21!!"

I was momentarily stunned, and thought she had taken the wrong medicine. I go to bed at night and wonder, is she bullying me because I have no friends and no use? It's very unpleasant in my heart.

Later, she actually said in front of me: "Hey! Some people are obviously not as good as me, but they are better than me, what a jealousy! "After hearing this, I immediately understood her previous weird behavior. I didn't say anything.

Ay! Tell me, how do you get along with such people!?

Just kill it, and anyone who can't see my good life will have to die.

People who are very jealous generally belong to the competitive type, and being friends with this kind of person is to let him do everything, so that his heart will be satisfied. Learn to accept and face a jealous heartIf you keep running away or fighting against it, you will find that your jealousy is getting worse and worse. On the other hand, if you accept it very calmly and pay attention to it without a crack, it will slowly die down.

So when you find yourself jealous, you might as well wait quietly for it to fade away rather than force yourself to overcome it.

Rejecting blind comparisons can easily make people lose themselves, which can lead to jealousy. If a person loves to rent and vanity, and compares himself with others every day who is richer, who is more beautiful, and who is more capable, he often lives a very tired and painful life, and when he finally finds that he is not as good as others, he will have serious jealousy in his heart. Therefore, in order to make your life more comfortable, let go of those childish comparisons in the past.

If a person is too jealous, he may lose his nature, and the beginning and process of many things will be controlled by jealousy, which will eventually lead to bad consequences or tragedy. Therefore, people with a strong sense of jealousy must learn to look at things openly, keep their own hearts, and never forget their original intentions, so that they can not lose their own nature on the road of life.

Learning to be content and happy, not to worry about oneself, jealousy is a very complex feeling, there is envy of others, there is also jealousy of others, and appreciation of others ......In short, all kinds of feelings are mixed together, which makes people really have mixed tastes. If you have to find trouble for yourself and be jealous of others, it is really an unhealthy psychology that needs to be adjusted as soon as possible. In fact, if a person can be content and happy, it can be regarded as a more secure and comfortable state of life.

Such a person should be a person with strong self-esteem, and if Na Xun turns this jealousy into a reason to make himself motivated, then it is also a good royal Min rolling machine, so he must reconcile his mentality.